It’s inevitable, relationship sex, at times, becomes monotonous. The key is to ensure the routine doesn't become too difficult to break. In this clip the women discuss ways around it. Sure, it takes work, but a revitalized sex life is worth it (more...). (6:17)
Just remember if sex is boring for you it'll take two people to make the change. I'm bored the death and my wife is perfectly content. It really sucks.
Comment by: jig 10/15/2009 15:26:06
Hey jig, have you told her how you feel? Is the sex focused on your orgasm or hers? Is she comfortable with sex? You need to start a dialog with your wife about your sex lives in order for them to change. And if she's uncomfortable with sex -- send her to Cherry TV! heh.
Comment by: ladybug 10/19/2009 20:41:28
Yesterday, we had a nice balmy evening here, and my wife (20 years) and I gathered up a couple sleeping bags and headed out to a small patch of woods on our property, and had a grand old time.
Mostly though, we've been together so long that we both know exactly what "works" so we don't often try to fix what isn't broken. :)
Comment by: sudonim 06/19/2010 19:24:31
Me and my fiance are in a rut..I am 7 months pregnant and our sex life is..less than satisfactory..we have discussed it and tried some new things but its still is in a rut...sex for me isnt as good as before and hee wants more and more blowjobs to compinsate for the lack of nookie but there is no gratificaton for me..any advice??
Comment by: Preggers 08/06/2010 06:34:04
Eeek, hard one. Maybe if he just masturbates while you kiss, touch, koo, and fondle him that will be satisfactory. Good luck!
Comment by: ladybug 08/30/2010 21:37:14
great book on this subject: Passionate Marriage, by David Schnarch.
Comment by: quick_study 01/29/2011 01:07:11
That isnight's just what I've been looking for. Thanks!
Comment by: Oliver 08/20/2012 12:42:21
I don't know if my sexlife is boring or not. Married 45 years and only had sex one on our wedding night. Husband told me sex with me was digusting,messy,smelly,pointless,meaningless, waste of time, and way to much work for so little. I'm 65 now don't really care anymore.
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Mostly though, we've been together so long that we both know exactly what "works" so we don't often try to fix what isn't broken. :)
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