As the girls discuss in this episode, you can have both casual and relationship sex with the same person or different partners. It is really all about different flavors, moods, and the person you are sleeping with. Keep in mind though if you are participating in casual sex you must be in a place mentally where you can handle it. If you really desire sex with emotion, you probably want to steer clear!

As for the physical aspects of sex, think of it like going out to eat.  There are a plethora of different restaurants, cuisines, and scenarios that you can choose …

Sometimes, you are just in the mood for something casual, like a burger or pizza.  It can start to get late, and you’re hungry, but you don’t necessarily want to put all the effort into get dolled up and make a production out of it.  There are times when there is nothing better than just throwing your hair on top of your head in a ponytail and going to grab a quick bite.  Afterwards, you feel satisfied, happy, and relaxed.

Then of course there are times when you want something a little more special.  You want to take the time to look your best and wear something sexy.  You look forward to a night of being served some of the best cuisine that the area has to offer.  At times, there is nothing better than a long, 3 course meal, including the perfect wine and ending with dessert.  Depending on your relationship with your partner, this may happen only on special occasions, randomly just to switch up your routine, or on a more consistent basis if your relationship is new.

Of course there are variations to everything.  Maybe you want want something casual, but spicy and different.  Sometimes, you are in the mood for something raw and no fuss.  Sometimes you don’t even need a full meal and just a snack can work to hold you over.

It is also important to try new things, because if you don’t try, whose to say that you won’t like it?  It just may end up being your favorite.  We can all crave something we don’t have on a regular basis, and sometimes it’s okay to give in and satisfy your craving.  Even when you’re on a diet, you need to treat yourself sometimes.  It is also important to remember, that as much as women like being served, men appreciate it when they can just relax and you cater to them…and vice versa of course.