Not Reaching Orgasm - Cherry Dish

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Not Reaching Orgasm

Sometimes it is not easy reaching orgasm. How to separate the physical and the emotional is often difficult. The women provide advice on figuring out the factors that effect sexual satisfaction whether it's ones partner, ones mindset, or ones libido. (3:13)

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Nicole	Celeste	Safiya
Sarah	Melissa

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	ive done that, masturbate afterwards while he's asleep. it suxs	Comment by: catnip 05/20/2008 21:59:12

	me too. but i guess it's better than nothing. kinda	Comment by: ladybug 05/20/2008 22:00:26

	women are selfish , if you don't reach there , do some thing more for yourself like men do , focus on it , think about it more instead of expecting to get more and more and more.	Comment by: cowboy 09/10/2008 17:44:56

	I think it's different if your partner is selfish - but if they're not and you're not, then it doesn't matter what the end result is. My previous relationship was very selfish and it was all about him. Now I'm in a relationship that is very caring, loving and I love being in-the-moment... it makes a huge difference. And if things don't go all the way to the finish line, it's ok, because sometimes it is me... maybe I had one too many drinks, or maybe I'm nervous or stressed, but the fact that he's there and cares as much about me as I do about him makes it so much better than anything I've ever experienced before. Make sure you're with the right guy!	Comment by: Meow 11/23/2008 09:03:58

	To date Im 31 and have never orgasmed got to the stage were im very distressed over it, I simply dont know how, never felt comfortable masturbating but have started I can get my clitoris to contract through manipulation but have to stop after a while as it gets too sensitive which in return makes me feel even worse :( can you offer me any advice at all?	Comment by: Rosebud 11/22/2010 23:06:34

	Rosebud, if you find your clitoris is getting too sensitive during masturbation -- I would suggest moving back a little, along the root (check out the video http://www.cherrytv.com/video/ … e-clitoris to learn more about the anatomy). However, that sensitive feeling -- relaxing and enjoying it, is what leads to orgasm.	Comment by: Lala 11/30/2010 20:53:29

	I am SORRY, but if you cannot orgasm with your own body, then its YOU! Its always easy to blame someone else for your failures. People do it all the time. Yes, men orgasm easier, because most men go into sex, thinking about sex. Many women are thinking about the chores he/she didn't accomplished, or Sally's dress looked ulgy, or etc. Yes, some men are selfish, but that should be looked at with a two-way mirror. Because if a woman is boring in bed. What do you expect? That can be applied in reverse as well. However, from my experience, if a woman comes to bed like a tiger....most men will react like a beast. If you come to bed like a mice...most men will react to your lack of enthusiasm like wise. Simply put: You get out of it, what you put into it. Yes, its that simple....men and women cannot understand that concept. SO SAD!!!	Comment by: Its you 09/06/2011 12:25:37