i never even thought of making eye contact ....	Comment by: ladybug 05/20/2008 23:16:06

	I try to make eye contact whenever I open my eyes! haha	Comment by: ardah 05/21/2008 00:13:54

	thanx for talking about 'sound'...great idea!!!	Comment by: lorna224 07/07/2008 08:34:40

	Yeah, Jamye has some great ideas!!  We're so happy to help!!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 07/07/2008 22:56:51

	Thanks for the tip on how to cup my top lip and stick out my tongue in order to keep my teeth out of the way.  I need to try that one.	Comment by: Alisa63 07/10/2008 15:39:35

	the tip on the teeth is amazing.i forgot about it ad he didn't like it.haha i guess i'll try net time	Comment by: flirtyandcrazy 07/28/2008 00:32:54

	The real secret to a great blowjob is not technique, it's connection. Checkout blowjobsecrets dot net and learn more.	Comment by: cherylk 09/21/2008 18:24:22

	2 words to guide you ladies out there, Jenna Haze. She's a pro with the perfect technique... Swirl a hand-job and manage the tip with your mouth, it's pretty simple. For a guy to cum, it's more bout the hand-job than the blow-job - how do you think we are so efficient by ourselves!? Good video tho... and YES to lots of spit and pleasure-noises!	Comment by: greensleeves 10/23/2008 01:09:12

	i failed to get my guy to the finish line and it felt so depressing! which is why im doing self-study on bjs! thanks for the tips, babe.	Comment by: karen 10/30/2008 09:08:57

	I've always been a little awkward about "tickling or playing" with the guys balls. I mean it's kind of weird for me. There's been a couple people who say it's a good thing to do, but I mean am I the only on who finds that a bit gross?	Comment by: Marie 11/03/2008 19:02:23

	wait! wait! Isnt the "cum" yucky? and stuff.. idk.	Comment by: Bloom 11/19/2008 06:00:58

	I like the idea of humming like a vibrator - I'm going to try that next time I give my man a blow job.	Comment by: Bo 11/20/2008 18:56:37

	the hum techniche i've done before and men love it! If your concerned the humming will sound wierd, just do the humming in sperts where your expressing your enjoyment while giving the blow job " hmmmm oh yeah,,,,mmmm,  mmmmm oh mm" and son on. The off and on humming defenetly worked for me while performing. Give it a try!	Comment by: mespice 12/06/2008 00:14:18

	ohh ma Problem is my wife trying hard to suck my penis but she is not perfect Im Trying hard to find a nice clip can teach her how to suck penis or banana to make her good sucker !! She doesn't wanna watch some XXX Clips She want dildo sucking clip or banana sucking clip .... sory 4 ma English	Comment by: Man 12/09/2008 22:23:23

	Forme at least, the balls are everything aside from the penis.  If the girl doesn't look up at me once, I could care less.  My eyes are going to be closed and rolled upwards anyways.  If a girl tickles my balls or better yet, squeezes them on occasion firmly and really hard at the point of orgasm, she's done the "best blowjob" a guy could have.	Comment by: g02 12/16/2008 21:08:26

	I forgot to mention, instead of looking at me while sucking, just stop once in a while and take a break, and actually say the tickle words that girls say when tickling sometimes.  Thier like magic.  Only when a girl gets into tickling do the words really come out right.  The word, "tickle" repeated quickly and/or with a high pitched voice, or a direvitive of that word like "tickee, tickee, tickee", or "giddy, giddy, giddy", etc..  This is so freakin sexy and amplifies the ball tickling to an extreme.  No kidding.  Give the guy a sweat smile too when saying it.  He'll secretly love you forever.  P.S. don't forget to tickle his nipples and say the magic words too and work both areas then go back to the bj and switch around.  This is the killer blowjob/tickle to orgasm every guy secretly wants.  Trust me.  Especially if he's tied up!	Comment by: go2 12/16/2008 21:14:23

	OMG!  This is true!!  My boyfriend loves it when I tickle his nuts during a blowjob.  I have on and off tried really getting into tickling with him and the more I do it, the more we both love it.  He's like a dog when you tickle there belly on the side and thier leg does that twitchy thing?  My guy is like that dog but his cock responds instead of his leg. I never tie my guy up but I'm going to try and get him to try it.  I want complete control and tickle him until he laughs, then I'm going for the nuts and finish him off with a BJ.  And now that I think of it, g02 is right about girls and the funny sounds during tickle play.  Girls do make funny sounds sometimes.  I do and I didn't even notice it until I read this and started tickling him.  He loves it!	Comment by: julie 12/20/2008 21:37:31

	My girl gives head similarly. She uses the hmmmmmm and it feels oh so good.  She tickles me during the blowjob and it sends me to a higher level more quickly.  There's something magic alright about a cute girl with a cute smile and that, "I gotcha by the balls" look in her eyes while shes tickling your nuts away that really adds to the moment!	Comment by: drfeelgood 12/21/2008 21:18:26

	i dont use phrases like tickle tickle tickle, but  i say stuff like, i gotcha, or im tickling you while i get his balls, or ill tell him what i'm gonna do b4 i do it then i do it.  like i say im gonna getcher balls, then i do it.  it turns him on.  i dont say the word tickle too much or repeat it over and over like some girls.  i have on occasion made a noise that is not a word at all.  its sort of a sound like a high pitched tongue vibration that we make sometimes when tickling someone.  its kind of funny and easy to do.  just put your tongue up to the roof of your mouth and make a high pitched tone and let your tongue vibrate as the air goes out.  he seems to like that.	Comment by: debra4 12/25/2008 03:20:45

	Eye contact? Never. It ruins the moment.	Comment by: Stunt Cack 01/01/2009 12:05:59

	WOW. Okay, some of the stuff I learnt, I'm trying tomorrow when my boyfriend is coming over. I am sure he will love it. Thanks!	Comment by: Sandy 01/07/2009 12:22:00

	How do the guys feel about ass licking or sticking your finger in there ass?  Do they like one more then the other?  Or both?  My guy loves to have his ass licked, I would think it would only be natural for him to like a finger in his ass.  Help	Comment by: licker 01/07/2009 22:48:17

	I've given this guy head before and I was pretty comfortable then. But now I'm really nervous.  I don't want it do suck. Ha! But these tips have helped a lot and I'm gonna come back to learn more.	Comment by: alice 01/08/2009 03:24:20

	Eye contact only works for both parties if it isn't a one night stand.  And I couldn't imagine how much of a moment killer it would be if I started cooing to my hubby when I was tickling his balls.  Tickle tickle tickle ... really?  No.	Comment by: Demonatrix 01/17/2009 14:41:32

	Hey Demonatrix, that's because you're not a guy.  You don't have a clue.  Besides some guys like different things.  I mean come on, I heard of guys that like to be peed on while making love.  Certainly I can belive a guy might want to hear the tickle noises during the tickle session.  I know I do.	Comment by: frankluv 01/18/2009 02:08:35

	what if u have a gag reflex?	Comment by: crazygirly 01/20/2009 12:48:32

	Best thing to do in those cases is to stop and try from a different angle - maybe lying on your back with your head over the side of the bed and him standing is always a good one.  You can also ry sticking out your tongue.  We have a great Cherry Dish about it: http://www.cherrytv.com/video/ … techniques	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 01/20/2009 13:10:55

	I agree about the tickle sounds but I personally like it when I girl looks at you while doing anything to you.  Especially if she's doing something that tickles and she smiles in an evil way.  Love it	Comment by: xbox boy 01/24/2009 21:56:58

	Thank you guys so much you were such a help. I will try all these new things on my boy this weekend.	Comment by: Chasty123 02/03/2009 02:50:06

	i enjoyed this and i will try it on my boyfriend... me being a boy and all finds it hard to look him in the eye.. but i know he loves me so he wont mind if i cock up. BIG UP COCK MUNCHERS!	Comment by: ben jones 02/23/2009 12:33:32

	I love it when a girl makes eye contact at the first, but as they go on the only other time to make contact is when I'm shooting my load in their mouth.  Other than that I really want them focused, humming, playing with my balls or fingering my ass.  Nothing like have a finger up the ass pushing on my prostate while I'm cumming in their mouth.   Another trick is to start with crushed ice in the cheeks then spit the ice out and switch to an altoid.   If your tongue is pierced get a vibrating tongue stud for another twist on it.   Either way, keep sucking dicks ladies!  Encourage all your girlfriends to do the same!  There would be a lot more happier guys and you could think of it as your way to sucking for world piece.  :-)  Hard for guys to want to fight after good blowjobs!	Comment by: Lee 02/23/2009 20:13:30

	i like to squeeze my guys in the balls right when they are about to squirt.  It makes them so much more squirt in volumes.  They enjoy it, but be sure to not squeeze hard right after the squirting.   Sometime I like to grab and do quick tugging while telling them "I got you baby", "you can't get away now!"  then I laugh...hahahaha!  It makes guys feel helpless...	Comment by: brady19 02/25/2009 00:38:16

	i guess there are a lot of things to experience and men should really help suckers on the JOB.  Suckers should always start slow, continue and use your tongue more often.... but the best new thing i would like to share is something i would never know or think of it if that girl did not do it on me: she took 2 glass, 1 with hot water and 1 with cold water. As she start her job, she put some HOT water in her mouth and suck my cock with it then split out; she then put COLD water on her mouth and suck my dick with it then...MANNNN thats was incredible!!!!!!!! GIRLS, SURPRISE YOU LOVER WITH THIS NEW TECHNIQUE ! GOOD LUCK!	Comment by: EXPERT! 03/02/2009 01:24:53

	I have a question for "EXPERT!" I have heard about the hot/cold water blowjob...But I want to clarify how it works exactly I wanna try it on my husband but I don't wanna look stupid!!  So I just get the water and put it in then slide his dick in while the water stays in??	Comment by: TexanGal 03/03/2009 20:26:06

	My guy and I play ball grabby all night sometimes.....he loves it when i get him there and hold em...then i taunt him and tell him he's helpless and there's nothin he can do...then i laugh.  That other girl is so on, when you get a guy by the balls and squeeze, then taunt them with statements like she said..."i gotcha" or the tickle words like the one blog above, and give an evil grin and tug on em or pinch tickle them quickly also makes them helpless like a baby!  Ha ha ha ha!!! Girls rule!!!!  I love the look on thier face when you squeeze hard enough to reach and then pass thier threshold of pain and it turns to desperation.  Right there at that point when they suddenly feel helpless...it's priceless!	Comment by: darla20 03/11/2009 00:08:20

	HI TexanGal! you got it girl. It will be good if you start normal BJ, then upgrade by asking "you enjoin it babe....i bet i can do incredible..." then start with HOT water first....etc. GOOD LUCK!	Comment by: EXPERT! 04/01/2009 06:49:58

	MY HUSBAND WENT CRAZY ! HE SAID IT WAS WOW ! SINCE THAT I FELT A DEEPER CONNECTION BETWEEN US ! THANX ALOT	Comment by: LOVEcherrytv 04/04/2009 10:27:08

	omg i just tried it on my bf and he went crazi thnanks for the tips	Comment by: RAWR 04/11/2009 10:56:00

	Some upgrades on the hot/cold water BJ: 1. Best time: after taking shower together 2. best position: him standing, her on her knees 4. grab his butt with your 2 hands 5. look him to the eyes OR band his eyes 6. ................... 7. ................ 8...................to be contined	Comment by: EXPERT! 04/13/2009 03:33:46

	hey guys..not to brag but everytime i give guys bj's dey go crazyyy!heres some awesome tips..:P u start off by giving him a lap dance.....sit on his penus and move ur ass around and kiss him and move on  to his neck...make shure to give em cheeky smile...while ur @ it  take off his pants and tickle his stomach to ur way to his penus..now i cant really explain everything but here's some magic dat would work..u dont start off by sucking his dick..u gotta start off slow and take it on fast...u gotta tease dat dick..buh not too much..dont make it ovious, while ur starting to lick his dick u squeez his balls and look @ him in d eyes and kiss on .. da tip of his dick..u take it on from dere and dunt ever use ur teeth..it hurts n itz a turn off and yea deff  sexual sounds works ...i use my tounge most of da time..i swirl my tounge aroung da tips of his dick ...yea he luvs it ; )	Comment by: *CheeryBomB* 04/18/2009 10:12:37

	hi my name is courtney and i live in hawaii. Ive been giving my boyfriend head....duh..lol.....i wanted to make it more pleasureable....how u say...u think u can give me any advice?if so can u e-mail me at wailiula_2508@yahoo.com thanks	Comment by: courtney 05/05/2009 08:18:46

	Hi Courtney,  there are many videos and comments all over the site on how to make it more pleasurable. Here are a few good ones ... http://www.cherrytv.com/video/ … -technique http://www.cherrytv.com/video/ … tio-tricks	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 05/05/2009 11:30:37

	what if he came like after three up and downs?	Comment by: confuzed 05/19/2009 16:54:08

	Ok so i get what your saying. But it is my first time so i wanna be like the  best he has ever had. I follow the steps but i dont know if your supposed to suck it like a lollipop or just move in and out? Please can you make a video where like you show on a banana or something because i still dont know how	Comment by: I dont know how still 05/22/2009 16:05:55

	Hi again, you can do both.  You can use your tongue to (a pointy tongue is best), to lick all over -- and you can also move in and out.  Often the in and out gets tiring, so that's when you take a break and move to the licking. Don't expect an actual demo like that any time soon.  It's not our style.  We'll show diagrams and describe activities, but we don't want our incredible experts to simulate any sex act here.  I'm sure though there are plenty of places online you can find that!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 05/22/2009 17:11:43

	i tried your advice with my lover tonight. im happy to say....he enjoyed my new techniques.	Comment by: pussymonster 05/25/2009 01:01:54

	Another thing to do is to treat his cock like an ice cream cone. Lick every part of it, including the bottom part of his shaft, where most of the nerve endings are. You sould also lick the ridge right under the head on the bottom side. That, and the very bottom part near his nuts, is the most sensative part.	Comment by: BJ babe 06/13/2009 08:41:08

	HI, i did it to my boyfriend and he loved the techniques.  Actually it was his first blow job and it was a first to me too.	Comment by: Anonymous 07/09/2009 23:52:51

	suck in as far as you can suck you cheeks in and cover you upper teeth with your upper lip like she said, and using the tounge to over the teeth works perfectly, sucking your cheeks in will cover all sides of his penis	Comment by: it works! 07/16/2009 18:59:23

	I have found that my BF loves it when he is not expecting it. Like when he walks in the house up against the front door, or while he is driving, I also love to disturb him during a football or basketball game. Its such a turn on for me I often find myself playing with my clit while im doing it.	Comment by: VB4AS 07/17/2009 01:03:18

	when th penis is in your mouth as you are giving a blowjob tense your tong as if you are trying to touch the top of you mouth this wil create more of a cousion effect! and emember to always curl you lips in to avoid teeth if you teeth to catch then he wont forget it the whole thing would be classesd as a bad BJ ;)	Comment by: browny 07/17/2009 16:07:10

	I haven't given a blow job yet and i know my BF has had some before. I want to be the best he's had. I dont want to end up hurting him with my teeth, does the lip thing really feel good when you cover your teeth with you lips? Won't you look funny? Also, i read alot of guys like the "Tickle" thing, but it seems like it'd be embarrassing!	Comment by: Tristyn 07/31/2009 04:28:03

	Tristyn,    First things first, it's great that you want to give your BF a truly radical blowjob, but make sure that you're ready- it's a really intimate experience and you should make sure that you're truly comfortable with him first. Also, if you're worried about being embarrased or looking funny, maybe you should take some time to get comfortable with the idea first. Sex is messy and dirty (and yes, sometimes embarrasing) and that's part of the deal. But when you ARE ready, I can pretty much guarantee that your BF won't think you'll look funny, he'll think you look HOT! 70% of a BJ is how you look doing it, and guys love to see their gal really going for it and getting into the action. P.S., The lip-curl hasn't failed me yet, and the tickle is also a good bet. But the important thing is to communicate with your partner and pay attention to how he responds. Trust me, you'll know it if he likes what you're doing :)	Comment by: Sasha <3 CherryTV 08/04/2009 20:00:19

	For starters, great video.  Even after 21 years of marriage, it is helping my wife any I greatly. From a guy's perspective, I can say that variety of movements is needed, especially if you're not in your 20s or 30s anymore.  A lot of times, it's the lighter touches that have more impact when combined / alternated with firmer actions.  Go rough for a while, pause a bit and give a very light touch.  This is where the tongue can perform miracles.  Teeth / No Teeth ...  if done right, a little bit of teeth can actually be very arousing.   Eye contact and communication is absolutely needed.  That does not mean stare at him the entire time while discussing War & Peace, but asking "Do you like that?" or "Want more?" lets him know you're interested in his pleasure (which is a turn-on by itself). Humming...  Wow.  First time a woman did this for me, I just about went into orbit.  The penis doesn't even have to be in the mouth for humming to work.  Firm contact with the lips along the shaft can do it, too.  For an additional twist, if you can pull of the German or French rolling "R" sound, it's like humming on steroids. If it is time for "the finish" and you do not want him to ejaculate in your mouth, tell him something like "I want shoot it on my boobs" or "I want to watch you cum."  This is a great way to put a positive spin on "I don't want you cumming in my mouth." Just my two cents.....	Comment by: Steve 08/12/2009 13:54:19

	So here I thought I gave a good bj!! I recently was told during a fight with the man I love that was horrible at bjs. This only made me want to do more! I explained that he's got me emotionally drained half of the time and i don't do well then. So make sure your comfortable and very well into going for his manhood. I like to start off while he's limp. Maybe wake him up with his dick rising in your mouth. I start off with a deep throat(again while it's limp) and let it go from there. after that hold it in your throat for a little bit then slowly slide off and give him eye contact then start licking him all over like he's a melting fudgical and point your tounge doing little light quick flicks around his sensitive areas which i assume you've read in all these comments. Go for it! Long licks alined from the balls to the tip and take him in a few times with your cheeks sucked in tightly and yes DONT FORGET to cup your teeth :( Ive had this accident. Humming noises are great too and so is licking the head of the penis while his dick is fully lubricated with your spit(which from the deep throat if you can do it can give enough spit) and give him a hand job whilst doing that but do it in twisting motions and go up and down the shaft with your tounge and you hand in twist. Hope I helped :) and if you can't deep throat don't worry. Don't force yourself if your truely uncomfortable with it and find you just can't do it. That's why i can only start when he's limp. I too find it hard :( Gag reflexes.  LUCKxxxxx	Comment by: SweetNikky 08/13/2009 11:56:59

	A few things i forgot to mention. It helps when he's got good music on. Something of R&B and you can find your moving to the rythym when giving him  a bj. and make sure to communicate. Because if you don't.. You just wont really get your partner. So because he gave me the heads up that what i was doing wasnt working for him.. I let him know why and did my studies. Thanks for the extra tips too!!	Comment by: SweetNikky 08/13/2009 12:05:00

	Americans are crazy, lol	Comment by: Americafan 08/14/2009 05:30:37

	Thanks SweetNikky for the great extra tips!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 08/18/2009 15:32:07

	help! im very happy in a relationship with a wonderful man, the problem is... he is small down there! what positions/advice do you have?	Comment by: mlove 08/31/2009 02:19:00

	mlove,    Don't fret! There's not one, but MANY easy solutions here. Here are some tricks I've picked up to "maximize" a man's potential.      1. Foreplay, Foreplay, Foreplay. Get inventive and intimate with longer and more intense foreplay. You can make it the main event, or use it to get your body SO warmed up that climaxing during intercourse will come easier.      2. Try positions where a) you have the most access to your clitoris, b) he can have the most direct access to your goods. Go for:      ~Doggie Style. In this position, he can get full access. It's actually the position in which your bodies are most naturally aligned, and you can really get all of his goods inside you. Try arching your back and keeping those legs together for the most "full" sensation.      ~If you're more inclined towards the missionary, lie down with your legs either up in a V-shape (great position for you to stimulate your clitoris) or together and bent towards your face. You won't believe how big he'll feel! Hope this helps, and good luck!	Comment by: Sasha <3 Cherrytv 09/03/2009 14:12:07

	I love swollowing cum.	Comment by: sexfreak 09/20/2009 10:39:32

	to whoever asked if cum tastes nasty... i don't think it does at all, or at least when its fresh. and she's right vegetarians taste better. also if they eat fruit. such as pineapple. :) its my fave.	Comment by: some chick 09/20/2009 17:06:25

	Just give one without arguing about it first.  Men don't enjoy it as much if you have to have a argument about getting one first.	Comment by: O 09/22/2009 08:31:05

	hey guys, reading this is really helpful, i love my partner but am very self conscious, so find bjs kind of awkward, and im totally clueless also, but i really want to learn how to please him, so i may sound stupid but.. when using both hand and month is it best to move them together same direction at the same time? and when your licking and stuff, im guessing you pull the foreskin back? lol i really dont know, were both pretty inexperienced and shy, i could never do the looking in the eye thing, i need lights out :(	Comment by: janyey 10/09/2009 20:15:30

	janyey, yes, it's best (and easiest) to move the hand and the mouth in the same direction.  As for the foreskin - it isn't as sensitive as the shaft, so I am sure he would prefer you pull it back.  However, if you are comfortable enough, ask him.  You can either ask during (while keeping your hand active) which feels better -- or afterwords.	Comment by: ladybug 10/12/2009 20:26:41

	WOW great tips,,  :) iv given one before,,but they said i didnt do very well,,u should make a movie thinger about what happens if a guy doesnt cum,,cuz does that mean u didnt do a good job or what,, anyways thanks :)	Comment by: shanna 11/02/2009 14:17:13

	ive only givin one blowjob and he didnt get off but hes coming over in a few days and ill try this ! thank u!	Comment by: Nikki;) 12/30/2009 21:34:26

	For me, if I don't cum while getting a blowjob, it's almost always because the woman hasn't kept up a steady rythm once I'm getting close to orgasm.  If the woman doesn't sense this, it's up to the guy to let her know he's close, and tell her not to stop whatever she's doing to get him to that point.  Ladies, don't you agree it's the same for you when a guy's going down on you?  Last thing you want is for the guy to stop!	Comment by: RodNude 02/09/2010 11:28:46

	I don't enjoy giving head, but I WANT to.  Any tips for me?  I think it may be a taste thing...I have a bad gag reflex I know when it gets touched, but I find the taste also urns me off.  But I want to be able to do this for my hubby.  What can I do?	Comment by: WantToPlease 02/13/2010 15:54:02

	are you talking about the taste of his penis or semen?  The taste of his semen can be helped by diet change, the taste of his penis can be caused by a variety of factors, washing, soap, or, simply his natural smell.	Comment by: ladybug 02/16/2010 13:36:35