What Makes A Good Bedmate?

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What Makes A Good Bedmate?

Most of us have worried about our sexual performance. Are we sexy enough? Are our skills refined? What does he/she think of our technique? Here we asked men what they think makes a woman good in bed. Complete answers available for download. (2:50)

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	i need some more advice in sex	Comment by: balaji 10/10/2008 05:14:31

	Well, our videos are geared towards women, but I'm sure you can take away nuggets of good info. Keep in mind though -- all women are different and the most important thing is to be present and open during sex. If you find your lady likes to be kissed and touched all over it -- go for it! If your woman rather get right to intercourse, bonus! Also, feel free to ask your partner what she wants!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 10/13/2008 06:21:16

	someone who participates as much as her partner does. If you're married maybe bringing something new to the table rather than letting the husband plan and execute everything. Remember there two people and both should be satisfied.	Comment by: oh no she's a dead fish 09/22/2009 08:43:33

	On no she's a deah fish, I totally agree! Most time, I plan and execute the bedroom activity. But when my wife does it, I feel even more excited. Now, she has caught-on that I like for her to take charge. Yes, it take two people to tango...so good sex is because of both parties. When it comes to bad sex..fingers will begin to point at each other.	Comment by: TJ 11/27/2010 20:44:54

	just leave the balls alone chicks	Comment by: what?? 01/02/2011 00:59:46

	A confidence woman who has it in her mind that "im going to "F' his brain out". In this mind-set a woman is soooo sexy. She will take charge when necessary and tell you what she want, and ask you what you want. I go crazy for women like this and can go an hours. Unfortunately, it hard to find these women. I know the same can be applied to men as well. Today, everyone is worrying about themselves and not the other person...so sad.	Comment by: passion 04/10/2011 09:48:10

	what difference if any does the distance between the vagina and the clitoris make to having an orgasm through sexual intercourse? Does it affect the woman's desire to have an orgasm?	Comment by: UK Fred 11/25/2011 11:44:35

	My bf doesn't like it if I initiate sex. He wants to be the one who chases. He told me knowing that I'm always ready for it kills it for him. :P Also, I believe sex has to be kind of selfish. I have a hard time in the orgasm department, so I have to make sure I get mine before he crosses the finish line! The problem with sexual advice is it's so generalized. It's different for everyone, so the best thing you can do is talk openly about it with your partner. Ask him/her what they like. Tell them what you like. ect... and i's important not to pressure your partner into anything they're not comfortable with! Respect boundaries... very very important!	Comment by: Mandi 12/15/2011 21:33:17

	How strange, no mention of big tits, tight pussy or any other body parts. What a mature set of responses from the men. Now if the female panel members had been asked what would their responses have been?	Comment by: Samsander 01/06/2012 09:32:23

	Need help for my issue. I have a man friend (I am 58 and he is 65). We have a great sex life with great satisfaction! When we first started dating it was ok for him to rub and fondle my clit and vaginal area, even oral sex was great. How we are getting serious and I have not desire for him to get close to my vaginal area. I love him greatly and enjoy giving him a blow job. We have great sex. He desires genital contact with me but for some reason it has become a no no for me. How can I fix this?	Comment by: Jody 01/25/2012 20:11:39

	It all depends on the person and your relationship with him/her. If you aren't open and on the same page when it comes to sex, the sex will not be good. The difference between sex with my late husband (freakin; awesome!) and the one I just split up with was amazing!!! The first and I had a hell of a time in the bed!! The second? I could take it or leave it. And I usually left it.	Comment by: MoonlightSC 07/26/2012 23:43:32