During my early sexual experiences I thought I gave great blowjobs. I had followed what I had seen in adult films, listened to the advice of naive peers and practiced my limited understanding on equally inexperienced partners. I had the idea that if I moved my head up and down at the fastest speed possible and never used my teeth, I was golden. This plan seemed to work on green teenage boys; but as I failed to improve on my fellatio skills and my partners’ stamina improved, it took longer for them to climax. It was probably due to this singled minded practice of giving oral sex that lead to my distaste for it; my neck and jaw muscles would cramp up and my lips would become sore from the friction.

My poor technique lead to a lost of confidence, and after a while blowjobs were only for special occasions; birthdays and anniversaries. I had allowed my ignorance to affect my relationships and deny my partners pleasure. I sought a brush up on my skills from more female friendly sources (e.g. Babeland, Guide To Getting It On) and came to find that there is more to the act of giving blowjobs than reenacting the day in the life of a bobble head doll. Biting (yes, teeth can be a good thing), licking, applying a variety of pressure with your lips, tongue, whole mouth or hands, and stimulating other parts of my partner’s body add to the overall experience. With my new found knowledge, I no longer think I give great blowjobs; I know I do.

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