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Anal Sex FAQs

Anal sex -- misconceptions abound. Some are based in truth, but most are just myths. The idea of anal sex though can be intimating...hence, all the rumors. Here Ducky Doolittle straightens it out answering questions people tend to ask about anal sex. (5:50)

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	Great Video!! Love it Ducky Christina Wall	Comment by: NYRomanceParties 01/21/2009 13:30:59

	Fantastic Video!	Comment by: Danielle Cotton 01/21/2009 18:24:48

	you have a way of wording things that make people not as nervouse about trying these things! Great video!	Comment by: Hudson 01/21/2009 18:29:06

	I believe you kind of mishandled the question about the stretching of the sphincter muscle. You did bring up one point to be concerned about, but you never directly spoke to the issue itself. That is, the people who have problems with their sphincter are those that perform sexual acts that require the sphincter to stretch. So, yes, a penis being put into your sphincter does stretch it, but this stretching is close in size to fecal matter so long term damage is minimal. People need to be more concerned when they are performing acts such as large dildo insertion, fisting, and yes, sex while being drugged up. Just thought this needed clarification	Comment by: Tyler 04/01/2009 17:21:18

	Anal sex is the most erotic and brings the most pleasurable orgasms to me and my girl friend.	Comment by: Jerry 07/06/2009 08:38:44

	From a mans point of veiw and to aid the womans pleasure. I have had several girlfriends who were anal virgins. I am a quite large man, very thick. The man needs to arouse her to a very heated stage and be gentle inserting the penis while not fully erect and let it grow inside of her.( Use a good lubricant that does not dry out. ) This not only makes it easier on her but it aroses her as she feels you grow inside of her. Never long stroke until she has grown use to having anal sex. Most men are smaller at the base so try to short stroke and stay deep at first. Caress her buttocks even gently slapping them helps. Talk sexy to her tell how good she feels. I was thankfully able to make all my girlfriends have an anal orgasm. It was ecstasy for us both!!	Comment by: Callusnaja 07/16/2009 10:26:02

	I wrote yesterday and forgot about this. my wife will simply not even hear about anal sex. i put an index in her butt ONCE IN A GREAT WHILE, without consequence, and I KNOW, she won't hurt if I put my penis in there. trust me. i know. what is the deal? is this a case where we simply will never develop enough trust or passion to do this? perhaps I should point her toward watching your show !! I will appreciate a word. thanks	Comment by: watemala 11/08/2009 23:26:19

	the best thing you can do is develop better communication with your wife. if you know she is not comfortable with something, it's totally uncool to "slip it in." And, it has nothing to do with trust or passion. Most likely it's how she was brought up -- to believe sex is dirty and for reproduction only.	Comment by: ladybug 11/09/2009 05:57:14

	I AM CURIOUS ABOUT WHAT ANAL SEX DO TO YOUR BUTT. DO IT MAKE IT BIGGER OR WHAT.	Comment by: CURIOUSANALGIRL 01/21/2010 19:41:11

	No, it does not make your butt bigger ...	Comment by: ladybug 01/25/2010 16:43:33

	OK, question..new to this Anal Sex thing...how do you keep from tearing? He is slow and I am extremely well lubed LOL, but I still get very small tears during and it hurts like HELL!!! Any suggestions.	Comment by: Smiley 01/28/2010 10:42:08

	Smiley, if it hurts please don't do it! Since you are well lubed, he's probably too big for you at this time. Start with something smaller -- a finger is perfect. And move up from there.	Comment by: ladybug 02/04/2010 21:52:46

	I find using a vibrator on my clit when we start anal is a good way to divert my attention to something a little more pleasurable whle he is putting his penis in my butt. Also, USE LUBE. Your anus is not self-lubricating like your vagina is and lube will definitely help with the comfort of the whole thing.	Comment by: WantToPLease 02/13/2010 16:08:53

	My girlfriend never allows me to go anal as I have big penis. Is there any way out?	Comment by: BigPenis 03/15/2011 09:22:31

	so im not to sure about the whole 'inner sphincter' and really dont want to have anal sex because of the possible mess. ideas?	Comment by: embarassed 08/09/2011 14:29:14

	I don't know about this theory about not wanting to try anal sex because she was brought up to believe sex was dirty and only for reproduction. My boyfriend calls me a 'freak' in bed, and a sex addict. (Which I'm really not) At first I didn't want to try it because it was out of my comfort zone, now that I've tried it.. a few times, I'm still not sure it's for me. I don't get any pleasure out of it, and I feel weird afterward. The way I see it.. I have a vagina.. if that's not good enough, than he can find himself another partner.. especially since he's the kind of guy who tells me, "I'm the giver, YOU'RE the woman so YOUR the one who recieves!" whenever I bring up wanting to penetrate HIS behind.	Comment by: Mandi 12/15/2011 21:19:04

	I love to rubbed at my anal.. Penetrate them, mayb yes or no.. sadly, my hubby not into anal. How i wish to have anal orgasm. :)	Comment by: Ern 01/06/2012 15:25:13

	My girlfriend and I have had anal sex on several occasions and we both enjoyed it. Masturbating her at the same time worked really well. There is something very erotic about anal sex and love the feeling of domination	Comment by: marc 01/07/2012 07:24:14

	Give head to your man every single day! But do it preolrpy:1. First you need to get him turned on be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible the more you're turned on the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible this is a great turn on.2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.5. Say something like mmmmm I love it then smile, smiling is very important it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) then as he starts to come, you have 2 options you can hold his penis or he can hold it I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.Good luckIceCool	Comment by: Dyivacycia 10/22/2012 21:15:51