Getting Off During Intercourse
I find this video so interesting because it exhibits how much control women have over their orgasms – even during intercourse. It takes a lot of practice (and confidence) but reaching orgasm basically comes down to two things – an orgasm-friendly head-space and physical-stimulation.
Mentally, we must be relaxed and present. No worrying about that pending project or how our breasts look (because if they’re breast – they look AMAZING!) … we need to be in the moment, relaxed and aroused – even if that involves fantasy that has nothing to do with our partner.
Physically, our clitoris (in most cases) needs to be stimulated, and stimulated in a way that feels personally good. It it’s not being touched the way we like, whether because our partner, through intercourse, isn’t making contact or because he/she isn’t touching it soft/fast/hard/slow enough, go ahead and stimulate it yourself. It’s perfectly acceptable for a woman to touch herself during sex – it’s actually the easiest way for most of us to get off!
That’s what the women are saying in the video even it doesn’t come across clearly … that they can always get themselves off by using fantasy and self-stimulation, even when their partners didn’t have a clue.
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I’m hoping you can help me with this. I am 50 years old and have a beautiful new love of 2 mons. This man tries everything with me to have an orgasm through intercourse. He was offended when I pulled out my vibrator, but he has come around now. He would really like to give me an orgasm through intercourse and I want one so badly myself. We have tried every position but I still can’t have one. I have been like this all of my life. I want to experience this beautiful pleasure. I don’t have a problem orally or manually, just through intercourse. Help!
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Is it possible that you are thinking too much about it?? Since you have the physical down, I would guess it’s mental. Just relax and don’t worry whether you have one or not.
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This is an old post but it’s worth a shot. I’ve tried this, I have frequent orgasms alone and some with my partner, and there are phases where I have an orgasm every time with him, or times when I’m so close it’s frustrating, then not even close. I’ve tried to stimulate myself but it’s like my body can only feel one thing at a time and try as I might, I cannot bring myself to orgasm while he’s doing his thing. Can creams help in this situation?
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