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Penis Cut and Size
Circumcised vs. uncircumcised – do you have a preference? Super big vs. super small – is one worse than the other? The look and size of penises and the range in which they come is the topic. Listen in to see how the ladies embrace difference. (more...). (5:43)
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comment number 1 No comment Comment by: Brandy
01/23/2009 15:27:49
comment number 2 I still can't figure out why "sexperts" insist that penis size is irrelevant to female pleasure when it is clear from watching you guys, and a lifetime of experience, that it is very important. Either that or women just randomly blurt out that it does not based on any actual thought or feeling. These are just thoughts that pop out of their mouths unconnected to their brain. That's it. Or it is just "some" women. I have known probably a dozen women well enough for their thoughts on the size issue to come out in one way or another. I don't know of a single one who didn't have a preference for larger. I don't think that they are an unrepresentative sample. Some are more militant about it than others, but still. OK, only two were really militant about it. I actually know two married women who have, unforgivably, in my opinion, complained about their husband's diminutive size in my presence. I guess they get a twofer. They attack their husband, and make me feel like crap because I know I am the same, and my wife probably complains about me to them. Or maybe she doesn't which is why they feel comfortable saying such awful things in front of me.

Supposedly, there are studies out there that say that uncut men have fewer divorces and that their partners have more vaginal orgasms. How about this for a topic? What positions and "techniques" work best for the average or smaller man? I do think sometimes though, that if the medical establishment left the penis alone, women wouldn't need to seek larger penises to get the sensations they would get from an unmutilated one.
Comment by: shouldn't have watched
01/26/2009 21:49:40
comment number 3 Let me just say SIZE DOSE MATTER!!!!

One time I was fooling around with a guy and when I first sow his penis I thought 'Well there is no way that huge thing is going to fit in my little vagina.'  We were unable to have sex with each other because he was too big. It just wouldn't fit. I felt a little sorry for the guy.  There are only a small hand full of girls he could actually have sex with.

I had another boyfriend. He wasn't long but my God he was thick. Every time we had sex it was painful. I bled, I felt like my skin was ripping apart inside, and to top it all off he was rough with me. Let me just say it was not good sex.

Another boyfriend I had was so small when he was in me I  could only feel him if we were doing it doggie style. And then he came with in the first 2 minutes every time.

But my boyfriend now is the perfect size.  Not too big but not too small. No pain, I can feel him in every position.  And on top of that he knows how to work it. We are the perfect fit.
Comment by: Zesska
01/27/2009 07:39:54
comment number 4 I wish all the clips were a little longer or more like this! Comment by: LikeCness
01/28/2009 02:01:06
comment number 5 I hear you!  We hope to eventually offer the entire roundtable session for users to stream or download. Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
01/28/2009 03:44:47
comment number 6 I would like to give you ladies a hint of how to handle a guy who is worried about his size: Next time he says something about it say "Somebody wants a blow job." and give him one.

When you are in bed together, apropos of nothing, snuggle your nose into his crotch and give it a good fondle through the pajamas or underwear, or whatever. Or, if you lose interest in the man because of it, leave. Just resist the need to belittle him on your way out.

Don't tell him "size doesn't matter." He is not an idiot. Let him know, not through words, men don't process words the same way women do, (he will certainly believe that you are lying, even if you are not, )but actions, that you love him, and that includes his cock, which is the instrument of pleasure which either God or an uncaring universe gave him. Tell him you love his cock because cocks don't lie (which is true), when it gets hard around you, it is saying emphatically "I love you."

Don't tell him about that huge lover you had in college, that is girl/gay friend talk. It will be a moments conversation for you, but a life-long memory for him, and he will mark you down a notch for it. Not for doing it, but for bringing it up years later. He will of course deny it, because he knows that to admit it makes him look less of a man. So it goes into the resentment bucket. Little bits of damage accumulate over time and destroy marriages. I know that sound obvious, but lots of women do it. Resentments don't get repressed, they express themselves in different ways; cheating, anger at other unrelated issues, eventually divorce.

Anyway, if you take nothing else away from this, just remember that verbal re-assurance is meaningless. It has to come at times he hasn't mentioned it too.  Verbal put downs, on the other hand, are devastating.
Comment by: bideawee
01/28/2009 12:27:03
comment number 7 Hi girls,

Thanks for your candid views on this clip (cut/uncut/size), it made me feel much better about everything around the issue. I am 38 yrs, cut and 7" / 5.5" length / girth and have always had issues around the size of my penis (thinking its too small). I think this is largely due to my exposure early on to pornography. I have also realised with age and maturity that sex gets better bt its in the mind not the body - helps if I can prevent ejaculation for as long as I can but my wife is such a looker I have a hard time!
Thanks again
Steve-o
South Africa
Comment by: Steve-o
02/01/2009 02:22:26
comment number 8 My experiences with size...

I have numerous sexual encounters in my life but only four long term sexual relationships.  I'm not sure if length matters or not.  But I am sure that thickness does.  In the order of the relationships the men were approximately the following sizes:

#1 - 6" and average thickness
#2 - 5" and average thickness
#3 - 8 1/2" and proportionately thick
#4 - 5 1/2" and very very thick

I think when I first experienced #3 i thought length mattered but I soon learned he was more dependent upon size than technique.  I was the one that had to be creative so as not to get killed by the thing.

#4 was a different matter...in fact quite interesting.  Flaccid he was/is over 5" long.  The first time i saw him naked i was fearful i ran into another long one.  However, as he got hard he just got thicker and thicker.  My forefinger and thumb do not touch when i wrap my hand around him.  Once he penetrates me I have no concern about his lack of length because he is contacting every nerve ending i have at my vaginal opening and forcing clitoral contact also.

So my conclusion is length only matters if too short say less than 5" or too long say greater than 7".  Anywhere from 5" to 7" is perfect.  However, I guess I believe the thicker the better!
Comment by: Mary the MD
02/20/2009 02:32:45
comment number 9 wow -- Mary, I'm impressed you know the exact size of your past BFs.  Your conclusions are quite interesting! Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
02/20/2009 15:35:38
comment number 10 May I ask what the girls think is too short or too thin in inches? Its obviously a critical factor for the women here. Thanks. Comment by: tim
08/18/2009 21:01:43
comment number 11 Hey Tim, I don't think the women will be able to give exacts like that. But don't worry!!  A good lover isn't necessarily someone who can "fill up" a woman. There is so much else to sex.  And, for many women it's not even intercourse that induces orgasm!! Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
08/18/2009 21:56:03
comment number 12 Thanks for the response Cherry. But I still do worry- its clearly important given that clip- they had utter contempt for the smaller guys they had been with- so I for one want to know if I am in that category. It cant be that hard to read off a ruler surely? Thanks again, Tim. Comment by: Tim
08/19/2009 19:49:24
comment number 13 OK Tim- these are the best I could gather from my friends-
minimum length- around 6.5 inches
minimum girth- around 5.5 inches

...and if we could choose which was above average it would be girth.
hope this helps...
Comment by: jenny
08/31/2009 05:37:33
comment number 14 Hey Tim, please keep in mind that the figures given by Jenny (and thanks Jenny for addressing Tim's question directly) are from Jenny's milieu (environment). Women from one part of the country or who share an ethnicity may be familiar with one average, while other women are comfortable with another.  Check out our recent blog posting about it http://www.cherrytv.com/blog/p … hgirth-qa/

I'm tempted to take that video down because, while the girls are just being honest, we forget that it's just those women -- the women who disagreed didn't speak up or where not there.  Hence, people think it's mandatory for all men to have substantial penises to please a woman, which isn't true at all!!!
Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
08/31/2009 16:05:51
comment number 15 Please don't take down that video. I am sick of womens sexuality taking a back seat to mens egos. I thought the clip refreshingly honest and reflects my own experiences. I thought the dimensions given were about right too although I have only dated white  UK guys. I expect there is some variation. Comment by: Tess
09/02/2009 05:50:01
comment number 16 Thank you Tess. You are right. Why should we feel bad about honestly talking about male physical attributes, when men do it about women all the time?!? Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
09/02/2009 08:38:53
comment number 17 I guess I have been naive all these years. I had no idea how unacceptable small men were to girls. I'm white too and I am nowhere near 'Jenny's' minimums. I sort of guessed smaller guys might illicit sympathy as opposed to lust but I hadnt expected contempt/digust etc. I cant argue with honesty I guess and you feel what you feel- I'm just shocked at the strength of feeling. Comment by: Tim
09/02/2009 19:41:21
comment number 18 Don't forget Tim, intercourse is just one part of sex.  Personally, I'd rather someone who could perform amazing oral sex than fill me up while screwing. Comment by: ladybug
09/02/2009 20:25:53
comment number 19 OH COME ON! UNDER WHAT SITUATION DO YOU ONLY HAVE A CHOICE OF JUST 2 GUYS LIKE THAT. THE MAJORITY OF MEN HAVE GOOD ORAL SKILLS AND AN ADULT SIZED PENIS.

THE QUESTION IS WOULD LADYBUG DATE A GUY WITH 4 INCHES HARD? OR EVEN RESPECT HIM?
Comment by: ANON
09/04/2009 10:53:25
comment number 20 Circumcised penis give continuous orgasms & ladies squirt too with circumcised men. Comment by: Seetadevi
09/08/2009 10:42:21
comment number 21 I dont think girls really care about circumcision too much. Perhaps most have a slight preference for cut?

As for size, I think 4 would present a challenge tbh.
Comment by: Bella
09/10/2009 19:24:55
comment number 22 Penis size should not be a problem for any woman.  If a woman during child birth can accomodate a baby\'s head, then a penis no matter how thick or big, can easily enter the vagina effortlessly. Comment by: jz9600
09/17/2009 03:08:06
comment number 23 jz9600 -- childbirth is incredibly painful (and certainly not "effortless"). Why would any woman choose to experience that sort of sensation for pleasure? The truth is, for some woman, larger and/or thicker penises aren't very comfortable and can hurt when insertion occurs in select positions. Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
09/17/2009 03:10:53
comment number 24 Ok, this clip is mainly for women and i get that some guys may be offended but come on, when was the last time a guy had a huge penis inside his vagina?? answer: none.  It hurts.  Childbirth is painful.  The body has to allow for it and there is ripping and tearing and apparently we need to just deal with a penis that is too large for the vagina??  As with penis size, vagina size can vary too.  
In case the men didn't listen carefully enough, women end up bleeding.  That is not ok.
Comment by: kimmi
10/01/2009 06:37:01
comment number 25 I am 6" long and 5 3/4 thick and I have never failed to please a woman. I have had several tell me I am the only man they ever had an orgasm with. It is not about size it is about the totality of the sexual experience. If the male makes it about the woman and not just getting himself off then the woman responds in great ways. Foreplay, oral sex sensual touching mixed with a little pain and roughness. It is not about puncturing her kidneys but making her body an erotic piece of art you both can enjoy. Make her the focus not YOUR penis and you both will want to come back for more. IMHO Comment by: dale
10/28/2009 12:28:03
comment number 26 Ur right Dale...my bf's penis is about 5" long and round but he makes me come more than any big dicked man I have ever been with. He knows how to use his tongue and mouth. My favorite position is 69 with me on top he uses a pocket rocket in my but an avg dildo in my vagina and his wonderful tongue on my clit. I have cum 4 times in a row like this. It is also great that I can depp throat him with no problem and he loves it wich turns me on even more. DICKs arent the only thing to use for sex ...lol Comment by: lickinglisa
10/28/2009 14:05:54
comment number 27 Here we go again- the apologists for male inadequacies. No girl should be told size is irrelevant. They might spend their life with a smaller guy and be none the wiser. What a travesty to miss out on lifes great physical and emotional pleasures. It makes my blood boil. People should be told the truth so they can make informed decisions. Regardless of the egos of a tiny percentage of the population. Comment by: Tess
11/06/2009 12:17:25
comment number 28 so tess, i ask nervously, wot are your minimums? Comment by: brian
12/03/2009 15:31:26
comment number 29 I am not going to speak for all women because I have my own preferences which dont always match my friends. I guess I would prefer over perhaps 7 inches?- but could work with 6?. But its girth that counts. If there is no girth it wont matter how long it is. I'm sorry if its harsh but thats the truth of it. Sex should be a 2 way thing. Mutual pleasure. Not an ego stroke for a guy. Comment by: Tess
12/07/2009 20:43:56
comment number 30 oh great. This means I'm not qualified to have sex does it? I mean I didnt wish this upon myself did I? Comment by: brian
12/19/2009 14:15:12
comment number 31 Tess, i am with you.  Average lenght is ok, but pencil thickness hehe is hard to work with lol Comment by: Liv
12/19/2009 21:09:01
comment number 32 ok great again! so its pointless me ever being with a women?
and how thick is the minimum acceptable? were do i go from here?
Comment by: brian
12/20/2009 13:14:09
comment number 33 Hey Brian;
Look, you have our sympathy for your predicament but in fairness this is a site specifically about sex advice for women so you are likely to encounter honest and explicit opinions here. Perhaps you shouldnt visit this site?- perhaps a counselling service/site would be better? Peace.
Comment by: Tess
12/21/2009 11:30:08
comment number 34 Tess -- great responses!  Thank you. Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
12/22/2009 02:02:22
comment number 35 So you are telling me to sling my hook! I thought a female sex site would want input from both sexes. All I wanted was some answers- what is a minimum girth so I know where I stand! Whats wrong with that? If I am as pathetic a specimen as some of the girls here maintain then I need closure on this. It could effect my choice to have kids... wether to pursue a relationship...how much I should settle for anyone who will have me.... all sorts of things.
And thnks a bunch for the counselling idea- I tried it- they suggested a hobby- put yourself in my shoes- how would you feel
Comment by: brian
12/22/2009 11:06:13
comment number 36 Brian, actually -- we are always in your shoes.  Society and men judge women all the time on the size of our breasts and the shape of our figure. In this respect, we do not need input from men... we know how you feel.

And if you read all the messages, you'll see girth size is mentioned quite a lot.
Comment by: ladybug
12/22/2009 15:23:32
comment number 37 So you are saying that you would be happy to have a hobby instead of a relationship? due to your inadequacies? Anyway I know loads of blokes who are happy with a fuller figured girl.
I just want to know how unacceptable I am? or not? one girl said 5.5in was the minimum girth- is this true?????????? If so I might as well give up
Comment by: brian
12/23/2009 05:39:15
comment number 38 Lucky for me I meet the minimum requirements (barely), but I gotta say, this video is really harsh. Sure, guys tell stories about ugly/fat girls, but at least the ugliness/fatness is a known quantity from the start. This guy with the pinky-sized weiner, it's this shocking discovery made right when the sex is about to begin. His sex life is basically destroyed. "Started and ended in one night" is the best he can hope for. And what kind of a night is it gonna be? Nasty stuff. That's a much more serious thing than the fem-bable about breast size. Comment by: Sam Spade
01/08/2010 05:23:03
comment number 39 Okay, here's an analogy that'll help some of the chicks understand:

Imagine a pretty young woman with really awful scarring all over her torso and legs. She was in a fire or something. Can she have sex? Sure. Trouble is, most guys just can't handle it. But she keeps trying, goes out on dates... gets to the part where the clothes come off... and it starts & ends all in one night. Ouch.
Comment by: Sam Spade
01/08/2010 05:52:56
comment number 40 I just noticed that last few comments. Plain silly. Its not nasty for a women to express her honest preference. Of course its a shame if someone is disfigured, or disabled or has small genitals or whatever and certainly they shouldnt be ridiculed to their face but people fancy what they fancy. End of. If you were a girl I think you would change your tune pretty quick. Comment by: Tess
01/12/2010 21:08:26
comment number 41 This is the first post I've read on this site that seems very combative.  I hope that this is not what's in store for this site's future...  This is a women's site after all, and it's good that women can be honest here; but let's try to be respectful to one another.  

On this topic, I have no idea of my exact dimensions, but I'm probably about average length/girth.  My former lover however had a very tight vagina, and she was extremely sensitive when it came to intercourse of any kind.  I always had to enter her VERY slowly, and we coudn't do certain positions such as doggy-style without hurting her.  Thus, we didn't have very much intercourse.  I have two points to make with this story.

#1 As an average-size man, I was still too large to have intercourse freely with her without hurting her.  Thus, a minority of women may actually appreciate it if a man's penis is not big, and

#2 My lover's "tight vagina" might have been considered a flaw to some people because it narrowed our sexual options.  However, we enjoyed other sorts of sex - especially cunnilingus - so much that it didn't really matter at all; she was wondefully beautiful and sexy to me.  There were so many other things that made her a splendid lover and friend to me, and I can't even describe how much I miss making love to her.  

Everyone has his own preferences - it's true - but we should all remember that no one is perfect.  Let's keep this site positive!
Comment by: a lonely guy
01/15/2010 03:26:04
comment number 42 My boyfriend says he is worried about his size. We are both 19 and have been ready for a while to take things to a physical level. He is really het up about it. What can I say to make him more confident?- I'm pretty sure I wont be bothered either way Comment by: Trina
01/20/2010 20:39:26
comment number 43 let him know that size is just a small part of sex, and that there is a lot more he can do to satisfy you. Comment by: carol
01/25/2010 16:50:44
comment number 44 It comes as a surprise that no one here seems to have heard of Kama sutra. On part of the Kama Sutra describes and categorizes men and women according to the size of the genitals.
Male Types: Hare (small) – Bull (medium) – Horse (large)
Female Types: Deer (small) – Mare (medium) – Elephant (large)
Best unions are achieved by matching similar genital sizes.
As regards the unequal unions, when the male exceeds the female in point of size, his union with a woman who is immediately next to him in size is called high union, and is thus of two kinds; while his union with the woman most remote from his size is called the highest union, and is of one kind only. In other words, the horse and mare, the bull and deer, form the high union, while the horse and deer form the highest union. HIghest here not beeing synonym of best, on the contrary ....
On the other hand, when the female exceeds the male in point of size, her union with a man immediately next to her in size is called low union, and can thus be of two kinds; while her union with a man most remote from her in size is called the lowest union, and is of one kind only. In other words, the elephant and bull, the mare and hare, form low unions, while the elephant and the hare make the lowest unions
So if you count, there are, then, nine kinds of union according to dimensions. Amongst all these :
-  equal unions are the best,
-  the highest and the lowest : Elephant/Hare or Horse/Deer, are the worst,
-  and the rest are middling, and with them the high are better than the low. Means a big penis will at least gives some sensation to a medium vagina, whereas a small penis  will strive  to feel anything or not to slip from a bigger vagina ...
So what to do with this ...?
Myself having understood long time ago that I was qualifying for hare penis, I have as well since long ago, focused my interest on girls tight waist and hips, like teens or asian and on the contrary avoiding big butt ladies (you already loose, 1 to 2 inches in getting to the entrance :-) ... ) or  housewives, wich repeated pregnancies have enlarged their vagina ....
Ok, that can now seems quite rude for said housewives, which can then feel as segregated as small penis men can feel, but WAIT, they have choice !!! By practising KEGEL exercises, they can actually muscle their vagina to the point of handling and writing with a pencil ....
So don't feel excluded anyone ... Plenty of options are here ...
Comment by: Pavitra
01/29/2010 09:14:59
comment number 45 All I can say is I am 11" long and 10" round and women run when we get to that point. Evev the women who have herd of my gift and are all about getting it but when it comes ou they run. SO i do not believe the "Size Queens" on here who says it is the size. Big =bad also. I am 29 and have had intercourse with a woman 4 times. Now while not being gay I have had several encounters through frinds and such where the gay guy was a bottom and didnt mind my size. I don suck dick and dont take it in the ass but I will tear a mans ass up because I cant find enough women that want to fuck me. Comment by: mostofit
02/03/2010 02:10:08
comment number 46 This video is so harsh!!!!!!!!! These 5 girls are SCATHING of men with small penises. Is this a site for enlargement pills or something?? Comment by: toby
02/11/2010 12:40:39
comment number 47 eventhough somewhat sexual 'inexperienced' (im a male btw) and still very very young, I can't believe the stupidity that I encouter by people who have had a lot more sex than I have so far, meanwhile still so frustrated, unsatisfied, insecure.

First of all, I do think size matters. Personally I think woman like anything between 5.5-7, with some exceptions here and there. However, there are ways to enlarge your penis and most people seem to forget that you and your partner might not be (on a physiqual level) the perfect match.

Second of all, I'm pretty sure that 90% of the people (althought prob. mostly guys) haven't even read a SINGLE book about sexual techniques. People lets get a little bit more open minded here, you can learn everything! Want to improve your finances, maybe you should look to increase your financial knowledge first by start reading. Same goes with just about anything, including sex. There are HUNDREDS of books about sex out there, and a lot of them contain very valuable information regarding satisfying your partner in every single way with certain techniques etc. Why am I telling this? Because size does matter, but it's just one of the elements of being a suburb lover. Every woman is divine and goddess like, we should start educate sexual knowledge more so we can please her in every single way and if necessary, compensate the lack of physiqual perfection.

Words from an educated 17 year old
Comment by: Jin
04/19/2010 05:05:13
comment number 48 Size does matter; but it only matters relatively.
I have had girls who were just big down stairs and
they knew it, similar to the young lady in the video who said that there was a guy who was small  and knew it. And I have had "tiny" girls. Just as penises come in different sizes, vaginas do as well. It's not being 4 inches that matters, it's whether your partner is more than four inches deep or around. Almost about Every guy with enough experiences will come a cross a girl who's "large" down there, even the well endowed. So for those over sensitive guys I recommend the Larry David response: "His penis wasn't small, your vagina was too big." (then he makes a "V" sign using both of his hands).
Comment by: slowroast
05/12/2010 09:13:02
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