Learning To Masturbate

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Learning To Masturbate

External only? Insertion only? Or a combo of both? What about vibrators and dildos? Women masturbate to orgasm in a variety of ways. Some had an easy time the first time they tried, other had to work at it early on. Listen in to the panelists stories. (more...). (5:18)

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Nora	Rosemary	Indy
Becky	Nicole

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	I tried with a dildo for years and thought there was something wrong with me because I couldn't get off!	Comment by: ladybug 01/05/2009 00:55:11

	wow	Comment by: wills 01/05/2009 17:33:56

	I think what also should be mentioned is that different kinds of vibrators work for different people. Some swear by the "rabbit style" but it does nothing for me. Its clunky and awkward and leaves me with no feeling. For just a good quick orgasm on my clit I use what's called a Ladyfinger. But the ultimate vibrator I've found is called the Clitoral Hummer. Its got this nub that's fantastic for clit stimulation and has very powerful vibrations. But I had a huge discovery with it. I could just insert the very tip into my vagina (with the nub facing up), not touch myself, just move my hips around and I can cum so hard. I'm absolutely addicted to masturbating that way now. I'm planning on getting another one to use on my clit at the same time and see what happens! On a side note, if you're going to try a dildo with no vibrations I'd suggest a glass one. They feel silky smooth even without lube, are very hard, and have a nice weight to them.	Comment by: Honeypot Explosion 01/06/2009 12:20:30

	I actually LOVE to go down on my wife. I love the taste, everything about it. I love to do it in the light because just looking at it drives me wild. Does that make me a pervert?	Comment by: Dannydrumstix 01/17/2009 13:51:13

	I try to masterbate, but i cant have an orgasm. i finger myself alot and i would love to have a viabrating dildo. im 11 years old. can anybody help me?	Comment by: jellydonut85 01/18/2009 10:46:48

	I'm only 15 and I really want to try a vibrator. Do you have to be a certain age to buy a sex toy? Are there any awesome vibrating alternatives I can use?	Comment by: hannah 07/04/2009 21:09:56

	Hi, I'm 21, never tried masturbation. I've been indulging in the non-penetrative sex with my partner. Just y'day, while we were doing so, I felt a sensation, deep down, which my partner told could have been something on my way to orgasm. I really wanna feel more of it myself first. Could you tell me what're the ways in which I can come? Thanks.	Comment by: nicks 07/14/2009 00:56:21

	Hey Nicks, The reason why you probably felt this sensation was because of clitoral stimulation from the rubbing and friction. So, to feel this on your own, touch your clit, rubbing it with different pressures and in different directions. Try to build tension in your muscles while still breathing deeply and regularly. (This can be a difficult balance for many women!) For more variations and tips, check out our other episodes on masturbation and sex toys... There are some good pointers for masturbation, including how to find your own g-spot, in the blog, as well. Hope this helps!	Comment by: LittleCherry! 07/20/2009 15:44:39

	I'm 17, I just started masturbating within the last few months, and I was feeling really bad about it because I was unable to get myself to orgasm. I'm relieved to know that I'm not the only one who has a hard time getting there using just their fingers. I've never used a vibrator, I'll certainly try it! What that one lady said about masturbating in the sunshine sounds so nice, I think I'll try that too. Lol.	Comment by: Akii 11/12/2009 01:49:57

	Hey I'm 13 years old and I am very interested in sex but I don't plan on doing it so I want to try masturbation. People say that it hurts and people said it can mess up your "thing" so how are some ways I can do it. I've been searching for a video on it for years untill I saw cherrytv so if one of you can help me out. I also feel like a freak when I try it because my friends find it bad for you. I know for sure it doesn't hurt because I watched a few porn videos but none of them help me out on how too.	Comment by: Curiousiam 11/17/2009 17:03:27

	Curiousiam, we have many videos on masturbation. Just click the "search by category" option at the upper left of the page, and select masturbation. They will all come up. Also, check out this blog post for help. http://www.cherrytv.com/blog/f … turbation/ Good luck!!!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 11/18/2009 12:41:24

	I'm 16 and I just started masturbating a couple months ago. I wasn't really sure what to do, so I looked up techniques and found one where you don't need to buy a toy or use your fingers. You get in the shower and turn on the water so it's warm (NOT HOT!!! that would burn!) then put your shower head on the massage setting (the one where it's 3 jets of water). Then you spread your legs (you can stand or kneel. I prefer kneeling) and hold the shower head to your clit. This makes me orgasm within a couple minutes (when I'm relaxed and just enjoying). I also find that holding the water till I almost orgasm, then moving it away for about 30 seconds and then putting the water back makes my orgasms stronger. Hope you enjoy :)	Comment by: iWantCandy 11/22/2009 01:50:12

	That's so nice - Masturbating naked in the sun. I'm going to do that. I have only really had clit orgasms and i find breathing, pausing useful. And for me its all about my body and turning inward, feeling everything. It can be meditation for me, because I treat it the same way.	Comment by: m 12/21/2009 07:38:03