I find this video so interesting because it exhibits how much control women have over their orgasms – even during intercourse. It takes a lot of practice (and confidence) but reaching orgasm basically comes down to two things –  an orgasm-friendly head-space and physical-stimulation.

Mentally, we must be relaxed and present.  No worrying about that pending project or how our breasts look (because if they’re breast – they look AMAZING!) … we need to be in the moment, relaxed and aroused – even if that involves fantasy that has nothing to do with our partner.

Physically, our clitoris (in most cases) needs to be stimulated, and stimulated in a way that feels personally good.  It it’s not being touched the way we like, whether because our partner, through intercourse, isn’t making contact or because he/she isn’t touching it soft/fast/hard/slow enough, go ahead and stimulate it yourself.  It’s perfectly acceptable for a woman to touch herself during sex – it’s actually the easiest way for most of us to get off!

That’s what the women are saying in the video even it doesn’t come across clearly … that they can always get themselves off by using fantasy and self-stimulation, even when their partners didn’t have a clue.

Watch video: Getting Off During Intercourse

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