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Latest Cosmetic Procedure

Nowadays, where cosmetic surgery is ever-so common, we have moved our focuses south on the female figure.  Female sexual enhancement regards anything that enhances a woman’s sexuality. This ranges from breast augmentation to a tummy tuck to vaginal rejuvenation.  Many of these procedures vary in severity and recovery time.  The latest sexual enhancement procedure isn’t even a surgery at all, but merely a shot.  Sounds simple, right?  Wait to hear the details before you schedule an appointment…it’s the G-spot-shot.

First, let’s talk about the G-spot.  The Gräfenburg spot is the area about 1-3 inches up the anterior vaginal wall, closest to the stomach. A bean-shape packed with extra sensitive nerve endings, the g-spot is still illusive in its existence, due to the lack of anatomical difference.   Basically, the area doesn’t stand out, except for what we women report.  Because it is so hard to find in general, you may have more success by exploring yourself solo.  For example, some women have found their g-spot by inserting their finger and mimicking a “come hither” motion. Search along that front wall to scope it out.  It may not feel the way you expect, but almost as if you have to pee.  Intensity is the G-spot’s specialty.  So this procedure intends to enhance the g-spot itself, not just the sensation.   It is an injection to your G-spot, commonly referred to as the G-shot.

Running at a thousand dollars a pop, the injection lasts for 3-5 months.  Most women report little to no pain with just topical anesthesia.  The doctors inject a human collagen.  This enlarges the G-spot, making it easier to hit and experience during intercourse. Most of the patients verify that it does in fact enhance their sexual experience.  Worth a thousand dollars?  That’s a matter of personal opinion.

With so many procedures (vaginoplasty, hymenoplasty, labiaplasty, pubic lift, cosmetic injection, liposuction, vaginal rejuvenation, Clitoroplexy, to name a few) it is hard to know which ones are worth the price.  Any surgery is a risk, and you have to ask yourself if it is worth the reward. If you don’t have the money, like I don’t, for something less invasive like the G-shot, there are some things to try out before going under the needle.  Try some positions that angle your body differently.  Doggy style specifically is great for hitting the G-spot, or girl-on-top with your man sitting up. The ridge of the head of his penis can rub the G-spot effectively.  For the other procedures, there may not be such easy solutions besides.  I would always advise to explore every option before scheduling a surgery.  Enhance yourself from the inside out.  Know that all vaginas are beautiful and, if all else fails, just keep tightening those Kegel muscles!

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17 Old School Terms for Sex

While faded from common use today, these 17 synonyms for sex were used often enough in 19th-century England to earn a place in the 1811 Dictionary of the Vulgar Tongue, a book for upper-crust Britons who had no idea what the proles were talking about. List courtesy of Mental Floss.

1. Amorous congress: To say two people were engaged in the amorous congress was by far the most polite option on the list, oftentimes serving as the definition for other, less discreet synonyms.

2. Basket-making: “Those two recently opened a basket-making shop.” From a method of making children’s stockings, in which knitting the heel is called basket-making.

3. Bread and butter: One on top of the other. “Rumor has it he found her bread and butter fashion with the neighbor.”

4. Brush: “Yeah, we had a brush once.” The emphasis here is on brevity; just a fling, no big deal.

5. Clicket: “They left together, so they’re probably at clicket.” This was originally used only for foxes, but became less specific as more and more phrases for doing it were needed.

6. Face-making: Aside from the obvious, this also comes from “making children,” because babies have faces.

7. Blanket hornpipe: There is probably no way to use this in seriousness or discreetly, but there you have it.

8. Blow the grounsils: “Grounsils” are foundation timbers, so “on the floor.”

9. Convivial society: Similar to “amorous congress” in that this was a gentler term suitable for even the noble classes to use, even if they only whispered it.

10. Take a flyer: “Flyers” being shoes, this is “dressed, or without going to bed.”

11. Green gown: Giving a girl a green gown can only happen in the grass.

12. Lobster kettle: A woman who sleeps with soldiers coming in at port is said to “make a lobster kettle” of herself.

13. Melting moments: Those shared by “a fat man and woman in amorous congress.”

14. Pully hawly: A game at pully hawly is a series of affairs.

15. St. George: In the story of St. George and the Dragon, the dragon reared up from the lake to tower over the saint. “Playing at St. George” casts a woman as the dragon and puts her on top.

16. A stitch: Similar to having a brush, “making a stitch” is a casual affair.

17. Tiff: A tiff could be a minor argument or falling-out, as we know it. In the 19th century, it was also a term for eating or drinking between meals, or in this case, a quickie.

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Answers to Masturbation Questions

Despite our range of clips about masturbation to orgasm – we still get a lot of questions from women who aren’t able to reach orgasm on their own or with a partner. Masturbation is such an important part of sexual confidence – we hope to dispel any concerns or answer questions you have!

1) Firstly, masturbation doesn’t necessarily involve insertion. Since we’re led to believe penis equals vagina it’s no surprise some of us think the key to orgasm is through our birth canal. It’s not. Our clitoris is our primary sex organ. It is the body part in which the nerves and tissue centering on physical sexual pleasure are located.

And therefore, for most women, clitoral stimulation is the key to orgasm. If you are unsure of where your clitoris is, check out this video by Dr. Yvonne Fulbright Guide to the Clitoris.

2) One can arouse excitement and heat through clitoral play in a variety of ways. You can use your hand, a vibrator (or vibrating apparatus like electric toothbrush!), or the bathtub facet.

The bathtub approach uses the water from the spigot to stimulate our clitoris. It’s done by turning on the faucet to a pressure that’s strong but not gushing and a nice warm temperature. Get in as the tub fills. Position your pelvis/vagina so that it is tilted upwards directly under the stream (your legs/feet are resting on the tub/shower wall).

You want to make sure the water hits your clitoris directly and provides a nice, consistent pressure. The positioning may seem awkward at first but hopefully you’ll get used to it and find it’s worth it!

3) For manual stimulation help, check out this Introduction to Masturbation video by Jamye Waxman. It provides a lot of great techniques …

4) Don’t worry if it takes a long time to climax! It can take a while – 45 minutes or more — especially when we’re using our hand. There’s nothing wrong with one who takes a long time, particularly during early masturbation, while we are learning about what type of pressure, touch and strokes work best for us.

5) Using your hand is great because it’s always available (and silent), yet it can cramp after a while. If you find it’s hampering your enjoyment or tendency to indulge, you may want to consider getting a vibrator. For information on vibrators, check out this video: Guide to Vibrators.

6) While masturbating, feel free to touch yourself elsewhere, fantasize, and take in sensations.You can also try to flex and tighten your pc muscles (the ones used to pee) as you begin to feel aroused – sometimes it helps actuate the feelings. Also, play around with your breathing. Sometime holding your breathe can add to the sensations … or deep breathing. But the most important thing is relax — take in the sensations and don’t let yourself feel bad about such an indulgence. And … if climax it doesn’t happen the first time – it will eventually.

You are not broken!!

Meanwhile, check out this video where the ladies talk about their masturbation issues. It’s a goodie! Learning to Masturbate.

Good luck and enjoy!

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Maintain Your Mane–Down There!

From full bush to barely there, pubic hair is still growing strong, but now there are a variety of hair-dos. While some trends are more popular at the moment, your pubic hair is your choice. Choose your preference. Underneath it all, you’re the one who gets to revel in your style. In this case, the style goes skin deep. Here are a number of ever-popular hairstyles:

The Original Full Bush: Some women prefer to stay au-natural. Very low-maintenance and womanly, it has the easiest upkeep out of all the hairstyles. It is good to do some trimming around the bikini line for those summer months.

The Triangle: While I call this the triangle, this can range from the pseudo-full bush to a designer geometric shape, carefully etched into your patch. Some women prefer for there to be a full bush up top, but below, the labia majora are stripped clean. This creates the same effect coveted by the bald eagles, silky smooth and extra sensitive, but still has the au natural feel of a full bush.

The Landing Strip: Named for its shape, the landing strip is a long, rectangular, well-kept patch that rises straight up from where the labia majora meet on your pelvis bone. This is somewhat of a compromise between full bush and bare, you leave a little tuft to play with.

Designer: If you have any artistic abilities at all, give this a go. Once you have trimmed the hair short, take a razor to etching around the edges for a fun design. You can change with the seasons, or by the week. Designing a star or a heart are common hairstyles.

The Bald Eagle: Go bare or go home. Very common nowadays, Brazilian waxes have taken everything we’ve got down there. Or DIY at home (very carefully!) with a flexible razor, warm water, and some good shaving cream. Women report that they prefer having no hair because it enhances sensitivity and they find the silky smoothness a turn-on.

For all of these hairdos, if you are not brave enough to have the salon lady wax it off for you, make sure to be extra careful at home. While waxing can be painful, it is quick and usually just stings for a second. The hair takes longer to grow back and overtime, the hair gets thinner, making the waxing less and less painful. That or we are just upping our tolerance! If you don’t want to spend the extra buck on salon visits monthly, DIY at home is easy and efficient as well. Note that taking a razor downstairs takes patience and a steady hand. When lathering up, be careful not to leave super scented body washes on the inside of your labia for too long, it can upset the pH balance of your vagina. Rinse thoroughly. Go slow and shave in the direction your hair grows, to avoid irritation. To sooth irritated skin, because it will happen at some point, make sure you treat it with the utmost care. I moisturize with unscented lotion (again, careful not to get anything on the inside). Most of all, like you select a hairstyle for your head to make you, well, YOU, treat your vagina the same way! Wear what makes you feel sexiest, inside and out!

Check out this video where the women discuss: Views on Pubic Hair

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6 Reasons To Play With Porn!

Let me just refute the stereotype that men are the only ones that watch porn, by saying, “I love watching porn!” And I know that I am not alone. Many women watch porn these days, as do couples (some studies say as many as 45% of couples watch or have watched porn together). A study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that these couples report having a more sexually satisfied relationship. It can create a more honest, open bond than sneaking porn on the side.

If you are going to venture into the porn realm with your partner, it is super important to be honest. What helps me watch porn openly with my man is that we are sensitive to each other’s preferences. Branch into it by sussing out what your partner is into, and be sure to let them know what you like too.

We also me to remind ourselves that these are fantasies. Porn stars are exactly that…stars. I am not a porn star; I will not be perfect every time (we don’t get retakes). Your partner does not expect you to be a porn star, just be you. Porn can be a fun way to play out some fantasies that you may not even know you have. Here are some ways to play with porn:

(Couples)
-Use it for inspiration! The porn stars have done it all. See something you like? Try it out with your partner, whether it be a scenario, genre, or position!

-Hold off! Make it a game. Watch the video all the way through before you begin your own show. Cuddle throughout or hold all touching completely for heightened sexual tension.

-Watch while you play! Go ahead, play while you watch! Since it’s you and a partner, no need to pretend that you’re not 100% aroused. Just go for it, use it as your foreplay, and keep it going by positioning yourselves so you can both see the screen.

(Solo)
-Find your fantasy! The beauty about watching porn solo is that you can pick whatever type of porno you want. There is no one else to please, just you. This allows us to explore our own sexuality. We can use it to freely open up to new things.

-Solo act! The obvious reason….to get off. There is nothing wrong with a little (or a lot) of masturbation. Porn can give us that extra inspiration we are looking for. Whether you need it or not, porn adds that visual aspect. Play it up!

-Novelty Techniques! Porn stars have seen it all. They also do it all! Not that we are trying to turn ourselves into porn stars, but it is fun to take those crazy positions and infuse them into our own sex life. Get out a pen and paper! We may need to take some notes!

There was a time that I was ashamed of being turned on by porn; I would watch it in secret. I felt that if anyone knew that I was into porn, it made me a sex fiend. We are not sex fiends, just interested viewers. There are a lot of us, women and men alike. Singles and couples alike. Instead of hiding our appeal for porn, embrace it. Find what works for you and use it to your advantage! You may be surprisingly pleased with the outcome.

Here our panelists discuss:  Ladies Loving Porn and Porn Style Sex

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Three Queef-Friendly Positions

The infamous and oh-so-embarrassing queef.  This is a kind word for what reality calls a “vagina fart. I refuse to call anything that comes from my va-jay-jay a fart because it’s way too elegant to pass gas. A queef is simply a puff of air, released. Like sticking your finger into Playdough putty, the queef is also accompanied by that similar, disturbing sound.

If we could all put our egos aside, and just accept, it’s simply science —  there would be no issue. Alas, I am but a woman, and I want to be sexy throughout the completion of any sexual situation.  Since we all know, that will never be the case every, single time, I try to keep the air light (pun intended) when a queef occurs.

A boyfriend was doing the oral deed, when he decided to flip me over and continue from behind, a.k.a. downstairs doggy style.  This small position change can be quite sexy, but as I very quickly learned, it takes the element of control. Normally, when my man is going down on me, it’s all about me.  This is my time to completely relax, and just enjoy. After a euphoric gasp, I released my muscles for a mere moment (my first mistake), allowing a bit of undetected air to enter me. While moving slightly forward to lie on my stomach, my muscles again contracted, thus exerting a loud, unexpected queef…in his FACE!

My natural reaction was sheer humiliation.  I turned to face him, blushing wildly.  Hand covering my mouth, in shame, I thought about how convenient it would have been if I had done the same thing to my rude vagina.  Not only did she ruin the moment, but I also felt less desirable. First and foremost, I reassured him that it was not a fart, but, seriously, in the face?! I mean, come on!  Could I have had worse timing?

Thus began my research on sex positions where queefing was more likely to happen. Even more so, I sought to determine those that needed careful control.  It helps to fully understand what the body is doing when that air gets in there.  Think pilates class, the tightening and releasing of core muscles.  Once in, it is only a matter of time before the air is set free.

Here are some positions that favor the “air in/air out” behavior, and some advice on how to lessen ones chances of queefing!

1) Doggy style — On all fours, when we arch our back, that arc gives way to easy air access.  We look super sexy so this move is encouraged; however, arching your back naturally opens up the body, particularly our lower half.  Doing this loosely before insertion can let air in.  Once the penis is inside, it will force the air out, resulting in a queef.   A couple tips?   Tighten your body, core muscles specifically, and keep the back straighter upon insertion.  After he’s inside, feel free to move around as you please.  Just be aware that long strokes where he pulls out completely can create another air pocket.

2) On your back, legs on his shoulders—Having your legs up in the air is the root of the problem in this position.  The legs, repeatedly pushed back towards you, also open up the vagina.  A queef can occur from the general thrusting and also from our natural tendency to push back against them. The clashing effects, if air has entered, will force it out in a loud fashion.  Again, mind the matter of entry.

3) Girl on top — Solely based on personal experience, hovering can turn that element of control to chaos.  Say the position is girl-on-top squatting, or bouncing, up and down.  These types of positions consist of exerting movement; therefore our muscles won’t be as much in our control compared to slower, grounded positions.  That movement does not come with a windbreaker, and the fast up and down movement, begs air to creep on in.

Through trial and error, you should find out what works for you. Every woman’s body is different. Of course, there is no way to avoid the queef forever. It is bound to happen whether it be during oral sex, intercourse, or in pilates class.  It is inevitable.  In my opinion, the best remedy is to laugh.

In a perfect world, I would be sexy 100% of the time.  Since that is just impossible, I am learning to put my ego aside, and just laugh.  We are human; our bodies make odd noises from time to time. What are you going to do?  I personally will not let the queef defeat me.  I have just accepted the fact that I can be a loud mouth, and apparently so can my vagina.  Laugh it off, ladies!

For more queef discussion, check out these great videos!!

Queef — The Air From There

The Notorious Queef

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Eight Places to Kiss and Drive Your Man Bananas!

“Just lay back and let me do the rest.”  Say these words to your man…I guarantee he won’t argue.  He can simply enjoy while you seduce every inch of his body.  There are many places a man wants to be touched, not just his disco stick.  (Thanks Gaga for the terminology.)  Men and women are different anatomically, of course, but “do unto others as you would have them do unto you,” applies here as well.   As a starting point, think about where you like to be caressed. Or kiss/touch a man where you want to kiss/touch him!  It works almost every time. Here are a few hot spots to try out:

1. Ears: Perfect way to send chills through your man.  A little ear nibbling can be playful.  You should also try licking, or sucking, on the lobe.  It works wonders!

2. Neck: I personally like to kiss lightly on the neck because in my experience a slobbery, wet neck can be a little too much.  Slowly, and subtly, move their head to the side, and begin your work!  Mix it up by dragging your tongue (lightly) along the muscle that stretches up to the ear.  Perfect transition!

3. Fingers: Hot, hot, hot!  This is teasing to the max.  By sucking on your man’s finger(s), you are directly giving him the visual of a blow job or fingering you.  Simulating the act with his finger gets him riled up for what is to come.  So don’t be shy, get into it!  He’ll love it!

4. Butt/Lower Back: Simply grabbing the buttocks can be a turn on for some.  A good place to branch into that is by lightly tickling the lower back.  Accompany it with some sensual kisses.  Right where the lower back meets the butt cheeks is loaded with nerve endings; kiss there to give him that tingling sensation!

5. Stomach/the “V”: We ladies love that “V”!  I mean, it even points you in the right direction!  Kissing down a man’s stomach, continuing to that V, will drive him wild.  Super sensitive, and oh-so-close to his manhood, this area is an extreme hot spot!  Set up camp ladies, it could be a long night!

6. Nipples: Some men like this more than others, but in my experience, licking, tongue-flicking, or sucking are all successful techniques.  Feeling frisky?  In some cases, very, very light nibbling can do the trick.

7. Inner thigh:  Another place that is close to his manhood, the inner thigh will be extra sensitive as well.  Kissing or just lightly dragging your fingers up and down their thighs can be very exciting.

8. Skin: So this isn’t really a spot, but more a technique.  We crave contact; skin on skin is innately sexy.  Not only is it warm and smooth, it brings you two closer together, in an incredibly raw way.  Use your body, naked!

These are just a few ideas!  So don’t be afraid to try new things because everyone is different.  Find out what works for you!

And for more on great places to kiss, check out this video:  Uncommon Erogenous Zones

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CherryTV is back and better than ever!

Hello readers!

As you may have noticed, CherryTV’s contact with the world has been limited as of late.  Fortunately, we’re back and better than ever!  While we are in the planning stages of revamping our entire site, we also want to get the conversation going about female sexuality and, well, sexuality as a whole.  That means that we are going to be updating everything connected with our world, from the blog, to our Twitter and Facebook, as well as a variety of other social media platforms.  The coolest thing?  We want YOUR input.  This isn’t a monologue; it’s a dialogue!

There is much more of that to come later.  In the mean time, we wanted to start off our return to an active internet presence with a message from CherryTV’s founder, Jill Abrahams:

I was nine years old and practicing the piano with my mom. I said “Mom, sometimes it feels as if a heart is beating in my vagina.”

She didn’t respond.  Nothing.

It was unlike my mom to ignore one of her children’s comments/questions – so I assumed the feeling was also to be ignored.

“Use it or lose it.” they say. I lost it.

Such began my own struggle with sexual self-realization. I didn’t know my own body, and what felt good, so once I became sexually active, it was a matter of doing what I thought was expected — a focusing exclusively on my partner’s fulfillment — as opposed to being present and enjoying the sensations. As I result, I wasn’t any good in bed, and I knew it. Article and advice available weren’t any help.

CherryTV was founded because I knew the information that I sought wasn’t readily available. I wanted to create a destination for women to learn that they weren’t alone – that whatever sexual issues they were dealing with were normal and shared …and can be overcome!

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So, CherryTV launched in 2008 – what’s happened since then?

Just after we went live — social media took off. We didn’t have the resources to create content, maintain the site, AND actively participate within the social media landscape. As a result, paltry engagement with our community was the unfortunate
byproduct.

Meanwhile, bootstrapping and attempts to secure additional financing burnt me out. I decided to put CherryTV “on the shelf” while I accepted other work.

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But a conflux of elements – changes within the online media environment, the fortune of finding a great CTO, the acquisition of new advisors and interns and …. most importantly, the inability to suppress my passion for CherryTV – has lead to this point.

Hopefully, when women (and men!) understand how important CherryTV is, they will lend their support in our efforts to expand.

Check back for more posts, contests (!), and details on how we plan to improve CherryTV.

Stay smart and sexy!

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Four Dirty Talk Tips

Dirty talk doesn’t always have to be “dirty”.  It doesn’t have to be wildly creative.  In fact, it doesn’t even need to be long.  The acronym, K.I.S.S., (Keep It Sweet and Simple) works in the sack as well.  Basically saying anything during intercourse can be heard as sexy.  It’s all about how you say it and when you say it.  Confidence is key.

1) I want/need you (inside me). This sense of necessity and urgency can rile both of you up.  Letting your partner know that you want them is a turn on! Robert frost once said, “Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.”  For both of you, this line will heat up the bedroom.  This sense of “I have to have you now” is incredibly hot!

2) Give it to me.  One of my personal favorites, I am usually the one saying this to my man, but he says it too from time to time.  For me, this means, go for it.  Telling your partner what you want is sexy.  With intimate communication, simple suggestions make it easier for your partner to fulfill your fantasies.  Give me your all, your hardest, your deepest, your fastest. It screams, “Go-time!” for both of us.  I love making love, but every once in awhile, it is fun to play with that animalistic passion as well.  There is a sense of rawness here in this phrase that I really appreciate.

3) You taste so good.  These words apply for many different sexual situations.  You just have to pick one.  Once you have, you can speak these words with as much determination as the act you are performing.  For the next time, you can branch out.  Any form of compliment can be considered dirty talk: “You’re so big”, “You’re so sexy”,  “I love the way you….” Take your pick.

4) Saying someone’s name specifically can be a turn on.  Adding it to any of the above examples can take dirty talk to the next level.  I love it when my guy says my name during sex.  This lets your partner know that they are all consuming your mind, your body, you.  I feel even closer, even more intimate, and that in itself is mind-blowing.

NOW FOR THE DELIVERY, it is a little weird at first trying to get out your first dirty talk lines.  Stage fright has never been more difficult to conquer.  I imagine it comes naturally to some people, and they are so lucky!  I, however, was not one of them.  I can do speeches in front of hundreds of people, but was painfully quiet in the bedroom.  As I got older, more experienced (thus, more confident) the words began to flow from me.  It was not forced.  Maybe my pillow talk is not super original, but like I said, I don’t think it has to be.  Between the sheets, don’t be afraid to start with a whisper.  Just be vocal, be honest, and, most of all, be heard!

For more information on Dirty Talk, check out these videos: 

How To Talk Dirty During Sex

More Dirty Talk Advice

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Foods of Love!

Foods of Love.  What a perfect name to describe aphrodisiac foods. Most of them are not only healthy for you, but can increase the desire for sex!  Listen up ladies!  Some have physical effects on our bodies through aroma, vitamins, hormones, etc.  Others are also sexually suggestive and help set the mood.  I’ll take servings of both, thank you!

After browsing the web, a few of these foods are considered aphrodisiacs more because of their shape than the actual, physical effect the body.  For instance, eating a banana or biting into an open-faced fig gives an undeniable mental image of certain body parts.  Some even come with hard science to back them up as such.  Here are the ones to eat in quantity!

Oysters are sexually suggestive, due to their resemblance to the female organ, fun to eat, and, here’s the key, high in zinc.   Zinc helps enhance the male libido and sperm production. Make him want you even more!  Ooh la la.

Asparagus has that phallic shape again, which can be seductive eaten the right way.  Show us your seduction skills, ladies!  While high in potassium, fiber, vitamins B6, A, C, and thiamin, the kicker that really makes this food nifty is its folic acid.   This can increase histamine production and that can lead to easier orgasms for both parties! Another long veggie that helps the male organ is a carrot.  It is said to be a stimulant for men.  Whether it works or not, at least you get your daily dose of vitamins!

Here’s another really interesting one, almonds.  Who knew?  Almonds aren’t necessarily a sexy food, but supposedly, the smell can increase appetite for passion in women.   Another nut that can easily be added to recipes is pine nuts.  Like oysters, these are high in zinc as well.  So nuts are aphrodisiacs, one for men and one for women.  Stock up!

Chocolate, a very well known aphrodisiac, is not only incredibly tasty, but is packed with tons of helpful components.  One of which is called anandamide the other is phenylethylamine.  During orgasm, these release dopamine in the brain, creating a more euphoric, powerful orgasm.  Ding, Ding, Ding!  The ultimate aphrodisiac, chocolate literally gives you more bang for your buck.

Some spices are also considered aphrodisiacs, like garlic, nutmeg, ginger, mustard, and coriander.   All of these spices don’t have as much concrete science to back them up, but it never hurts to add them to your meals.   Garlic, however, is known to strengthen your man’s member. If you both eat it, there’s no need to worry about that garlicky breath.  Besides, if it works like the experts say, you’ll both be a little preoccupied.

Any foods that are high in vitamin C, like pineapple, are said to help with impotence. Cut up some fresh pineapple or book a romantic trip to Hawaii for some intimate vacation sessions.   Fruit in general can be very seductive by simply feeding each other sensually.  Think strawberries like in Pretty Woman!

Now, my personal favorite food of love, even before I knew it was ranked the Number 1 aphrodisiac, is honey. Deliciously sweet, honey’s consistency screams seduction.  I guess that is a matter of opinion, but think of the possibilities; it’s finger-licking good.  This may be the sweetest kiss you could ever have.   Honey is high in boron, which helps the body use and metabolize estrogen (the female sex hormone).  That has to be a good sign, right off the bat.   Not only does this affect estrogen, it is said to have ties to testosterone as well. Testosterone can increase the desire for sex in both men and women!  So heat up some tea, add some honey, and have a wonderful night, together!

These are just a few of known aphrodisiac foods.  There are many, many more for we have only grazed the surface. Select your favorite, start cooking, and spice up your life…in the bedroom and out!

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