Climaxing from Cunnilingus

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Climaxing from Cunnilingus

For many of us, giving and receiving oral sex has become a common part of sex. But even if our partners are masters, receiving is not a sure-fire way to reach orgasm. In this episode the women discuss their tendency to climax during oral and how they feel about it. (3:09)

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Jill J.	Rosemary	Alex
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	I enjoyed listening to the women discuss cunnilingus and orgasm because I happen to like it very much with my wife. Unfortunately she is a bit uncomfortable because according to her (I guess) it's dirty to go down south. But when I slowly start working on her, within no time she becomes engrossed in the act to the extent of cumming and then she pulls me up so that I can get into her. In other words she enjoys cunnilingus though shy to begin with. I would like you to reassure me about the "cleanliness" (no pun intended) of cunnilingus so that I can convince my wife that it's a normal sexual act. Is it unhealthy (dirty) for me to lick my wife's pussy? Why I ask this question is 'coz I usually feel embarassed to kiss her after being down there and of course it's not sexy to wash my mouth immediately leave alone the disruption this can cause during intercourse. What preventive measures can one use when performing cunnilingus? Which time of the woman's cycle is most appropriate to engage in cunnilingus? Please answer me so that I can feel confident when pleasing my wife because it really gratifies me to see her orgasm 'coz cunnilingus is so relaxing and delicious. Otherwise I really do appreciate the good work you are doing by addressing such important life issues of SEX that affect us in one way or the other. KEEP IT UP!!!!!	Comment by: Concerned Mr. 12/10/2008 07:47:22

	Please try and answer my earlier questions. I am very eager to learn more about cunnilingus. Thanx in advance!	Comment by: Concerned Mr. 12/15/2008 08:35:46

	As long as both parties are free of STDs, it is completely healthy for the giver and the receiver to participate in cunnilingus. Vaginas are clean and self-lubricating and maintain a Ph balance -- it will have no adverse effect for someone to put their mouth there. And any time is good -- some people even like to perform oral sex on a woman during her period! One note, your wife should not, ever, douche or use over the counter sprays. It's those products that are unhealthy and screw up the natural balence.	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 12/15/2008 19:13:47

	This is something my husband wishes I would let him do more often. I guess I'm just not comfortable with him being "down there" but it's certainly not due to his technique. The few times I've let him do it, I've had some of my best orgasms ever, but I still hesitate to let him go there very often.	Comment by: Josey 01/10/2009 12:02:16

	Thanx a lot for your response to my earlier questions. I have continued to enjoy cunnilingus by pleasuring my wife like mad. The only problem is that I do not know how far to go. My wife though timid enjoys cunnlingus after initial foreplay. But just like Josey above, she does not like me going down south on her that often. It is like I have to cleverly woo her during the foreplay so that she finds herself in the hot of things and really enjoys it. I continue doing all sorts of stuff to her clit and vulva with my toungue until she reaches a point where she clasps my head stongly and squeezes her legs. She then pulls me upwards as to suggest that I enter her, which I gladly do. All this time she is groaning with pleasure and becomes very wet. What I dont' know is whether this is the time she orgasms or she cums thereafter when I enter her. Is it okay to engage in kissing after going down on her; as in is it hygienic for the woman? Please answer these 2 questions from a woman's point of view so that I can gain the confidence I require to continue enjoying cunnilingus. Thanx in advance!!	Comment by: Concerned Mr. 02/09/2009 05:20:59

	Mr. Concerned, have you thought about asking your wife about the orgasm question? You know we promote communication here. Besides, it's not something we can answer -- it's different for everyone - but most likely she is coming wen she squeezes her legs. And it is certainly hygienic to kiss your woman after going down on her. Do you not kiss her after she goes down on you? Hopefully not! (you do kiss her!)	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 02/19/2009 12:28:25

	My girlfriend is bothered by the fact that I like to use mouthwash after cunnilingus, and that i wash my face. However, I have a moustache and I use mouthwash periodically during the day anyway, and after 30 to 40 minutes of heavy oral, I just want to rinse at least. She is clean, but it just seems sensible to wash up afterward, especially when we are going to sleep.	Comment by: Stu 03/14/2009 23:18:39

	How will no or feel when i reach orgasm.	Comment by: Sweetpea 01/01/2010 14:45:39

	It will be obvious. It will feel like nothing you have ever experienced before.	Comment by: Mary 01/03/2010 21:50:25

	Concerned, you really need to develop better communication with your wife. I admire that you are asking your questions here, but worry that you don't feel you can ask them to her. She will be your best advice, so ask her what she enjoys. I know that as a woman, I want my husband to want to please me and to explore me not just for me, but for him. I love knowing that he is wanting to learn about me and that alone is a turn on. Stu, if you are taking 30-40 minutes to bring her to orgasm with oral sex, I think something is awry. It is just too long of a time, so perhaps there is a technique issue there. Every woman is different with what they need/want, so asking her would be best. Watch some videos, talk to other men about what their partners enjoy, and really try to explore her being very careful to note her reactions.	Comment by: livingitup 04/09/2010 21:19:26

	Thanks livingitup for reply to outstanding questions! One thing though Stu -- it is quite possible that it could take a woman 30 - 40 minutes to climax via oral. It's not unusual. Women reach orgasm in a range of time, and it so happens that your lady takes a while to get there. If you get tired during the process, you can always take a break by using your fingers or a vibrator while you get some air and a rest. Good luck and enjoy the fact that you are giving her great pleasure!!!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 04/11/2010 21:03:54

	The thing I love most about worshipping my wife orally is when she fondles my ears and plays with my hair. That really makes me feel like she appreciates my efforts to please her.	Comment by: Smitty 07/20/2010 13:15:59