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Self Love & the Big O
Some women have orgasms during sex without ever having masturbated, but it tends to be more difficult. Masturbation helps us figure out how we like to be stimulated, what feels good, and what orgasm feels like. Here the women discuss their experience. (4:43)
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comment number 1 Suggestion for Stephanie: one of the best ways to overcome masturbating is to buy a vibrator- that is how I learned to come on my own. Even today i still find it very hard to come with my hands or a partner. Comment by: same problem
10/13/2009 05:20:14
comment number 2 Is there a better way to reach the orgasm, rather than a vibrator? During intercourse, I would rather reach my climax because of my partner and his position on me. Are there any good positions to which him and I can reach our climaxes together, without a vibrator or any other device? More of a want to do everything naturally. Comment by: Jess
10/13/2009 20:49:21
comment number 3 to me the clit used to be like a mountain because I stimulated the same area and so I got that same flooding to the 'peak' of the mountain and then I get off. The image of climbing and then 'getting off' the mountain still fits for me. BUT heres some advice: Your clitoris is probably so much more than you think it is; wider, deeper, more connected with other parts of you body, like the shaft that covers the clitoral gland (learn these words and know your anatomy!), I'm finding that it a rub circles on the top bit I keep the orgasm 'wave' rush in from below and take hold of me, wheras if i stimulate the bottom of the gland (WHILE STILL COVERED BY THE SHAFT - my 'naked' clitoral gland is very sensitive and rubbing it directly is this 'cold', 'firey' thing which is intense but a different orgasm for me). anyway, rubbing the bottom part  the wave pours in from above, rolling down the Mount of Venus.
This clitoris is amazing, keep exploring ladies and getting to know yourself!		 Comment by: m
12/13/2009 10:23:58
comment number 4 My POV is that women should be able to get themselves off first, in private. How dare you complain about your partner when you have not been successful in reaching an orgasm.

All I see here, "is he not satisfying you, is he large enough, etc.." If you do not know your own body, then look in the mirror before you start pointing the finger.		 Comment by: know your self and seek improvements
04/10/2011 09:37:01
comment number 5 Naturadally I am sorry to have caused aynone offence. I find it diffiadcult to underadstand why people so often bring so much emotion to any discusadsion ofa0sex.The sexual revoluadtion proposed that women could be considered more equal if they could be similar to men. I don’t see why women have to be the same as men in order to bea0equal.We have surely evolved as two separate sexes for a reason. There wouldn’t be much point in having two genders if our roles and aptitudes were identical.You acknowadledge that women have diffiadculties with orgasm — this implies a differadence. You blame men but why is a man responsadible for both his own orgasm and his partner’s?I am not saying that only men experadiadence sexual arousal and orgasm. I am highadlighting paraladlels between the male and female experadiadence (erotadiadcism is required for arousal and genital stimaduadlaadtion for orgasm).I am talking openly about my experadiadences of sex (and those of women I have talked to) in order to stimaduadlate further discusadsion on this website to improve our underadstanding of female sexuadality so that women can make the most of their sexual experadiadences over the longer-term. Comment by: Auth
10/25/2012 01:47:31
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