Losing His Erection - Cherry Dish

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Losing His Erection

It’s happened to all of us -- our partner loses his erection during sex. Often it has to do with alcohol while sometimes it’s psychological. It rarely has to do with us! Listen in to hear the women talk about their experiences and how they reacted. (more...). (3:16)

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	There are ways to prevent such: Sexuality.org might be usefull	Comment by: xsxixmx 05/15/2009 20:09:47

	The guy im fooling around with NEVER loses his erection, and it seems to be a problem when i don\'t want to fool around. Is there anyway to MAKE them lose it?	Comment by: XxLoveDiruxX 10/26/2010 12:00:56

	No -- it's a time and a head thing. But don't feel bad if he still is hard and you want to stop. Guys are used to having erections that don't go anywhere -- he can handle it!	Comment by: ladybug 10/26/2010 12:02:15

	The panel did not offer a solution, thus what was the purpose? Futhermore, how did this differ from "drunk and impotent"? However, I do agree with the psychological aspect. Today, with all the debate on "penis size" infomercial on "penis extension" there is a level of pressure, rather the guy admits it or not. Ask a guy, if he even been with a women who was not moist, and some would say yes. But women would say he did not perform enough, if any foreplay, but a man loose an erection and its ALL him...hmmm.	Comment by: hj 11/14/2010 00:03:08

	Firstly, why do we have to offer solutions? These panel are about dialog. Secondly, women don't always/often think that whether he can't get it up or she's not wet it's his fault. More often than not, she blames herself!	Comment by: ladybug 11/17/2010 11:33:49

	And we and man can't get it up, he blames himself. I have witness bothside blaming the other to make themselves feel ok about the situation. I do not think you could understand the pressure of a man if cannot get an erection. There are over-the-counter product to assist and woman if she needs extra lubrication. Men will need a prescription and that alone is pressure/embarrasement. So, I agree that women may blame themselve, but don't think for a minute that men don't blame themselves too. In either cases, its doesn't speak for ALL men or women.	Comment by: hj 11/18/2010 13:52:57

	Maybe you are right about, "why do we have to offer a solution". I probably should have used the term advice because I thought it was one of the premise of Cherrytv. If I am wrong, then I aplogize. I was raised and taught that instead of complaining about something find a solution. For the most part, all I heard from the panelist was disappointments. Nothing wrong with that. But I bet most of your viewers to include men would benefit from hearing how others were able to "overcome" (or the word you prefer) the situation.	Comment by: TJ 11/20/2010 14:09:09

	When guys losing an erection. It may mean that heâ€™s distracted by thinking about how to please you or that heâ€™s distracted by less sexy thoughts such as whether he did well on an exam or whether heâ€™ll do well on a presentation the next day. Or he may find that, as aroused as he is by you, that the temperature is a little cold in the room and it makes it difficult to get or keep an erection. If youâ€™re using condoms, he may find that the condom is a little tight or uncomfortable on his penis. Or he may have masturbated earlier in the day and may find it difficult to get or keep another firm erection for several more hours or even the next day.	Comment by: steve 01/23/2011 21:38:41

	Sometime, it is the women. Lets not fool ourselves...if a women can loose interest in a man, then it safe to say the opposite. Woman should not blame themselves, but probably should take to their mate. Stress and medical issues are contributors, so before you start laughing, see if anything is brothering him. Thats if you care for him. If not, laugh and move on; however, we reap what we sow.	Comment by: sometime 02/19/2011 15:18:58

	It rarely have to do with women, but it definitely was not discuss. You can bash men on penis size, but you cannot acknowledge that there are cases when it is the women.	Comment by: RARELY 02/26/2011 04:01:20

	If he loose his erection, then talk about a woman he would like to have sex with. If it comes to attention....then it was you.	Comment by: Here a test 02/26/2011 23:56:57

	Women having a hardtime keeping a man penis erect....you answered your own question.	Comment by: Hmmm 04/10/2011 19:48:25

	Sometime men loose erection because of their mate. If a woman is being an ass then want sex...that's not the best turn-on. I'll rather rub one out. So lady, if a man is pleasing himself than with you. You might need to recalibrate your attitude.	Comment by: ah 04/16/2011 12:33:56

	Sometime it is the WOMAN. Don't deny that! Both MEN and WOMEN can lose interest.	Comment by: bull crap 10/03/2011 21:16:41

	I have lost my erection several times with women. I wasn't nervousness or whatever... It's simply, they were bad at it, and the same can for for women. However, women will ego stroke why a man lost his erection. Granted, it can be several things...and I will admit, it not the woman in the majority of cases. But it does happens. However, you would not believe it according to the video. If there are 10 reason why a man can lose an erection, then talk about ALL 10. This site is smells of hyprocrisy at me expense. So much for equality that women demand. I am starting to believe the old wisemen tales. " That women will only use equality, when it fit to their advantage" It easy to call men: dumb, lazy, a&&hole...etc. But EVERY woman is prefect, because Cherry Tv will not show their problems in the same video with men". In my book its call lack of moral courage!	Comment by: I have 12/25/2011 14:55:31

	So you all have a laugh at the man's expense when he loses his erection? There is potential with this site to do something of value but I don't think your achieving it. You are just trying to brag about your experiences to one another, mainly the bad ones. For the all the sex you have supposedly had, the answers are uninformed!	Comment by: Sam Sander 01/05/2012 03:56:51

	I only saw little girls speaking in that video. A real woman would know how to address this subject in a mature way. There are many reasons for a man to lose an erection. Some are link to medical reason...so for you all to simply laugh, pretty much illustrates what those men meant to you girls.	Comment by: TJ 01/29/2012 23:02:11

	SOMETIMES, IT IS THE WOMAN!!!! Don't get it twisted....your man can lose interest, like you can.	Comment by: 30 02/21/2012 23:12:25

	Shooting pool with a rope. Hmmm, what's the saying for women. She's so dry, like humping a SOS pad. Or she's big, like humping a pitcher of warm tea. You feel the warmth, but that's all.	Comment by: Reverse 04/06/2012 17:08:40

	tHE REASON HE LOST HIS WOOD IS BECAUSE YOU WERE TOO DAMNED UGLY...F-N WHORE!	Comment by: HA HA HA 05/21/2012 19:56:18

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