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Advice On Sexual Pacing
Here the women give advice on sexual pacing. The focus is on foreplay – and establishing intimacy. Here the women give guidance on creating satisfying sexual experiences -- it’s all about the build, and making sure you're ready to move on. (2:35)
Wow. I stumbled onto this site and have been avidly watching your clips. As a man, I have found them extremely interesting and useful. Thank you so much for doing these.
I'm 41 and have had many lovers over the years. But I have only become (what my more recent lovers say) "great in bed" over the last 3 or 4 years. This despite the fact that I have always tried to be a sensitive lover (hell, helping my girl reach orgasm is the biggest turn on there is!!).
Why so long to become good? Well, I think it is mainly because so few women actually communicate what they want. They might be having fun as I go-down on them, for example, but I can tell I'm not quite doing it for them and end up guessing and possibly heading down the wrong path.
As a man, I love it when my lover grabs my head to position it better, or tells me "right there, stay there" or whatever... It shows me she is "into it" as much as I am and I love her for it.
Anyyway, just wanted to say thanks for putting your thoughts out there!
Comment by: Wander
We're glad you're enjoying it Wander!! We love helping men in addition to women.
Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
I wonder how much richer your already amazing source of information would be if you added one more item to your comments: Gender.
Comment by: The other half
great thoughts. maybe cherry 2.0 we'll include!
Comment by: ladybug
Great point Wander! Cherry TV Chickalee, I too appreciate the additional information. To me, you could never have too much knowledge sexuality of women and men.
I do not understand why some bloggers get upset when men ask question. I prefer to hear a woman point-of-view on topic to refer to pleasing a woman or what women want. I realize it not a cookie cutting answer and does not apply to all women. But its more information to add to my tool box. So, I'm disappointed when some bloggers inform the male to somewhere else. But to each its own. I will continue to refer to your site, as it is very informative. Again Thank you for sharing regardless of gender.
Comment by: TJ
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