Finishing Off Fellatio

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Finishing Off Fellatio

In this video the women address the age old dilemma of what to do when your man gets off. Some feel it depends on the depth of the relationship, and for some it boils down to taste. Yes taste. Tune in to hear their thoughts! (3:08)

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Indy	Stephanie	Maryann
Katie	San

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	LEASE DO SOMETHING ABOUT THE AUDIO QUALITY OF THE DISCUSSANTS; IT IS DOWN TOO LOW.	Comment by: LOGO 10/13/2008 12:02:43

	Really??? We carefully monitor the audio in post-production to insure it is at the optimum level. Is the problem possibly your speakers?	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 10/13/2008 12:35:31

	great picture!	Comment by: blocky 10/13/2008 16:30:28

	Thanks! Sometimes the hardest part is finding a good picture.	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 10/13/2008 21:49:47

	Finishing Off Fellatioâ€”I'm a man, and I've thought about this subject for a long time. For me, when a woman is giving me great oral sex it's a real let down that when I'm about to cum she takes her mouth off my penis and masturbates me through my orgasm. I do love her hands, and I do love to be masturbated, but in oral sex, when she takes me out of her mouth I experience a break in the continuity in the pleasure and intimacy that she's been giving me with her lips, her mouth and her saliva. Finishing Off Fellatioâ€”I'm a man, and I've thought about this subject for a long time. For me, when a woman is giving me great oral sex it's a real let down that when I'm about to cum she takes her mouth off my penis and masturbates me through my orgasm. I do love her hands, but when she takes me out of her mouth, I experience a break, a letdown, in the pleasure and intimacy that she's been giving me with her lips, her mouth and her saliva. All of a sudden that's gone, just at the very height of my climax. It is _so_ good when my woman learns to do whatever it takes to keep me in her mouth, whether it's by swallowing or perhaps by letting my cum drool out through her lips as she continues what for _her_ too could be a really heightened experience. As for swallowing, I've been told by women for whom swallowing is not a problem, that the best way to go about it is to open the throat a little, and to swallow each ejaculation, each squirt of cum as it spasms out of the manâ€™s penis. That way the cum doesn't become too much quantity in her mouth. One thing that turns me off is when a woman spits the cum out of her mouth as though it's a part of me she doesn't savor. As for the taste of cum, I'm sure it is different with different men. I've tasted (and swallowed) my own cum. It can be at first an odd and different sort of a taste, but that doesn't mean that a woman can't learn to get used to the taste. We're all capable of learning all sorts of new skills and to accommodate ourselves to new and unusual sensations. I have a high regard and appreciation for women who've learned this technique, or for whom itâ€™s never been a problem, or a distasteful experience. Itâ€™s also a way for a woman to give the utmost in love to her man, to pleasure him utterly. The last thing I want to mention is about my own experience of giving oral sex to a woman. You ladies also have different smells and tastes. When I began my experience of giving oral sex, those tastes and smells were strange, and sometimes off-putting. But since I wanted to give my woman the utmost in pleasure, I hung in there. It wasnâ€™t too long before I came to relish those smells and tastes along with the wonderful textures and folds of the vagina, and the heightening response of my partner. A vagina is a truly beautiful flowering of womanhood and I now also relish tasting and swallowing the juices that a woman gives out in sex. I love your conversations and I would love to hear responses of those same women to what Iâ€™ve written. Do you have a mailing list with announcements of whatâ€™s to come? Love to Indy, Stephanie, Katelyn, Katie and Sanâ€”Rafael	Comment by: ranger33 01/06/2009 20:59:09

	thanks for the thoughts but please remember those are your personal feelings (re. swallowing) and everyone is different. many men don't care either way.same with cunnilingus. we love it that you're into a woman's taste and if only all men felt like that! but they don't. on the front page there is a link for an RSS feed and our weekly newsletter.	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 01/06/2009 23:12:18

	Chickalee, Hi, I'm curious, always, about what I write, and how it's heard by another person. I thought I'd conveyed what I said _as_ my personal feelings. I certainly didn't mean to say that other men should have the same feelings and desires as I do. I love your site. I remember I'd been here a while back and was awed to sit in on a group of women talking to each other in such a frank and candid way. Amazine contribution. What are you referring to as a 'good' picture, the quality of the video? I found it to be good.	Comment by: Ranger33 01/10/2009 02:47:46

	Thanks re. the site. By the picture, I mean the still that represents each video on the site. For example, the turtle above.	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 01/11/2009 10:15:10

	First let me ssay, I love giving head to my boyfriend. His penis is about 5 1/2 " long and quite thick with a nice curve upward. What he seems to enjoy the most is when I hold his testicles in one hand while I stroke his penis with the other and slide my lips just a few inches over his shaft. he likes me to always stroke with my hand. When he cums I let him fill my mouth and then i swallow it all, which is sometimes a chore because of the quantity of semen. Once he comes he can't take any stimulation of the head.	Comment by: Mary the MD 02/20/2009 02:10:19

	I love this site. I think something like this for men would be great as well.	Comment by: lawman 03/18/2009 08:28:58

	While I don't think any woman should feel obligated to do anything they don't want to do, I also don't think we should continue to lie to ourselves about the spit vs. swallow issue. I greatly prefer for a woman to swallow. And in all the locker room and guy's night out conversations I have had, I have never in my life met a man who didn't. It doesn't even make sense to me how women can think that anything other than swallowing would feel better. Either there's an awkward moment where the woman spits it out, or she lets it run onto your body. Then it gets cold and sticky after about ten seconds, and that's not comfortable for anyone. If you're hooking up with some random guy after school, that's fine, whatever. But if you want to give the man in your life the best blowjob you can, swallowing is part of it. It's no worse than cunnilingus, and we've been enthusiastically doing that for you for years now.	Comment by: John 06/18/2009 12:38:52

	I think the beginning of your video was all wrong. "Spit or Swallow", should have been replaced with "Spit, Swallow, or Sloppy". There really are 3 choices and not just the two! Nowhere did I hear about having a glass of liquid nearby. Guys who insist on the woman swallowing, have not been exposed to a woman who ejaculates and insist that the guys swallow.	Comment by: Drool 08/11/2009 19:35:16

	When are you producers going to do the same with having men discuss their sexuality?	Comment by: Danielle 09/15/2009 09:52:19

	We're not. That's for some man to create. But, we do want to add a show in which men tell us their thoughts about things we're curious about like ... body hair, vagina size, kissing, things like that!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 09/15/2009 15:28:51

	The question of a woman deciding to spit or swallow in my experience is mostly about taste and not about volume.Pineapple juice in the mans diet will sweeten the taste of the ejaculate and the woman just may decide that swallowing is not all that unpleasant.Eight ounces per day usually does the trick.A little hint.........you don`t want to swallow if he has been eating asparagus.	Comment by: Cunninglingulate 09/16/2009 00:34:31

	This subject is great. I've been dating this guy for a year and even with my pass ex I've never had cum in my mouth. In my head, I think its so nasty and i havent tried it yet. I want to but i'm afraid I might throw up and thats very embarrassing. I dont mind cum on my body but not in my mouth. One day maybe.	Comment by: KarenCS 09/25/2009 01:06:32

	lol..i actually dont like doing either or. but he'll usually tell me to trya nd swallow. but i usually reist. i get discusted, ive actually vomited, not once but TWICE!..lol it was nasty	Comment by: chels 09/26/2009 02:20:47

	Since we're criticizing the audio, the tag at the end sounds like somebody's creepy grandmother acting sexy.	Comment by: Sam Spade 01/08/2010 08:49:08

	Swallowing is absolutely unnecessary to me. In fact, if I watched my lover gulp down a mouthful of semen after an orgasm, I would probably wonder, "oh my gosh! I hope that wasn't too unpleasant for her!" I think that I'd actually prefer her to spit it out unless it was very clear that she really wanted to swallow it. For me, as long as a woman enjoys making love to me, I'm very happy regardless of little, technical things. However, if something about me (such as my semen) seemed to be repulsive to her, I would be very sad. I wouldn't be angry or upset with her in the least for her feelings, but I would definitely feel self-conscious as her lover.	Comment by: a lonely guy... 04/04/2010 14:53:56

	oh my God. I would never swallow under any circumstance. i can't even believe this. lol. i'm pretty sexual with my partner and give him a blow job regularly. on his birthday i usually blow him as many minutes as his age. lo. i just think it's really disgusting. my partner once asked me to swallow him moments before he came but i couldn't do it. he once came but i barely dodged it. now i'm really concerned he might go out for a lady who will swallow. this is so sad. i didn't know swallowing was even an option.	Comment by: bigFan 04/19/2010 19:21:47

	bigFan, I don't think you have to worry about his going out with another women because she'll swallow. In the grand scheme, it's a minor thing. And if you're not comfortable with it, you're not comfortable with it and that's okay. You may change. You may not. The most important thing is that you are comfortable -- and the majority of men will respect that.	Comment by: ladybug 04/19/2010 19:49:50

	I have a new lover, one that I've waited for and wanted for a very long time. We've graduated to the oral stage and discssed our desires openly. I was totalling willing to fulfill them all! I just didn't know what to do once I swallowed his delicious fluids. How soon, or is it even necessary to rinse or brush my teeth afterwards. Is there any etiquette for this?	Comment by: Full of Smiles 05/31/2010 00:44:07

	No etiquette -- totally up to you! Health-wise, I don't believe it's necessary.	Comment by: ladybug 06/06/2010 17:06:15

	after finishing him off, what do you do? Brush your teeth, wipe the semon off your body, go back up and kiss him? Or does the oral sex just end?	Comment by: teenager 12/08/2010 04:44:35

	When i'm performing oral sex on my wife and she is about to orgasm. The last thing I think, is to jump away. 1) it take away from the orgasm (my opinion) and 2) wow, what message would that send to her. Believe it or not, when women orgasm, they have fluid as well. Probably not ounce per ounce as the male, but its there. So, if your man jump off before you orgasm then its fair. But, if he's still performing oral sex even after you orgasm then.....what good for the goose is good for the gander.	Comment by: samething he does 02/19/2011 15:32:05

	I totally leave it up to her and she's rather not then we'll stop and do some heavy stuff till the feeling goes down and then make love. I honesty have a hard time cuming from a blow job because once in college I told my GF I was going to and she didn't stop but when I started she bite down, enough to break skin. So I tend to peak and lose it.	Comment by: DukofEarl 09/07/2011 00:00:00