Deep Throat
The deep throat is not necessary for all BJs, although it is important to keep in your bag of tricks. It is like having a really bold lip gloss color…you aren’t going to wear it everyday, but you should be prepared if a special occasion or whim arises…
A lot of women say, “Oh no, I choke and gag…I can’t do it.” Well, that may be because they aren’t doing it the right way. Some women will try to shove the penis down the back of their throat…that is why they gag. Now for those of us that may be blessed enough to be born sans gag reflex, this is fine. For the rest of us, the trick is back and up. There is a space between the top of your pallet and where the roof of your mouth meets the uvula. It’s soft and feels a little spongy, test it with your finger first to make sure you know the spot. That is the target for the tip of the penis. When the penis goes into the back of your mouth, guide it up in that spot and you can even apply some pressure to it by pushing down on the head a little. This pressure will usually feel like you are swallowing it whole, which is generally most desirable for your partner.
It is very challenging to give a deep throat only blow job….nearly impossible I think. You need to throw some other things into the mix like hand motions, ball-cupping and tongue massaging to switch it up!
We know it isn’t easy, but that’s why it’s called a job…
Check out our videos on this topic: Deep Throat Techniques, Help With Deep Throat, How To Give Great Deep Throat
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I love to deep throat for a number of reasons - a) it makes my partner feel great b) it helps conjure up saliva which keeps him lubed c) I enjoy the challenge!
When I started learning how to DT, I would gag but soon learned a great trick. Basically, as he slides himself deeper, try opening your oral airway and take in a deep breath. This helps open up the vessle keeping him deep and you from gagging. As he pulls out, this is your time to release the air and inhale again….this rhythm works beautifully and easily learned.
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Thanks Dantessa! Great tips. I wish I liked it the way you do. Regardless of how I try — I tend to gag. Though … maybe it’s mental. Who knows?!?!?
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I was wondering if there is something I could practice with before I do it on someone to get the technique down. I LOVE giving BJ’s so mastering this would be fantastic!! Any suggestions?
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The is this site called pure romance and they supposedly have this cream to numb the gag reflex, never tried it but I have a friend who tried the virgin cream and said it worked and it’s by the same people.
I don’t gag so much anymore but mainly because I don’t eat before I blow. We only have time for morning sex so I don’t eat breakfast or snack before hand, I’ve thrown up on him plenty of times to learn my lesson. Also, enjoy it. He helps, when he is clean down there I’m happy, I gargle as if I’m rinsing my mouth out and it feels great to him. Then even if i’m tired, if he seems like he’s getting close I stop. I don’t know about other men out there but mine doesn’t get teased enough, he never has to wait to come unless I’m giving him a blow job- I think that’s why he likes it so much. I save the deep throat for the end, I don’t give him all my specials in the beginning or else the climax is anti-climactic. I also pay attention to his other body parts at this time, his legs, his hips. I may even straight on stop and he told me when I do things like this that deep throating is hardly on his mind because too much is going on and if I do happen to deep throat it’s just over…he has accidentally come a few times. So yeah it doesn’t have to be all about the deep throat
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