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Penis Cut and Size
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- Sex Galore But No Big O
Many of us had sex for years without knowing how to orgasm. Listen in...
- Sexual Positions We Don't Like
Do you have a sexual position you would rather avoid during intercourse? Listen in.
- Sexual Stirrings
The panel discusses their early sexual feelings and how they handled them!
- Getting Off During Intercourse
Do our partners bring us to orgasm, or do we? Listen in as the women discuss ....
- Advice On Fellatio Positioning
There are many positions from which to give a guy fellatio. Check out panelists favorites ...
01/23/2009 15:27:49
Supposedly, there are studies out there that say that uncut men have fewer divorces and that their partners have more vaginal orgasms. How about this for a topic? What positions and "techniques" work best for the average or smaller man? I do think sometimes though, that if the medical establishment left the penis alone, women wouldn't need to seek larger penises to get the sensations they would get from an unmutilated one.
01/26/2009 21:49:40
One time I was fooling around with a guy and when I first sow his penis I thought 'Well there is no way that huge thing is going to fit in my little vagina.' We were unable to have sex with each other because he was too big. It just wouldn't fit. I felt a little sorry for the guy. There are only a small hand full of girls he could actually have sex with.
I had another boyfriend. He wasn't long but my God he was thick. Every time we had sex it was painful. I bled, I felt like my skin was ripping apart inside, and to top it all off he was rough with me. Let me just say it was not good sex.
Another boyfriend I had was so small when he was in me I could only feel him if we were doing it doggie style. And then he came with in the first 2 minutes every time.
But my boyfriend now is the perfect size. Not too big but not too small. No pain, I can feel him in every position. And on top of that he knows how to work it. We are the perfect fit.
01/27/2009 07:39:54
01/28/2009 02:01:06
01/28/2009 03:44:47
When you are in bed together, apropos of nothing, snuggle your nose into his crotch and give it a good fondle through the pajamas or underwear, or whatever. Or, if you lose interest in the man because of it, leave. Just resist the need to belittle him on your way out.
Don't tell him "size doesn't matter." He is not an idiot. Let him know, not through words, men don't process words the same way women do, (he will certainly believe that you are lying, even if you are not, )but actions, that you love him, and that includes his cock, which is the instrument of pleasure which either God or an uncaring universe gave him. Tell him you love his cock because cocks don't lie (which is true), when it gets hard around you, it is saying emphatically "I love you."
Don't tell him about that huge lover you had in college, that is girl/gay friend talk. It will be a moments conversation for you, but a life-long memory for him, and he will mark you down a notch for it. Not for doing it, but for bringing it up years later. He will of course deny it, because he knows that to admit it makes him look less of a man. So it goes into the resentment bucket. Little bits of damage accumulate over time and destroy marriages. I know that sound obvious, but lots of women do it. Resentments don't get repressed, they express themselves in different ways; cheating, anger at other unrelated issues, eventually divorce.
Anyway, if you take nothing else away from this, just remember that verbal re-assurance is meaningless. It has to come at times he hasn't mentioned it too. Verbal put downs, on the other hand, are devastating.
01/28/2009 12:27:03
Thanks for your candid views on this clip (cut/uncut/size), it made me feel much better about everything around the issue. I am 38 yrs, cut and 7" / 5.5" length / girth and have always had issues around the size of my penis (thinking its too small). I think this is largely due to my exposure early on to pornography. I have also realised with age and maturity that sex gets better bt its in the mind not the body - helps if I can prevent ejaculation for as long as I can but my wife is such a looker I have a hard time!
Thanks again
Steve-o
South Africa
02/01/2009 02:22:26
I have numerous sexual encounters in my life but only four long term sexual relationships. I'm not sure if length matters or not. But I am sure that thickness does. In the order of the relationships the men were approximately the following sizes:
#1 - 6" and average thickness
#2 - 5" and average thickness
#3 - 8 1/2" and proportionately thick
#4 - 5 1/2" and very very thick
I think when I first experienced #3 i thought length mattered but I soon learned he was more dependent upon size than technique. I was the one that had to be creative so as not to get killed by the thing.
#4 was a different matter...in fact quite interesting. Flaccid he was/is over 5" long. The first time i saw him naked i was fearful i ran into another long one. However, as he got hard he just got thicker and thicker. My forefinger and thumb do not touch when i wrap my hand around him. Once he penetrates me I have no concern about his lack of length because he is contacting every nerve ending i have at my vaginal opening and forcing clitoral contact also.
So my conclusion is length only matters if too short say less than 5" or too long say greater than 7". Anywhere from 5" to 7" is perfect. However, I guess I believe the thicker the better!
02/20/2009 02:32:45
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08/18/2009 21:01:43
08/18/2009 21:56:03
08/19/2009 19:49:24
minimum length- around 6.5 inches
minimum girth- around 5.5 inches
...and if we could choose which was above average it would be girth.
hope this helps...
08/31/2009 05:37:33
I'm tempted to take that video down because, while the girls are just being honest, we forget that it's just those women -- the women who disagreed didn't speak up or where not there. Hence, people think it's mandatory for all men to have substantial penises to please a woman, which isn't true at all!!!
08/31/2009 16:05:51
09/02/2009 05:50:01
09/02/2009 08:38:53
09/02/2009 19:41:21
09/02/2009 20:25:53
THE QUESTION IS WOULD LADYBUG DATE A GUY WITH 4 INCHES HARD? OR EVEN RESPECT HIM?
09/04/2009 10:53:25
09/08/2009 10:42:21
As for size, I think 4 would present a challenge tbh.
09/10/2009 19:24:55
09/17/2009 03:08:06
09/17/2009 03:10:53
In case the men didn't listen carefully enough, women end up bleeding. That is not ok.
10/01/2009 06:37:01
10/28/2009 12:28:03
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11/06/2009 12:17:25
12/03/2009 15:31:26
12/07/2009 20:43:56
12/19/2009 14:15:12
12/19/2009 21:09:01
and how thick is the minimum acceptable? were do i go from here?
12/20/2009 13:14:09
Look, you have our sympathy for your predicament but in fairness this is a site specifically about sex advice for women so you are likely to encounter honest and explicit opinions here. Perhaps you shouldnt visit this site?- perhaps a counselling service/site would be better? Peace.
12/21/2009 11:30:08
12/22/2009 02:02:22
And thnks a bunch for the counselling idea- I tried it- they suggested a hobby- put yourself in my shoes- how would you feel
12/22/2009 11:06:13
And if you read all the messages, you'll see girth size is mentioned quite a lot.
12/22/2009 15:23:32
I just want to know how unacceptable I am? or not? one girl said 5.5in was the minimum girth- is this true?????????? If so I might as well give up
12/23/2009 05:39:15
01/08/2010 05:23:03
Imagine a pretty young woman with really awful scarring all over her torso and legs. She was in a fire or something. Can she have sex? Sure. Trouble is, most guys just can't handle it. But she keeps trying, goes out on dates... gets to the part where the clothes come off... and it starts & ends all in one night. Ouch.
01/08/2010 05:52:56
01/12/2010 21:08:26
On this topic, I have no idea of my exact dimensions, but I'm probably about average length/girth. My former lover however had a very tight vagina, and she was extremely sensitive when it came to intercourse of any kind. I always had to enter her VERY slowly, and we coudn't do certain positions such as doggy-style without hurting her. Thus, we didn't have very much intercourse. I have two points to make with this story.
#1 As an average-size man, I was still too large to have intercourse freely with her without hurting her. Thus, a minority of women may actually appreciate it if a man's penis is not big, and
#2 My lover's "tight vagina" might have been considered a flaw to some people because it narrowed our sexual options. However, we enjoyed other sorts of sex - especially cunnilingus - so much that it didn't really matter at all; she was wondefully beautiful and sexy to me. There were so many other things that made her a splendid lover and friend to me, and I can't even describe how much I miss making love to her.
Everyone has his own preferences - it's true - but we should all remember that no one is perfect. Let's keep this site positive!
01/15/2010 03:26:04
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01/25/2010 16:50:44
Male Types: Hare (small) – Bull (medium) – Horse (large)
Female Types: Deer (small) – Mare (medium) – Elephant (large)
Best unions are achieved by matching similar genital sizes.
As regards the unequal unions, when the male exceeds the female in point of size, his union with a woman who is immediately next to him in size is called high union, and is thus of two kinds; while his union with the woman most remote from his size is called the highest union, and is of one kind only. In other words, the horse and mare, the bull and deer, form the high union, while the horse and deer form the highest union. HIghest here not beeing synonym of best, on the contrary ....
On the other hand, when the female exceeds the male in point of size, her union with a man immediately next to her in size is called low union, and can thus be of two kinds; while her union with a man most remote from her in size is called the lowest union, and is of one kind only. In other words, the elephant and bull, the mare and hare, form low unions, while the elephant and the hare make the lowest unions
So if you count, there are, then, nine kinds of union according to dimensions. Amongst all these :
- equal unions are the best,
- the highest and the lowest : Elephant/Hare or Horse/Deer, are the worst,
- and the rest are middling, and with them the high are better than the low. Means a big penis will at least gives some sensation to a medium vagina, whereas a small penis will strive to feel anything or not to slip from a bigger vagina ...
So what to do with this ...?
Myself having understood long time ago that I was qualifying for hare penis, I have as well since long ago, focused my interest on girls tight waist and hips, like teens or asian and on the contrary avoiding big butt ladies (you already loose, 1 to 2 inches in getting to the entrance :-) ... ) or housewives, wich repeated pregnancies have enlarged their vagina ....
Ok, that can now seems quite rude for said housewives, which can then feel as segregated as small penis men can feel, but WAIT, they have choice !!! By practising KEGEL exercises, they can actually muscle their vagina to the point of handling and writing with a pencil ....
So don't feel excluded anyone ... Plenty of options are here ...
01/29/2010 09:14:59
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