“Just lay back and let me do the rest.”  Say these words to your man…I guarantee he won’t argue.  He can simply enjoy while you seduce every inch of his body.  There are many places a man wants to be touched, not just his disco stick.  (Thanks Gaga for the terminology.)  Men and women are different anatomically, of course, but “do unto others as you would have them do unto you,” applies here as well.   As a starting point, think about where you like to be caressed. Or kiss/touch a man where you want to kiss/touch him!  It works almost every time. Here are a few hot spots to try out:

1. Ears: Perfect way to send chills through your man.  A little ear nibbling can be playful.  You should also try licking, or sucking, on the lobe.  It works wonders!

2. Neck: I personally like to kiss lightly on the neck because in my experience a slobbery, wet neck can be a little too much.  Slowly, and subtly, move their head to the side, and begin your work!  Mix it up by dragging your tongue (lightly) along the muscle that stretches up to the ear.  Perfect transition!

3. Fingers: Hot, hot, hot!  This is teasing to the max.  By sucking on your man’s finger(s), you are directly giving him the visual of a blow job or fingering you.  Simulating the act with his finger gets him riled up for what is to come.  So don’t be shy, get into it!  He’ll love it!

4. Butt/Lower Back: Simply grabbing the buttocks can be a turn on for some.  A good place to branch into that is by lightly tickling the lower back.  Accompany it with some sensual kisses.  Right where the lower back meets the butt cheeks is loaded with nerve endings; kiss there to give him that tingling sensation!

5. Stomach/the “V”: We ladies love that “V”!  I mean, it even points you in the right direction!  Kissing down a man’s stomach, continuing to that V, will drive him wild.  Super sensitive, and oh-so-close to his manhood, this area is an extreme hot spot!  Set up camp ladies, it could be a long night!

6. Nipples: Some men like this more than others, but in my experience, licking, tongue-flicking, or sucking are all successful techniques.  Feeling frisky?  In some cases, very, very light nibbling can do the trick.

7. Inner thigh:  Another place that is close to his manhood, the inner thigh will be extra sensitive as well.  Kissing or just lightly dragging your fingers up and down their thighs can be very exciting.

8. Skin: So this isn’t really a spot, but more a technique.  We crave contact; skin on skin is innately sexy.  Not only is it warm and smooth, it brings you two closer together, in an incredibly raw way.  Use your body, naked!

These are just a few ideas!  So don’t be afraid to try new things because everyone is different.  Find out what works for you!

And for more on great places to kiss, check out this video:  Uncommon Erogenous Zones

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