Phone porn. Dirty emails. Sex hotlines. Web cams. Internet dating. It’s no wonder our Cherry Dishers have gone virtual! More than ever, communication technology is being used for the initiation and upkeep of romance. And with this ‘digitalization’ of romance have come many changes… Long-distance relationships have suddenly become much closer. And, rather than spending years looking in all the wrong places, people are simply clicking their way to EHarmony. Even as a girl who used to consider herself ‘too 90s’ for virtual love, I find myself increasingly putting work aside to watch who’s breaking and making up on the Facebook newsfeed. This leads me to wonder, “Is this just the way it is now?” Luckily, as “Phone and Text Sex” points out, many women are openly embracing the perks of going digital. After all, digital dirtiness can be a great way to spice up an existing romance or spark up a new one! Here are some quick tips for those still feeling a bit technologically challenged…

A ‘How-To’ Guide to Digital Romance:

(1) If you’re going to talk dirty, check who you’re sending to! Though she may be somewhat amused, Grandma probably doesn’t want to know all the nasty things you plan on doing when you get home from work. Neither does your boss. You get the point. Double check before sending any messages, especially if you’re quickly texting!

(2) If you’re having a bit of ‘writer’s block,’ look around and get creative. Digital dirty talk doesn’t have to be totally original… It doesn’t have to be straight smut, either, although that arguably has its place. If you’re struggling to find the right words, take a step back and look for inspiration. Have a favorite song? Type out part of the lyrics. Getting Chinese food for lunch? Send the message from your fortune cookie and follow it up with the phrase ‘in bed.’ Your partner doesn’t have to know you added a few words!

(3) If you don’t know the person… you don’t know the person! The internet can be a great resource for meeting new people. However, if you’ve ever made an online profile, you know how easy it is to throw in a whole load of bull, let alone a few white lies. Talking to strangers isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Yet, it’s always wise to take certain precautions online. Though they may seem obvious, reading over safety tips can help keep you in check, even when dealing with the smoothest of charmers. Check out: Safely-Meet-a-Guy-Through-Internet-Dating for a few pointers.

Well, ladies, welcome to the decade! Though digital romance isn’t for everyone, it’s becoming an increasingly acceptable form of fooling around. Just remember:  be safe and have fun!

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