How To Have Safe Anal Sex

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How To Have Safe Anal Sex

Anal sex isn’t for everyone, but many people enjoy it. Yet, it is delicate back there, and if you're not prepared, it can hurt. Here Ducky explains the fundamental elements that need to be in place to stay safe while experimenting with anal sex. (more...). (5:17)

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	One thing we all have to remember -- never go from ass to vagina without washing. Whether it's a finger, toy, penis, or condom, it's sooooo important to keep any kind of fecal matter far away from our vagina. Change condoms and wash in between. And if it disrupts the rhythm, such is life, it's not worth the infection it can cause.	Comment by: ladybug 12/02/2008 19:42:49

	Great video!	Comment by: Christina Wall 12/03/2008 17:38:48

	Great information. Ducky makes it fun and easy to understand. Always has great tips!	Comment by: Char 12/03/2008 17:39:13

	Great Video Ducky! I know have a better understanding of anal play.	Comment by: MichellesToyRoom 12/03/2008 17:39:43

	great video!! this is a area that i needed info on... thanks!!! i understand the back door better....	Comment by: veronicas fun toys 12/03/2008 17:40:10

	WOW!!! That was great!! I learned some more about anal play!! Thanks for the tips Ducky.	Comment by: Tiffany T 12/04/2008 01:32:53

	HOW DO YOU CLEAN YOURSELF SO THAT THERE'S NO MESS?	Comment by: No Man 02/08/2009 22:46:35

	The best way to do it is to use an enema. You can get one from any local drugstore. Some recommend using it twice -- but I believe once is enough.	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 02/08/2009 23:21:06

	As always, another great video clip from Miss Ducky! I am definitely sharing this clip with some of my clients!	Comment by: FYP Missy In CT 02/25/2009 15:26:15

	love the tip about the "T" approach. Never heard that before, but now realize I've seen it on videos. I am so anxious to try it, but my partner doesn't seem that interested (a man, can you believe it?)	Comment by: sweetie 03/13/2009 16:02:20

	Anal sex lead to bleeding of the anal and HIV/Aid	Comment by: Safe 03/31/2009 20:23:05

	I have one query, Anal sex can be safe for men and women, and can anal sex improve the height of female. Pls advise.	Comment by: rinku 04/11/2009 14:40:29

	ADVISE FOR ANAL SEX?	Comment by: rink 04/11/2009 14:41:44

	Dear Rinku, Great questions! Here's my advice... (1) A lot of people are worried about anal sex being dangerous... However, there are many precautions you can take to help make anal sex a safe activity for men or women. Like any other sexual behavior, anal sex runs the risk of the transmission of STDs or HIV. If you tear a muscle, this risk may increase. So, make sure to LOAD UP ON THE LUBE and use a condom. There are also lubricated condoms, which might help. As Ladybug has explained, do not move the condom from the butt to the vagina... You'll need to switch condoms in between. Also, stay away from condoms with spermicide. These can seriously irritate the rectum. Be careful about 'forceful' penetration, and always make sure that you and your partner (if this applies) are feeling comfortable with the activity. If you practice this advice, you shouldn't have much to worry about. :) (2) This question is a bit harder to answer. As I'm sure you know, the female orgasm can be quite complicated and really varies from person to person. Some women find it extremely pleasurable to be stimulated anally... Some claim to be able to orgasm from anal penetration alone. (Anal penetration may hit the G-spot or clitoral legs- the latter ending just above the anal muscle on a woman.) This does not mean that EVERY woman will love anal or that it can increase/lead to her orgasm. Some women don't find it pleasurable at all. This is something that people have to discover for themselves. If you have any more questions, please let me know. I hope that this helps... Be sexy, be safe!	Comment by: LittleCherry! 04/13/2009 18:07:58

	Ducky is a babe! Very hot.	Comment by: Dale 06/11/2009 21:06:12

	good	Comment by: nasr1 09/22/2009 07:04:37

	can anal sex make penis weak and lead to premture ejaculation ,can it hurt penis veins	Comment by: bitts 10/01/2009 03:23:28

	pls pls advice can anal sex make penis nerves weak and lead to premature ejaculation	Comment by: bitts 10/03/2009 03:25:31

	I've never heard of this, or seen it written about anywhere (and I've checked a lot of sources), so can only assume it's a myth.	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 10/06/2009 14:43:27

	hi, if you and your spouse are in stable one on one relationship, you are in no danger of HIV or STD, that is you both do not have sex with anyone else. always have the man wear a condom, just makes good sense to reduce any chance of infection, plus he can pull it off and then enter the vagina and not contaminate the woman.	Comment by: James 11/12/2009 23:46:37

	the "T" method will be something my girl can appreciate! great advice, thanks!	Comment by: mr niceguy 09/19/2010 01:45:13

	My boyfriend and I had anal sex both of us being 'anal virgins' with no problems whatsoever. Recently however when we tried again (this time doggy style) it hurt me to the point that he had to pull out. Is there any particular positions that allow the girl to relax her sphincter more or are better for anal sex in general?	Comment by: fire 07/30/2011 20:26:43

	Anal sex is really a pleasure to perform.If taken due care & with patience it will make wonder to both the male & female.Everybody should try it at least once in his/her life.	Comment by: Ass Lover 08/17/2011 08:00:05

	Here's a tip to make your man come like a freight train. Just b4 he comes insert your little finger into his anus and give it a little play. This will make him go insane with desire and he will eject a bucketful into you!	Comment by: huththa 12/13/2011 08:05:25

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	I have a problem with my boyfriend we have tried anal sex and it was very painfull and his penis would'nt enter (even with lube) , i admit he has a large penis but i really dont know what to do ! please help !	Comment by: RR 01/24/2013 14:38:24