Jill, 11/18/08
Body Hair
I can’t wait to ask the men on Man Alive!, when we launch it, what they think of female body hair. I have a feeling we’re a lot more obsessed about it than they are. Granted, there are always going to be men who are particular about grooming, but in general, I’m thinking, most men don’t really care.
It’s kind of like a few extra pounds one may gain. I know if I am 5 pounds heavier than I was a month ago (damn yo-yo!) I feel so much larger when naked. But usually, my partner at the time, doesn’t even notice.
Then, if on top of the five pounds my happy trail is in full bloom — bring on the sexy time! Ah … maybe not.
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My husband is always wanting me to let him shave me but I’ve only allowed him to do it a couple of times. I feel like a “little girl again” when he does it but he says I look much sexier with less hair down there. If it were up to him, he’d pay for me to have permanent hair removal treatments down there.
Any thoughts/comments?
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Jill Reply:
November 18th, 2008 at 3:50 pm
Hey Josey, I would suggest to absolutely not have your pubic hair permanently removed. Not only because you are hesitant about going bald (and it is permanent!!), but because they still don’t know ultimately how safe it is in the long run.
Regarding your husbands preferences vs your own … your feelings are absolutely paramount and he should respect that. If you don’t like being shaved, you shouldn’t do it (or have him do it)! Nor should you feel guilty for saying so. It’s your body and you know what’s best for it!! Besides, it works in his favor because if you’re not feeling confident and sexy in bed, then the sex won’t be as good.
Granted, I personally might be tempted to take it all off for my man on special occasions – but that’s just me. What’s important to keep in mind is that you need to feel good and confident about your sexuality. If you don’t, sex and relationships are effected. And besides – vulvas are beautiful regardless and your husband is lucky to have one all to himself!!
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josey Reply:
November 19th, 2008 at 4:09 pm
Thanks for your encouragement and advice! It’s nice to hear supporting opinions! I’m very glad I found this site.
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Angel Reply:
May 16th, 2009 at 3:21 pm
Haha you go girl! (that was directed to jill) Josey, Jill is so right. Your husband should be happy with your decisions and not press you. You own your body, not him. If you have to sit down and talk with him about it, then go for it. For great sex, your partner AND YOU have to both be happy, or else its kind of…bleh. So try talking with him about it, see if you can find a happy medium. =)
~Angel.
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Jill Reply:
May 17th, 2009 at 4:48 pm
Thanks Angel!! It’s so difficult for many of us to consider our feelings as equal to our male partner’s because society often portrays female sexuality as there simply for male enjoyment. Arg! Hopefully together we can help change that attitude.
Thanks for watching!!
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This Video was very short. and didn’t include any of the major points one would expect to find under the title of Body Hair.
I hope there will be some more parts, to do the title a little more justice.
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Jill Reply:
November 25th, 2008 at 1:37 pm
Hi CS - Body Hair — You want Body Hair?!?! I’m SO glad you asked, because we have videos galore on body hair. Check these out:
http://www.cherrytv.com/video/body-hair
http://www.cherrytv.com/video/nipple-hair-plus
http://www.cherrytv.com/video/removing-pubic-hair
http://www.cherrytv.com/video/pubic-hair-styles
http://www.cherrytv.com/video/taming-your-mane-down-there
http://www.cherrytv.com/video/views-on-pubic-hair
You can also search under “hair” and a bunch will come up. Enjoy!
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I love hair. It is sexy and exciting to see what lurks behind.
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