Intercourse and the O.

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Intercourse and the O.

Achieving orgasm through intercourse – for many of us, it’s easy ... but not for all! Basic penetration doesn't usually do the trick. Take a peek at this episode where the women discuss their experiences reaching orgasm during intercourse (more...). (3:42)

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Katie	Alex	Leah
Jill F.	Sandy

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	Although every woman's shape is different, I still have not after 6 years had an orgasm through intercourse with my partner. Are there some tricks, techniques which helped someone having difficulty finally orgasm through penetration?	Comment by: waitingto come 06/23/2008 12:33:19

	Certainly Waitingtocome, there are a number of methods your can try in order to reach orgasm during intercourse. Most importantly, your clit needs to be stimulated. Does it tend to be? If not, try a position in which you can touch yourself - with your hand or a vibrator - then stimulate your clitoris while he's inside you - doggie style or on top is great for this! Also, while on top, tilt your hips slightly downward to make sure you clit is rubbing against his penis -- it's a great way for that little pearl to get some action. And of course, you head must be into it! Try fantasizing or just focusing on the sensation. If you're distracted, nothing will work. For more help take a peek at "Favorite Orgasm Positions" and "What Works and What Doesn't". Good luck!! Have fun trying ...	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 06/23/2008 13:18:42

	I have never been able to have an orgasim through vaginal intercourse. I have had them with oral and...through "back door" sex. But I cant seem to achieve one with regualar sex. Any tips as to how I might be able to accomplish the big "O" with my partener inside me.	Comment by: Mars Bars 11/07/2008 17:33:53

	Hi Mars Bars, most women need clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm. Try manually stimulating yourself (or using a vibrator) while he's in side you and see what happens!! Enjoy!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 11/18/2008 16:04:38

	I am 27 and still to this day have never hard an orgasm. Everything except going through the back door has been done and nothing. Even through oral I have never been able to reach a climax. Yes I am very wet and super excited during sex but never an orgasm. After a while I just gave up and thought that it must be something wrong with me and its never going to happen. I have used a vibrator and well and still nothing. I just do not know what to do anymore. I love sex but want to be able to receive the whole pacakge. I try to concentrate but maybe I am concentrating too much. Please anything will help.....	Comment by: Whats wrong with me 12/17/2008 18:49:24

	Hi Whats wrong with me. Firstly, nothing is wrong with you! For many of us orgasm is extremely difficult to achieve, especially the first time. But I am confident that we all, with the right combo of physical sensation and head space can get there. Question, when you used the vibrator was it while masturbating and alone in the room or during sex and/or in front of your partner? If it was the latter, I suggest trying it alone when you may feel more comfortable to just to relax. Often we're worried about what we'll look like climaxing so that inhibits our ability. Sometime we're also scared to come. You may be reaching a point when it's ust about to happen, but for some reason hold back - maybe it's the idea of losing control, maybe yo're worried you'll pee, it can be any number of reasons that you're almost at the top of the mountain for not able to go over. And yes, you may be in your head too much, but I guess it depends what's in your head! If you're focusing on the moment and how good you feel and the sensations on you're experiencing, that's good head. If you're thinking "when am I going to come", that's not good head. Anyway, I hope these help!! Please keep us informed. You'll get theren - we're sure of it!!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 12/17/2008 19:36:26

	I have a very hard time having an orgasm during vaginal sex without a vibrator (unless I'm on top and titled just right). I recently got a vertical clitoral hood piercing and I find that it's mush easier to stimulate the clit without the toys just from the little metal ball getting moved around. Not saying everyone should go out and get pierced, but it really helped me!	Comment by: itsjustme 08/06/2009 22:56:57

	It's obviously very difficult for most women to have an orgasm through intercourse (though it's almost TOO easy for a man). If I may respectfully put forward two ideas for those who are having difficulties with this issue. In the missionary position, the woman can try lying parallel along the side of the bed. This way, as her lover thrusts, he can brace one foot against the floor - providing great leverage and control! Also, it makes it much easier for a man to roll his hips forward and down each time he pulls out of her - stimulating the front of his lover's vulva with his pubis (something she doesn't get if he simply "pumps" straight in and out). *This position could also be useful for a man who has limited flexibility in his back as it alleviates so much strain on his spine. Also, in the girl-on-top position, it is possible for the man to slide his hand beneath his lover's thigh and gently massage her clitoris with his fingers (particularly with the side of his index finger) while she moves on top of him. Honestly, the things a man can do with his hand in this position are limited because of the rather "cramped" space and odd angle, but some extra stimulation is certainly possible. Thus, this trick might work for some. I hope this helps!	Comment by: a lonely guy 01/11/2010 04:06:23

	Quit ego stroking chickalee...	Comment by: Double standard 03/24/2011 21:19:50

	9 comments in and no pecker size shaming yet?? By all means per usual you should feel free to blame the dudes p___s size or whatever.You know you want to.	Comment by: WTF 03/25/2011 13:04:47

	Yes, chcikalee...maybe they should view your bad sex videos. Replace the "blaming the guy" and insert themselves. @WTF. I am too surprise the "penis size blaming" did not start. I would like to hear these women partner penis sizes. I am betting, its not all about the size. Cherry TV seems to think so.	Comment by: yeah 04/05/2011 18:39:52

	I am 16. I'm in a loving relationship with my partner of 2 years. We are best friends and I trust him implicitly, and he thinks the same of me. My problem is, I feel no pleasure from penetration, and his touch doesn't do anything either. I worry that I have no G spot, that something is wrong with me...that i won't ever feel pleasure during intercourse with him. Is this a biological problem, maybe because of my age?	Comment by: just different? 08/14/2011 14:12:57

	I always say and believe that a partner can't 'make' you have an orgasm; only you can allow yourself to feel free enough to let go.	Comment by: yes 09/18/2011 22:30:53