Oral Sex Tricks To Use On Him

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Oral Sex Tricks To Use On Him

Everyone’s technique for giving a blow job is unique. Some like to play with the balls while working the shaft, others prefer to use their hand in unison with their mouth. Most switch it up. Listen in as the women describe different techniques for giving head. (2:40)

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Michele	Becky	Rev Jen
Celeste	Safiya

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	videos extremely slow.	Comment by: ximulator 09/23/2008 08:51:31

	Hey ximulator, you may want to check your connection because we've tested then on a bunch of computers, with different os, and they run fine. Or, you may want to download the video to watch off your computer.	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 09/23/2008 20:46:09

	How can cum taste better? I can't stand giving a blowjob because of the taste of cum. Any suggestions?	Comment by: merupum 09/24/2008 01:03:24

	Merupum, one way is to avoid getting any of the cum in your mouth! you dont have to sacrifice for the guy. other than that i recommend that he eat lots of sweet vegetables, like yams, taro, carrots, onions....hopefully it will sweeten the pot.	Comment by: bugaboo 09/25/2008 04:35:53

	Have your guy avoid cigarettes, coffee, meat, caffeine, and asparagus, and have him eat/drink pineapple juice and other similar things.	Comment by: Moleculor 09/27/2008 03:17:54

	BTW, I'm a guy (saw a link to this site from the Sex Is Fun podcast), watched the video and... I felt I have to warn: Some guys (like me) don't actually like a hand on the shaft during a blowjob. At least I've never had a blowjob that actually felt -good- with a hand involved. It's possible that with practice or time some woman somewhere would finally learn the right pressure/motion for a hand (I also generally don't like handjobs by women), but so far I seem to much rather -just- involve the mouth for the shaft of my penis. A hand on the balls (or behind them) on the other hand is very great. I liked the mention of hips/thighs too.	Comment by: Moleculor 09/27/2008 03:24:51

	I'm a guy. I dont like a hand on my penis, but like hands on my balls. try to suck hard and (if possible) get it all in your mouth. If you dont like cum, its ok, but its better to have it in your mouth. im sure he'll setlle for a facial. Just thought i'd give my input.	Comment by: bob 02/10/2009 10:57:09

	bob: You're sure guys will "settle" for a facial? Don't be surprised if a woman doesn't want to do that either, given that most people--male and female--don't like to do something that may get fluids (of any type) in their eyes. Not to mention that some guys try to do that specifically because they consider it a degrading thing to do to women, and that's what gets them off. That may not describe the dynamic in ALL facial situations, obviously, but that attitude is common enough that plenty of women avoid it.	Comment by: NoName 07/18/2009 21:50:06

	I don't think guys get off on degrading a woman, it doesn't have anything to do with that for most guys, its just that its insanely hot	Comment by: marc 07/20/2009 17:39:36

	uhm.. im a guy... try to suck our head deeply, i mean.. let us feel the squeezing... u know	Comment by: boombastik 08/24/2009 07:13:27

	sucking,sucking.& more sucking!!!!!!!!!	Comment by: schlamiel 12/08/2009 17:40:59

	i agree with noname i think the action of a blowjob (let alone him cuming anywhere on my body) all together is very degrading for me to do as a woman... i think i will do it someday with someone i care deeply for but ide deffinately have to do alot of preparing because i feel like at any point where my head is lower than the mans chest im degraded therefore i cant be confident in what i do.	Comment by: mava 01/04/2010 19:20:34

	Mava what the he** are you talking about? Lower than his chest?? What? What does body height and/or head elevation have ANYTHING to do with this conversation?	Comment by: noname 01/21/2010 15:30:23

	Hands on the shaft must be lubricated. A good wet sloppy session would definitely need some hand action. Twisting, stroking, pulling, but not squeezing. All too often women mess up the ejac by changing. Whatever you do to make it shoot, keep doing it while he's shooting. Don't start squeezing it, you'll ruin the sensation.	Comment by: eyelikehed 07/02/2010 16:11:37

	I get what you're saying 'eyelikehed'; the same applies for a woman also. If you've found the rythm to make me cum, don't change it up, even if it does come from a good place. I like giving my bf oral sex. it makes me feel sexy because I know he loves it and I'm doing that for him, but sometimes it is a bit too much. He definitely prefers the deepthroat action, no hands thing and I ted to gag a lot and my jaw gets tired. Sometimes a woman can't help but change the motion because of that. Any tips that would help?	Comment by: iluvsex 07/09/2010 19:15:44

	I Personally Love Sucking Cock. Most Of You Guys Tend To Push Down A Girls Head When You Cum So Your Deeper In Her Throat. I As A Woman Think There Isn't Anything Degrading About Giving A Blow Job..	Comment by: JeLeVa 07/11/2010 19:07:49

	iluvsex, if you need to take a break, as most of us do after a bit, do it! Just make sure that his penis continues to be stimulated -- whether by your hand or his hand -- while you rest your jaw. I personally like to mix it up, and rest my jaw during bjs by focusing on his balls while he continues to jerk himself off. Also, once you start to deep throat -- you don't need to only deep throat. Regular sucking with the occasional deep throat can be very effective!	Comment by: ladybug 07/12/2010 21:23:03

	I've been seeing this guy foe a few weeks and I really like him but I've been having this problem in the blowjob department, I think i'm just no good at it. I try to suck and lick around the head as best I can but that doesnt get him off. after a while he starts holding my head at the back and sort of gripping my hair. He starts moving my head up and down and thrusting into my mouth. I didn't know what I should do so I just let him move my head but when it hits the back of my throat it makes me gag and I make terrible noises. He doesn't really notice and keeps pushing my head down quite hard, it even makes my eyes water and I was getting dizzy cos I couldn't breathe too good. The worst part was when he cums he pushes my head down and holds me down on him. I've choked on his cum and one time it sort of came put of my nose! What can I do better so it pleases him and it's more easy for me? Thanks, by the way I'm 18 I've never given head before recently.	Comment by: Melissa345678 09/19/2010 23:58:06

	I have this problem as well I'm not sure if it's me that's causing it like if I have no blowjob skills or wateva? Almost every guy I've given head to pushes me down to the point where it's making me gag. The last guy I was with had a fairly large cock at least 7 inches and I could only take about half of it in at the most but he kept pushing my head down to make me go deeper so his cock was actually getting shoved into my throat. I was gagging but he kept holding my head down it was really annoying. What can I do to not get my head pushed down cos it happens to me all the time, it's really annoying!	Comment by: Tracy1989 09/20/2010 20:34:04

	MELISSA & TRACY: First of all, that sounds awful! It sounds like the bj is screwed before it even starts cause you must dread it!! I would. You'll find that communication is key! It may feel weird but try it. Tell him to tell you what he wants, faster, deeper, etc. Use the tips from the video also. When you first start lick it till it's lubed up enough that you can slide your mouth up and down easy right from the beginning. Put your hand around the base, it will stabilize you a bit. Make sure you are in a position that you feel stable and in control, and just think of the pleasure your giving him, don't be self conscious. Feed off him, you can tell when he likes something so keep doing that. Relax, if youÃ¢â‚¬â„¢re nervous and tensed up itÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s not going to be that great. Every time you slide your mouth down try and go deeper, at your own pace, take control. Once you can deep throat, do it for as long as you want then come back up and suck his head or whatever you want till you catch your breath then deep throat again. Except if heÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s going to cum, then stay put!! Also, when you get tired, switch positions, let him stand while your on your knees for example. It is awkward at first but practice makes perfect ;) Long relationships will teach you a lot! ha-ha	Comment by: bella83 10/17/2010 08:37:28

	I think that blow jobs are the most important thing when it comes to keeping a guy. seriously! ive just read jacks blowjob lessons and i my husband fell in love with me like that again	Comment by: Miranda 09/26/2011 04:13:04

	A	Comment by: Bar 12/16/2011 03:14:36

	I love giving a good BJ! I've been told by men seriously that I am really good at it. I don't think it's degrading at all. I love a facials.Experiment with facials...there isn't no man that is not turned on by it! Swallowing is also a turn on (pineapple juice is a good choice for better taste)Open that mouth nice and wide girls to shield those teeth! No teeth ouch! Stick your tongue out as far as you can to prevent from gaging. A lot of tongue especially underside of his shaft will have him holler out. I think what is a very important factor in a successful BJ is being in the moment. Show him your enjoying giving it as much as I'm sure he's receiving it! Guys love a good show & we all know they are very turned on by great visuals! Eye contact ladies. Give him either that sexy I'm going to suck you dry look (but not too scary) or that doe eye innocent look (they usually love that one). Oh they love it! Just a few tips...hoped it helped! - DD	Comment by: BJDD 01/27/2012 04:52:07

	love to suck dick but when it cums to the coming, hell no men always asked if i went to school and got my masters. it's all in the mouth tight losse just like our virgina	Comment by: dr 02/24/2012 15:28:29

	hey my best BJ is when I eat Jalapenos 1st. the hot burnin sensation in my mouth makes his cock really hot & he does love it. or u can slide the Jalapeno up & down his cock. & Girls let the man put that Jalapeno on ur cunt slidin it around the inner parts of ur cunt yes it gets hot that is the whole idea I love it. & the sensation last 4 a long time afterwards that is the best part of it xspecially when he starts lickin it. I forgot don't forget to cut the Jalapeno open 1st. & it is safe to do it. We have never had any problems with it I have been doin it for years with all my boyfriends before & now my husband of 20 yrs. now & sex is hot. So try it tonight u will like it I promise.	Comment by: Hot Slide 03/15/2012 10:37:17

	Does the person with these coiiotdnns face a life time of loneliness and dread? To the contrary, sex is still possible and not out of reach even for those with a positive	Comment by: Rosangela 08/20/2012 10:48:58

	I use to be very good at giving head to the point they would say my name! Now I suck at sucking! Lol. Its pitiful on my behalf. I dont even know how to reteach myself. Gosh people! Help ppl like me out and state exactly how to hold the mouth how to Suck hard enough! ECT ETC ECT.....!!!!!!! like damn.	Comment by: Kay 09/10/2012 15:35:31