Many of us have sex for years without ever reaching orgasm. While sex is still enjoyable, we can end up feeling unfulfilled. Often its because we don’t masturbate so we don't know what orgasm feels like and how to get there. Here the women discuss... (3:35)
Rosemary says she was scared until she masturbated. I have orgasmed with a vibrator during masturbation and sex, but have been unsuccessful without it. When I can feel it coming, I get excited, but it distracts me (in my head I'm thinking, "yes, this is it!") and then I lose it and have to start all over again. What can I do to relax?
Comment by: StillTryingForIt 06/25/2010 14:21:19
It takes practice, but you just have to push through -- and often concentrate on coming. Relaxing works, but sometimes actively thinking about your pending orgasms works too!
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