A factor of good sex is rhythm -- the way two bodies move together. When it’s on, and the couple moves as one, it feels great for both. When it’s off, and each is moving to their own rhythm, the connection is diminished. Can it be helped? Listen in. (8:45)
As a guy, I agree with the slower rhythm is best. Trouble is most of the women I have been with like it fast and hard. I must live in opposite land from these lovely ladies.
Comment by: Sconz 10/29/2009 02:39:37
Boy! Talk about reasons to limit sex to life-long commitment! Here it is!
Sexual rhythm is certainly a plus, even a key part of great sex. But, for those who are impatient to DO sex before allowing Life to give them a permanent sex-mate, there is just no way for intercourse rhythm to reach a point of harmony. Even those who live together for many years, but who are not emotionally committed to exclusivity do not develop this degree of oneness. Life rewards the sexually patient, and robs the impatient. It's simply seen by those with eyes and hearts to see, and completely off the radar for those who deny.
Comment by: C-A 03/04/2010 00:35:29
Now, this was a great discussion! In my opinion, men do most of the work. So, yes it important for both parties to understand each other body movement. I have only met few women who threw it back with the exception of cowgirl position. Even then a man will still thrust upward, but in a missionary position. Most women will just lay there. In some cases, I just got up. My philosophy is, if you won't move then I'll move off. Just imagine ladies, you are in the cowgirl position and your man is motionless. Lesson here is, if he's too heavy then rub his chest, grab his arms, squeeze his buttock, just do something. If a man is "jack hammering" grab his hips and slow him down...yes it that simple. Men for the most part, are the one to initiate sex, once the woman has agree to it. So, relieve so of his tension by participating. You know who you are.
10/29/2009 02:39:37
Sexual rhythm is certainly a plus, even a key part of great sex. But, for those who are impatient to DO sex before allowing Life to give them a permanent sex-mate, there is just no way for intercourse rhythm to reach a point of harmony. Even those who live together for many years, but who are not emotionally committed to exclusivity do not develop this degree of oneness. Life rewards the sexually patient, and robs the impatient. It's simply seen by those with eyes and hearts to see, and completely off the radar for those who deny.
03/04/2010 00:35:29
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