Masturbation is one thing -- coming with a lover is another. For some women it happened in their early sexual relationships and has been a regular occurrence since. For other women, it has yet to happen. But that's normal; it's all part of the process! (more...). (4:52)
I totally am with Stephanie on this one! Just because you're not having an orgasm doesn't mean that you're not enjoying it or that you're not horny.
Comment by: MoshiMisho 01/12/2009 17:13:55
ohmigod - we're **totally** not saying that!!! one definitely doesn't need to have an orgasm to enjoy sex. For many people it is about the experience and not the destination . However, as you'll hear Stephanie say, she hasn't been fulfilled -- she feels as if she's missing something and needs to continue to have sex in the hope of getting it. That feeling most likely is orgasm. It's always nice to have the option to orgasm - the ability to get there - if you want to. Stephanie seems to want it, yet doesn't know how (yet!).
Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 01/12/2009 17:39:59
If Stephanie really want to experience an orgasm with a partner, she'll have to let got and not restrain herself. That sensation of wanting to pee to me means she's a squirter and there's nothing sexier than that. Stephanie needs to let go and let that "pee" out. It's really not a shameful thing. As a man I wish all my sex partners could squirt!
Comment by: AttentiveGuy 01/15/2009 00:36:06
I agree with AttentiveGuy. I've had a couple of squirters in my life time and I find it to be an UBER turn on!!! And in most cases it's not actually urine but something else. A doctor could better explain this phenomenon.
Comment by: lawman 03/30/2009 05:07:58
How silly! As uneducated as they come in holistic health sexuality, they all fail to inform that the Orgasm itself is VERY harmful to the mind, body & psyche of humanity. A must read for those who want real education: Peace Between the Sheets, by Marnia Robinson. Make a request to join my forum on Holistic Sexuality: devahshanti@yahoo.com - It's shocking, yet revolutionary & empowering!
Comment by: Mahashakti 06/04/2009 14:20:45
I am much like Stephanie...my partner and I have been working on ways to help me over come the restraining...but it's been very difficult. He has begun to call me the insatiable
Comment by: Wonderer 06/09/2009 03:24:43
Yes, it can be difficult. Have you reached orgasm via masturbation (hand or vibrator?). You can try including those techniques into your partner sex play.
Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 06/11/2009 01:20:49
Scientific evidence shows that orgasm is very healthy psychologically and psychically. For ME anyway, I dont know about you Mahasataki, but I actually like, no, love sex! It is the glue that holds all serious relationships together. Without it, the relationship dies.
Poor stephanie! Maybe she is one of those woman who are physically unable to have orgasms?
Comment by: AshleighCreagh 12/09/2010 08:20:42
FYI -- since this vide has been taped -- Stephanie, with help from a vibrator, has in fact experienced orgasm. Go Steph!!
Comment by: ladybug 12/09/2010 15:43:25
Stefanie is a big turn on throughout these videos. She says in several vids how loves to be dominated during sex. Her comments are a real turn on. Thank you Stefanie.
Comment by: That Guy 07/02/2011 02:20:44
Does it not sort of boil down to whether the man wants to be an egatisticol selfish sexual snob and NOT want to take the time to make every effort to please his partner? Come on guys, whether you're doing the Commando thrusting and pumping routine,(which is probably what most men are doing) or being extremely sensual by using your fingers, or even better yet, your tongue, pardon the description here; but it's like licking an ice cream cone. You don't want to gobble it down in one big swoop, you want to savor it, slowly, passionately, intimately. So it is by using your fingers, it's moist, warm, succulent, take advantage of feeling her body move against your rhythmic pulses. Get off your high selfish horse and enjoy her responses!!
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Poor stephanie! Maybe she is one of those woman who are physically unable to have orgasms?
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