There was an Op Ed in the New York Times
the other day about “hooking up” and how we’re no longer dating, but going out in groups and having sex with friends, or friends of friends … we may become friends with benefits … but if the opportunity (and interest) is there, we’ll move on to the next hook-up.

And this is supposed to be news?

I’m reading this article and thinking about today’s video — having sex, for a long time, without ever having had an orgasm. And I’m thinking about the millions of girls out there whose majority of “numbers” are somewhat drunken hookups … and therefore have never experienced orgasm.

Especially if they do not masturbate and don’t know what orgasm even feels like. I’ve had so many conversations where friends have said “I think I’ve had an orgasm” – translation, I don’t really think I’ve had one but that’s crazy because I’ve had so much sex!

While hook-ups are fun, they unfortunately don’t tend to result in the best sex. In our society sex revolves around the guy getting off. It’s not sex unless he climaxes. If we come – bonus (there are many men who don’t feel this way, but society as a whole dictates that ideal)!

Since hook ups tend to be short-lived we’re not able to be with someone long enough to learn each others bodies, open up, and figure out together what we, as an equal partner, need out of the session to climax or at least get close.

And of course, as we say all the time on Cherry TV – masturbating certainly helps one reach orgasm. It enables you to know what gets you off, so you can then show your partner. Yeah, he/she can try to figure out, but it will probably take a lot longer that way.

Hook-ups will always be a part of single life (if you’re into it, if you’re not – don’t do it!!!). The key is to make them as fulfilling as possible. Reaching orgasm is a great way to do it!

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