Getting Off During Intercourse

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Getting Off During Intercourse

Sure it's great when our partner brings us to climax -- when we get off during intercourse -- but it rarely works that way! Here the women discuss reaching orgasm, clitoral stimulation, and individual responsibility. that leads to female orgasm. (more...). (3:33)

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Nicole	Celeste	Safiya
Sarah	Melissa

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	lol i like this vid this is a great site	Comment by: jessi 03/24/2010 14:06:40

	You girls are so wonderfull - thank you!	Comment by: Elkie 04/09/2010 07:33:57

	Thank YOU Elkie!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 04/09/2010 14:23:27

	wow !! this is a great site! there is so much that people can get from that to enhance their sexual life - no taboos, no embarassment.. I totally love it and like the way you share your opinions girls !! keep on doing, greets from Poland;)	Comment by: Weronika 05/09/2010 14:20:52

	Thanks Weronika!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 05/10/2010 14:24:56

	thank you guys so much! this site is so honest and has taught me so much about my sexuality.	Comment by: Allie 06/02/2010 19:46:30

	A terrific site, with honest women who generously share their truth. There's one thing I'll never understand, though. How come something like half of women don't get off from intercourse alone, and yet "sexperts" constantly warn men of the horrors of "premature ejaculation"? Who would ever advise a woman to STOP herself from cumming when she's ready to---but this is precisely what men are told to do to themselves. Why have endless intercourse anyway when there are so many other, better ways to give a woman (and a man) pleasure?	Comment by: Patrick 06/05/2010 14:08:12

	Patrick, I believe men are told to try not and ejaculate too early, because too early can be like 2 minutes in. Quick female ejaculators, from my experience talking to others, is never less than 5 - 7. And, many women who consider themselves too quick def. try and hold back in order to ensure their man is satisfied. I, and many agree, there's no need to have endless intercourse (at least in the same positions) since there are so many other ways to have fun in bed. Survey's show the optimum intercourse time, for women in one position, before it stops feeling pleasurable, is 8 to 12 minutes!	Comment by: ladybug 06/06/2010 16:57:54

	Ladybug, thanks. That makes some sense. I didn't realize that some women consider themselves "too quick"! I do think, though, that concerns about being "too quick" for a man would mainly apply to someone who can have only ONE erection and orgasm per session of lovemaking---many men can do better.. If your female partner really loves intercourse, it might make sense to learn to keep going as long as she prefers. But female pleasure and orgasm are in no way dependent on male erection. Some women do like intercourse, and many men and women may like the closeness it can bring. But why shouldn't both partners have as many orgasms as they can, however they can get them? : ) I guess I've been puzzled because despite the fact that intercourse really isn't the best way for many women to achieve orgasm, experts have led men to believe that they've failed unless they have a non-orgasmic erection that lasts more or less indefinitely. Orgasm, for many men, has thus become something they're ashamed of---a defeat rather than something pleasurable. I'd like to see both male and female orgasm liberated from the tyranny of predefined expectations, and brought back into the realm of intimacy and enjoyment!	Comment by: Patrick 06/07/2010 13:34:30

	I concur -- both men and women feel pressure to insure that orgasm, whether it is delayed or promoted, is part of the sexual experience. However, female pleasure, to a large part, is dependent upon male erection. Manual and oral are nice -- but intercourse, and the range of positions and sensations it allows -- for many/most women tends to be the high point of a sexual session. When a man can't obtain, or maintain, an erection, great limitations are put upon the sex potential.	Comment by: ladybug 06/07/2010 14:16:04

	I'm very surprised to see you say that female pleasure is dependent to ANY significant degree on male erection. I'm pretty sure that Betty Dodson for example wouldn't agree. I've probably been influenced by my wife, who actually doesn't care that much for intercourse or even oral, but is very orgasmic with the right kind of manual stimulation. But female masturbation doesn't of course involve an erection, yet many women have very pleasurable orgasms from it. Lesbian women may use strap-ons at times, but they certainly don't need a male erection to experience pleasure! The fact is that people age, and can develop illnesses that can influence their sexual desire and ability. Erections are nice, but not always possible all the time. I would argue that there are as many ways to experience pleasure as there are people---sometimes erections are involved, sometimes not. But caring partners will find a way to work out any problems---and still satisfy one another.	Comment by: Patrick 06/11/2010 01:40:28

	You are right Patrick -- the most important thing is being intimate, however that is defined, with the one you love -- and working together to satisfy one another.	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 06/14/2010 20:22:52

	Thanks, Chickalee. That's what I've always thought it's about, too. My best to you and to all the other bright, interesting women at Cherry TV. You're candid, informative, and honest while keeping it fun, and I'm clearly only one of many who appreciate that! You're also a great antidote to the miserable Catholic shame, guilt, and threats of my youth. Please keep up the good work!	Comment by: Patrick 06/24/2010 01:41:34

	I agree with ladybug. Intercourse is a spiritual, emotional and physical high for a girl. There are some that are just into oral or digital but they are a minority. That's why girth is so critical to a girls satisfaction whereas length is only a problem if its very short.	Comment by: Tessa 01/18/2011 21:10:02

	What should women bring to the table? I see lenght and girth for male, but what about the female?	Comment by: Huh 02/19/2011 15:05:20

	Anyone home? I would love to hear the point-of-views from either gender on my previous question. Sex should not be one sided based on the male. I rarely hear women talk about how good their vagina is. But would easily say how good some guy penis is. Why is that?	Comment by: huh 03/10/2011 19:16:31

	@ huh. They are unable to properly respond to your question. Mainly, because WOMEN expect MEN to get them off. As if they get the man off....no way honey, your man did all the work. Whether you liked it or not. Don't believe me....How many women have brought their man to an orgasm without him moving or rarely moving? Women bring little to nothing to the table, but expect the man to send them to heaven. If you can't get to heaven on your own...then you are the problem.	Comment by: Hello 11/29/2011 21:58:15

	I wonder what Tessa have to offer to her mate. From her remarks...he would need to be above average in lenght with good girth. But what about her...???? I SOOOOOOOO tired of hearing women demanding a certain lenght and girth. What do they bring to satisfy your mate. I bet men have something to say about this subject, which is hard to get women to talk about. INSECURITIES!!!	Comment by: YB 11/29/2011 22:07:20

	Hey Cherry Tv! I would love the see a reply to "huh" question. The last few posters are absolutely correct. You site is full...with what the man suppose to bring. What about women?!	Comment by: James 07/21/2012 11:04:35

	fluid actually comes out of the uhterra like pee but is not pee. The same way semen (which is not pee) comes out of a man's uhterra when he ejaculates. The fluid comes from the "female prostate" which is located near the uhterra and contains no urine. Hope that clears things up a bit.	Comment by: Rosa 08/23/2012 02:08:51