Hitting the G-Spot
In today’s episode, the ladies dish out their experiences with the ‘elusive’ G-spot. Stimulation to this area of the body has been reported to cause intense, often multi-orgasmic sensations. Yet, for some women, the G-spot still seems like more of a mystery than a reality. For those still looking, here’s a guide to help you ‘hit the spot’ on your own or with a partner…
How to Find Your G-Spot:
(1) Get in the mood. The G-spot is normally only about the size of a pea but, with sexual arousal, can swell to the size of a walnut. This increase in size can obviously make your search much easier!
(2) Feel for texture. Some people describe the tissue around the G-spot as rubbery. Others describe the surface as crinkly. The location of the G-spot varies slightly between women, so don’t get frustrated if it takes a while to find.
(3) Once you feel the tissue, apply pressure. The G-spot is located within the vaginal wall, not outside of it. Therefore, you may need firm, steady pressure to get it stimulated. (The ‘come hither’ motion described in this video can be a really helpful technique. To do this, insert a finger or two into the vagina and then curve upwards towards your belly button.)
(4) If you find the sudden urge to pee, bravo, you’ve likely hit it! (Just so you know, stimulation of the G-spot actually leads some women to release a fluid, called ‘female ejaculation,’ which is not urine. If you still find it embarrassing or uncomfortable, try putting some towels beneath yourself beforehand.)
Though manual stimulation can be the easiest way for a woman to find her G-spot, it certainly isn’t the only way to hit it. The G-spot can also be stimulated during intercourse, though some positions may be much more useful than others. For instance, ‘doggy-style’ has been reported to be helpful for achieving the right angle. Another position to try is a standing position. The woman stands at a dresser or table with her elbows on the surface. The man enters from behind and together they experiment with various types of thrusting and positioning to figure out the best angle and depth of penetration to use so that his penis hits her G-spot. However, this position won’t work for everyone because the height differential is a certainly a factor.
Sex toys can also be a useful way to hit the G-spot, especially since some women find the hand-angle uncomfortable to maintain during masturbation. Check out some of our past episodes to learn about toys specifically designed to hit the G-spot:
When embarking on your G-spot search, keep in mind that not every women gets pleasure from this type of stimulation. Some women who find the G-spot report feeling nothing. Others find the sensation uncomfortable. If it’s not working for you, let it be. This does not make you dysfunctional! No matter what, try to enjoy the time you take getting to know your body better. Who knows? You might even find some other great surprises along the way!
