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Long, short, thick, thin – penises come in many shapes & sizes. And while they may all feel good, some look better than others. What is it about a specific penis and its balls that we are attracted to? Or does it really just depend on who's attached? (more...). (5:46)
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comment number 1 OK, this is the first time I was surprised by your panelists LACK of knowledge! Only one seemed to realize that balls respond in much the same way a penis responds to stimulation. Send them all home with an assignment: to closely watch a guys balls during sex, from hanging low when he's hot, to squinching up when he's about to cum. And then there's temperature... All told, they're very independent. And how can they all think they're gross? Have a look right after he cums, and they're neatly bound in that nice leather coin purse. C'mon ladies! Comment by: Owner
04/02/2009 11:29:33
comment number 2 I am astonished at how important size is to women. I guess I have been lied to all these years. I do appreciate the honesty though- despite the intense pain it means I can make life decisions knowing the truth. Comment by: tim
08/18/2009 20:59:06
comment number 3 One size does not fit all seems to be the universal truth. I have a slightly above average sized-penis but my wife, especially when really aroused seems to become 'cavernous' which makes me yearn for a bigger package in the girth dept! Mutual enjoyment is the main name of the game so guys, concentrate on that! Thanks girls for your honesty! Comment by: Steve-o
09/01/2009 05:24:30
comment number 4 I want my boyfriend to wear a sleeve cos he's thin. Any ideas how I ask him tactfully. And is there anyway to disguise veins and wrinkles in that dept? Comment by: Hannah88
09/13/2009 05:12:57
comment number 5 Hmm, good question Hannah88.  We'll be asking around to hopefully get a good answer for you. Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
09/17/2009 03:21:15
comment number 6 Hannah, you might want to try the "You know what would be fun ..." approach.  If he asks why, you can tell him you enjoy a variety of sensations.  Make sure though that you couch everything positively -- the last thing you want is for him to feel self-conscious about his penis.  

And regarding the veins and wrinkles, best would be to just embrace them. We all have body parts that aren't the most attractive -- but if we like/love the person, they become easy to ignore.
Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
10/06/2009 15:19:27
comment number 7 Hi, thanx for getting back. sounds like cool advice BUT .....we broke up. i just couldnt deal with it.  i went back to my ex.  he so doesnt have that problem. you live and learn. thanx again tho. x Comment by: Hannah 88
10/08/2009 08:17:02
comment number 8 In broaching use of any sex toy, including a penis sleeve, the request should never be phrased along the lines of something being "wrong" or "lacking". Instead, preface it as fun experimentation and a way to potentially enhance pleasuring and sensations. Babeland sells sleeves sans that veins, etc:

http://store.babeland.com/men-sleeves

Also, in feeling "fuller" during thin penis penetration, be sure that you're regularly exercising your pelvic floor muscles so that you can grip the penis during sex for more sensation.
Comment by: Dr. Yvonne
10/15/2009 11:29:33
comment number 9 Ewww why would you be having sex with a thin penis? That would be like being with a child wouldn't it? Comment by: tanya
10/18/2009 04:56:28
comment number 10 amen to that Comment by: anon
10/31/2009 05:01:48
comment number 11 Wow, great site for the ladies.

Too often the ladies do not have anyone to chat with about sex and the stuff Mom did not want to know you were thinking about !

I liked the Penis & Testicles video, it made me laugh.

Yes, our balls do have a mind of their own.

The ladies are right about short and thick,
too long and the penis hits the uterus and that can hurt the woman, all the nerves are up in the front two inches of the vaginal canal.

Don't forget about that G Spot !
Comment by: James
11/12/2009 23:00:21
comment number 12 DO  NOT MESS WITH THE CAVERN BEHIND THE BALLS. Comment by: Sam Spade
01/08/2010 06:13:01
comment number 13 MMMmm! Love talk about my favorite anatomy characteristics!

Thank you, ladies! But, why can't you have me, or another lucky dude sitting with in on this dialog, completely naked, being stimulated with you-all by hand and word, tongue and more, while you actually Experience by direct observation what his favorite tools do in various states of his normal sexual experiences? I'd just love it to pieces if your round-tables included real-live examples, as I'm certain nearly all other men enjoying your great sessions would, if not 100% of us!

What's to lose?
Comment by: C-A
03/03/2010 23:24:41
comment number 14 Are some vaginas attractive than other? Comment by: Yes
03/03/2011 19:49:34
comment number 15 Hell yes! There are some vaginas that are attractive and some are not. I personally love the rose pedal vagina....simply beautiful. Comment by: of course
03/30/2011 20:19:51
comment number 16 Yeah...it must suck to be a modern,sex positive feminist who cannot get laid huh ? Comment by: gimme a break
04/03/2011 19:05:56
comment number 17 Most vagina are ugly!!! But, what can you do about it? Comment by: most
04/14/2011 18:10:56
comment number 18 All vaginas are ugly, but I still stick one. lol! Comment by: all
04/16/2011 12:36:33
comment number 19 Funny one ladies!
When it comes to balls I surprized that you have never watched how the balls and sack tend to move!
How do you ladies react when a man only has one ball? Is a turn off or just doesn't matter? You'd be surprized how many men only have one for manydifferent reasons!
Comment by: JerryO
09/07/2011 01:29:48
comment number 20 No sound on this one! Comment by: Melvin
09/20/2011 02:22:02
comment number 21 Are some vulva attractive than others? Stupid question...right. So, the purpose must be to make fun of men! MISANDRY! Comment by: yes
10/10/2011 13:48:52
comment number 22 wow- small guys jump off the nearest cliff!
.......
jeez...
Comment by: jimmy
10/16/2011 09:48:43
comment number 23 All vulva are ugly; especially, on FAT chicks! Comment by: ashole
10/17/2011 22:50:03
comment number 24 I cannot find a video about women genitial appearance. Can someone help me?

Not all vagina/vulva feels or looks good.
Comment by: we'll see
11/23/2011 22:29:48
comment number 25 I came across your blog and listened with some interest to what seemed a rather school girl discussion on male genitals. I think discussions of male genitals without a purpose is just a waste of time. What was the purpose of this? Is it to objectify the penis? Women have shamed men for supposedly doing the same with female body parts. You might argue some men still do it but do two wrongs make a right?

Surely, a woman would like a man's penis no matter what it was like if they thought anything about him? Maybe not, judging from your video? Where are the men sat round a table discussing vaginas, the slack ones, the dry ones, the smelly ones? I think men would find it silly to do such a thing because talking about one body part in isolation is rather stupid unless you have a real purpose, such as how to excite a man?

OK the size thing? Long or thick? Hmm are those the choices? What about short and/or thin? Or are those not options? Sine 50% are below the average size does this mean 50% of men's penises have no value? Please grow up and get real. Women have have suffered greatly over the years with negative body image, starving themselves, having needless operations, is this really what you are trying to do to men also, to get revenge for the actions of those from the past?

Some of the women seemed embarrassed by the topic as they kept giggling. Given women are always asking where are the real men, I ask where are the real women?
Comment by: Sam Sander
01/05/2012 03:44:33
comment number 26 Hey Sam, I dont think thats what they were saying.
Look 15% of guys have a penis smaller than 'medium'. so its only those guys who are inadequate for intercourse. that leaves 85% that are medium or big. thats a heavy majority. It is VERY unsatisfying to have sex with a penis you cannot feel. Its a real downer for both partners and thats what the girls were saying. Im afraid mother nature can be a bit cruel there. having said that some women are able to overlook small penises just like some guys can overlook women who are obese or disfigured. there is a lot of human kindness out there for someone who is patient.
Comment by: emma
01/12/2012 18:12:52
comment number 27 emma (idiot) do your kegels...no one (man or woman) is inadequate for intercourse.You have alot to learn about alot of things and your attitude SUCKS! Comment by: pieceofadivce
01/17/2012 12:51:59
comment number 28 Emma

That's my point, that what you are saying is because a guy has a penis that is half inch or an inch below a medium band he is a freak? That is sad in the extreme and it makes you sound extremely shallow. Some women like to exclude men on the most trivial of excuses because it gives them a sense of power and control - I think it is partly due to their own inadequacies. The women in the video ridicule some men based on their penis size and I find this sad and offensive. I am not going to talk about my own penis size as that is not the point. Even if it was dragging on the ground i would not laugh at another man or woman for their physical attributes. It is immature and in some cases SICK. Your son may be a "freak" in your eyes.

You are also doing women a disservice at the same time saying that men find bigger women problematic freakish or disfigured. You may say some men do this but my reply is that they need to grow up. Again 2 wrongs don't make a right.

What I detect in the USA in particular is an adversarial unhealthy relationship between men and women. It often manifests itself online as a points scoring power play. This whole penis size debate is basically just that, a way of putting down a group of people, could be penis size, could be shorter guys, bigger women, small breasted women,

I could say if you don;t feel his penis ask him to shove it up your ass and see if you feel that!
Comment by: Sam Sander
01/18/2012 04:54:02
comment number 29 Nowadays an average endowed guy ( 5.2 - 6.9 )  L (4.7 - 5.2) G  is small to women.This mindset has its origin in the overconsumption of pornography by american girls who obviously cannot distinguish fantasy from reality and beleive propaganda and lies.Poor,unfortunate souls these women.Ironic,how for years these asshats have complained that THEY have been wronged by MEN.Yet,in an effort to 'get men back' they sink to the lowest level of smear there is,,,, 'penis size'. Comment by: hello -
01/18/2012 17:00:57
comment number 30 No, No I wasn't saying any of those things! I certainly wasn't suggesting anyone was a freak!.

We all have our imperfections. Small penis size does reduce sexual pleasure for the female quite considerably- thats just a fact. But that doesnt make a guy a freak and it doesnt make a girl 'shallow'. It is what it is.
I think a penis that is 6 long and 5 girth is fine for most women. because thats a medium size.
But I think 5 long and, perhaps 4.5 girth may be problematic for most.
But as I say, many girls can overlook that. People vary as to their tolerances and tastes. Nobody is universally attractive and very view are universally unattractive.
But clearly small size, impotence, premature ejaculation are male sexual problems that impact sex.
Women have problems too from pain, cervical cancer, lack of libido, dryness etc- these too are problems that impact sex.
This doesnt mean anyone is insulting anyone- its just factual.
Comment by: Emma
01/27/2012 21:17:13
comment number 31 Emma

It is not factual it is your view and your opinion. You claim to speak for women on what sizes they like (tolerate) but this is just your opinion unless you have done some rigorous research.

You are getting very precise now in your requirements and this is really quite funny. Because for you it appears less than 6 can reduce satisfaction - OK this appears to cut out 50% of men again. Now you might say 5.5 is OK too or even 5.25 or even 5.1 but 5.0 is going to reduce satisfaction for women (a fact according to you). Can't you see how humorous (and warped) this is?

OK a micro penis would be a challenge for most women and I can understand that but to say a guy with a 5 inch penis could not make women orgasm is ridiculous. Although maybe not for you because of the inch lacking LOL.

Maybe you spend as much time measuring dicks as you do having sex?

All of the issues you mention are not really gender specific in terms of issues so for example a woman's dryness is also something i am concerned about too.

I think maybe that you have problems with relationships and spend too much time with a tape measure in your hand because you seem (as you speak for women) to have reduced a man's sexual worth to a fraction of an inch in length and width.

This is quite sad, really! Look I can see you are blowing a bit on the wind with your arguments and since you speak for women in general then maybe you should just describe the ideal man as a global benchmark and then you can go about looking for him. I do detect a bit of man hating on your part?
Comment by: Sam Sander
01/29/2012 02:37:46
comment number 32 Sam, Seriously you needn't get this hostile! I have already said I dont speak for everyone- I already said that preferences and tolerances vary.
The majority of women who I have spoken to wouldn't be satisfied by 5 inches but there were one for two who said they could deal with it.
Most of the guys I have been with were 6-7 and thats the experience of the vast majority of women I know- and this matches the Kinsey study too.
But there is good news here I think 85% of men, by definition are at least satisfactory- at least!- so thats good for both men and women.
and we haven't even talked about how smaller guys can compensate by being good at oral, being good life partners etc.
Comment by: Emma
01/29/2012 09:44:36
comment number 33 Emma

I am not hostile but intrigued by your comments. Just on your chats with friends....

It is likely through societal conditioning and media references that your friends exaggerate the size of penis they prefer. It would be unlikely for most of them to say that their boyfriend has 4 inches for example. So When girls talk together they tend to say a big one please. Rather like some guys in a group would not admit they liked bigger women for example.

The Kinsey study is known to be flawed because participants self measured. More reliable studies get the average between 5-6. I am surprised you didn't know this so a five inch penis is basically within the average. Of course it maybe because of preference that you have attracted guys with bigger dicks.

Still, and I repeat, to say that 6 is great and 5 is not seems pedantic and unbelievable. So all things being equal then you meet a guy, you click, he likes you, his dick is 6 inch so you are happy but if it is 5 (we are talking one inch here) you aren't?

Maybe it is a case with some women thinking that they have a "good deal" if they have one above the average.

When a woman finds sex unsatisfactory she may blame it on penis size which is probably not the problem. It is a cheap shot at the guy - as we all know it takes two to have good sex (50/50). So the 85% who are happy with their partners penis are no doubt happy with their sex life and some of those women will have a man with a penis below 5" too. There will be some who's penis is too big for their partner and some who have bent ones, some who have smelly ones and so on. So I think basically the 85% thing comes from one study asking women if they were happy with their man's penis, but some women are notorious for saying they love a guy's dick when they meet him and are in love and it is the perfect size, but when they separate she says he had a little dick LOL. A cheap shot.

OK your mind is made up and I am not expecting to change it. We all have our opinions but I am just picking out what I see as flawed data and and strange thinking (to me at least.

On one of the videos women ridiculed a man for having a small penis, another for a bent penis. I just think some women should get more mature in their discussions of other people's anatomy. I would say the same if a guy ridiculed a woman with small breasts or unusually shaped ones, or very saggy ones, or their vagina for some reason beyond their control.
Comment by: Sam Sander
01/29/2012 11:36:58
comment number 34 @ Sam,
I have fought this battle for a while...here on Cherry TV. I was quite shock to read and hear some of the comments from the vidoe or bloggers. To me, the majority comes off as "man haters". It was disappointing that women didn't step in to defend men; especially, since women and men have fought to demand respect for women. I guess we men don't deserve respect, because I rarely see it here, when talking about the male anatomy.
Comment by: Ty
01/29/2012 22:38:09
comment number 35 Ty

I agree with your comments. The lack of respect for men in general maybe also has something to do with many of the women admitting they were bi and just maybe they prefer women?

The silence of women on this site is disappointing since not all women are like this - very judgemental.

But like I said above it seems particularly bad in the USA. Having been there a long time ago I remember how it is assumed bigger is better in most aspects of society. It is quite simplistic in its values and TV and films portray this. This works against both men and women if they depart from an "ideal" which is socially created. Of course this is the majority of people. The attitudes in the video represent a "payback time" view which mask a lot of bitterness. Maybe too, to be fair, many men show little respect for women in the USA. Many teenage films and so on revolve around young men lusting after girls with big boobs and asses, and of course there are many TV shows which are the same.

My sadness is that much of the "culture" is exported around the world and now influences many children. It is cheap and so sells and fills program schedules.

This is not an attack on US society. There are many things that it can be proud of. However, the peer pressure thing is particularly bad, the holding up of particular ideals that don't seem to have a logical basis, feminism (which was mostly about power and control), and so .......

I hope Australia doesn't adopt these values perspectives but it may be too late.
Comment by: Sam Sander
01/30/2012 00:34:54
comment number 36 I was thinking last night of the many women I have made orgasm using one finger. This is a lot of women of all shapes and sizes. My index finger is about 3" and not much thicker than a pencil (pencil finger LOL).

If my finger can do it then why not a smaller dick?
Comment by: Sam Sander
01/30/2012 00:43:17
comment number 37 To both,
I have had detailed chats with my peers over the years. Most women do. We tend to focus on detail. I know some women who have had partners with 4 inches. We Tend to deal with things matter of factly. I really cant see this Conditioning issue. Can you not judge when one of your buddies is over 6 foot tall?
Comment by: Emma
01/30/2012 20:08:48
comment number 38 I like the Kinsey data because it's large, was on actual erect organs, was anonymous but in a controlled way and was done by marking a card.
The trouble with the lower qoutestifies is that they use a nurse (so guys can't fully
Comment by: Emma
01/30/2012 20:12:08
comment number 39 Sorry, let's try that again...

The trouble with studies with lower quotes is that they are done with nurses (can't get fully hard-many couldn't get hard at all) and some studies use stretched flaccid length only.
Internet studies do suggest 6-7 but they may be guilty of selection bias.
I'm gonna go with what I have heard from my friends 6-7 is medium. 5 is pretty rare. 4 might only have been seen by a very small minority of girls. Sorry that's just the way it is.
The Kinsey shows a good bell distribution and reflects Direct reports. It makes sense, and only a minority of men, 15%, are smaller than what their female partner wants. Thus for most men this is good news. I don't get why you insist this is about men hating! It makes no sense to suggest that.
Comment by: Emma
01/30/2012 20:22:45
comment number 40 Its really hilarious how you idiotic women go on about a guy's size acting like your VAGINA plays zero part in the sex.Thats typical you act as though all vjs are universal in size or whatever--WRONG! As far as the average dik tsize its like 5 - 6.8 accross the board regardless of race,ethnicity etc.Stop your feminist propaganda ive seen it all before...zzzzzzzz Comment by: getalife
01/30/2012 23:22:48
comment number 41 Emma's friends must have craters for  vags because a woman's vj canal isn't extremely long.I feel you may have been hurt in the past emma,perhaps by a guy who judged you for something to do with your body.I apoplogize if this is the case and offer you a cyber hug.A real man doesn't say hurtful things to women.Tearing someone down sexually is like the worst thing you can do to a human being.The media pushes big breasts as an ideal,and yet ive never heard a single guy in my many years ever complain or judge a woman on her bust.Breasts are beautiful from mosquito bite size to DDs.Its not normal for a woman to go on about this...penis size topic unless of course they are purposely trying to take a dig which is what this site id.Female empowerment by tearing down men sexually.Please stop this is wrong. Comment by: getalife
01/30/2012 23:37:21
comment number 42 The Kinsey data is severely flawed because men generally will round up rather than down so the entire study can be discounted. The size of the study just magnifies the flaws. Again your friends opinions and observations do not constitute a study LOL!

Yes towards either end of the bell curve is less common, otherwise it wouldn't be a bell curve. Whether this means they cannot bring a woman to orgasm depends upon on a lot of things. But like I said I can do it with my index finger so it must be possible. Psychologically whether a certain woman is happy with a small penis does depend upon the woman.

Of course, the bigger is better perspective, of which the penis size issue is part of is partly if not largely due to social conditioning. When people are told what to like they tend to conform but not always.

You chose to ignore my comment about the tone of ridicule in some videos because I suspect it is not easy to defend and also because you yourself are quick to identify and exclude a group (6 inch and below, or 5 inch or below) from generally being able to satisfy women. I don't believe this to be true.

You also chose to ignore other points. it seems you only want to be selective in your answering and so this is proving to be an unworhwhile discussion.

It has no personal impact on me if you or your friends reject men upon measuring their dicks so good luck to you and happy measuring. In fact, it maybe even a turn on for some men to think of your and your friends measuring dicks and discussing the borderline cases, hmm is he suitable for sex? Sorry, you are a tenth of an inch short.
Comment by: Sam Sander
01/31/2012 07:16:44
comment number 43 wow i am deeply hurt by the assertions that a lesser endowed man will automatically be less of a man or less pleasureable to most women.As far as all this  measuring penises for medical knowledge stats goes i believe that to be misandry and completely irrelevant to anything.The medical community should be ashamed of this practice.Men going in like cattle to be measured....if women were carted in to have their vaginal deepness tallied (in say aroused and unaroused state) and then results were published about what is quote (average or normal )im sure they'd develop some empathy real quick.........steve Comment by: steve
01/31/2012 13:16:38
comment number 44 With respect you are responding to imaginary comments that i have not made.
Lets be clear:
a. The NHS website says the average is 6-7.
b. The guru website shows survey clips consistently saying women think 6-7 is the norm. (only the odd guy says 5)
c. Yes, vagina size in extreme situations can be an issue and there are operations and exercises that can help. Alas there are no similar options for poor penis size.
d. Men do make horrid comments about womens bodies all the time. and yes some horrible women ridicule small penises. Neither is better than the other- agreed.
e. Kinsey- nobody 'rounded up' because no figures were given- it was cleverly designed to get round that issue. do look it up Sam.
f. i think most women are happy with medium (6) or slightly above with maybe a quarter of women being size queens and liking 7+ sizes.
g. Most women, after being orally or digitally stimulated how a very powerful wish to be 'filled' by their lover. When this isn't possible due to premature ejacualtion, impotence or small size they tend to be bitterly disappointed and unsatisfied. This effects their relationship quality. But some women dont need this feeling or are prepared to forgoe it.
h. I saw the clips- they didn't ridicule anyone- they were just discussing sex in a frank way. We do communicate more openly than guys do. I doubt any of my friends would ridicule a guy to his face about size- that would be terrible conduct.
Comment by: Emma
01/31/2012 17:58:56
comment number 45 Whenever a survey like this involves self-measuring it is suspect to say the least (even it involves marking on a card).  There are many, if not more web sites that report the results of other surveys that have a lower average so I guess we can all believe what we want.

Like I said before I have orgasmed women with a 3" (thin) finger. Maybe these orgasms were not satisfying but it seems a contradiction in terms - but then again maybe not.

You say "Men make horrible comments about women's bodies" when you mean some men, like some women making horrible comments about men.

Others disagree with what constitutes ridicule. You seem insensitive on the issue.

Yes some women like you say will be size queens and others will be more that happy with other sizes. Just what percent of women are size queens I would not know and it doesn't really matter to me, if that is their main focus good luck to them.

Part of the sensation of sex is how much you are attracted. For me and the guys I talk to it is more a case of how attractive the woman is than isolated body parts. Attractive is basically a woman's looks and her personality. THis doesn't mean a woman has to be beautiful or have model looks but to that person must be attractive. A bigger guy may be attracted to a bigger woman but some slim guys also like bigger women so there is a lot of diversity in the attraction game.

Like I said before good luck with your measuring.
Comment by: Sam sander
01/31/2012 21:34:30
comment number 46 On size queens, it would seem there desire for a large penis is mainly psychological. Since they often from experience (personal and my friends) have issues and tend to think getting a bigger dick makes them more significant in some way because they are less common. hence their relationships do not seem to last because they often overlook other attributes like personality.

Where are the spectrum is penis size for you in relation to:

1) Personality
2) Looks - as in features
3) Body
4) Success in career and business
5) Penis size
6) General health
7) Ability (and desire) to dance or whatever

My guess is that you have it high up on the list -  maybe even number 1?
Comment by: Sam sander
01/31/2012 21:41:50
comment number 47 Okay emma,you win.Guys under six inches are useless.I being one admit defeat.Ive grown tired of reading the many  insults,the thinly veiled /or blatant piss takes and the outright judgements that women engage in online and in regular life against men who apparently to you have been genetically robbed--and don't pass the litmus test! Yes,men have said hurtful things to women in the past but this particular subject is murder to the people being scrutinized as they cannot change it.I will most likely not post again as ive seen a few videos on this site and am deeply hurt by them.Apparently a guys size is a  huge deal to many women.American women especally are harsh and bitter on this subject .Like has been mentioned american women hate their men and do infact treat them like vomit.Im sure they would be glad to be rid of alot of us especially for the inferior 15% of us.Take care. Comment by: steve
01/31/2012 23:45:20
comment number 48 To Steve,
Im truly sorry you feel that way. I can only say that comments about 'inferior' or 'getting rid' are not comments from me.
I have already said that some women are able to go without fulfilling PIV intercourse. I doubt they see as sub 6 men as useless. Some women are not particularly sexual or are happy with digital, oral or toys...
Comment by: Emma
02/01/2012 14:26:34
comment number 49 To Sam,
I think you are confusing orgasm with satisfying intercourse. Most women can orgasm without a guy being in the room let alone needing a guy's flexible finger.

But the physical and emotional sensations are not the same. I assume a very loose vagina would not be very pleasurable for you? Now if you dont care strongly about PIV intercourse then maybe a women with a looser vagina is not a problem.

But if you derived a lot of pleasure and satisfaction out of PIV sex then an untreatable loose vagina may present a problem.

If you were to say to your friend a tighter vagina is more pleasurable than a very loose one this would be a statement of fact, likely applicable to most men.

Its not ridicule or shallow conduct to state facts.
It is a fact that for the vast majority of women, a medium penis feels significantly better than a small one.

But how a woman puts size in her list of importance various upon her sexual responses and preferences that for the most part she has no control over.

The key difference between loose vaginas and small penises is that currently one cannot do anything about penis size. Its a pity but thats a biological inconvenience that perhaps one day they can treat. But however unfair it may be there is no denying the impact it has on how much a woman enjoys sex. (well most girls anyway)
Comment by: Emma
02/01/2012 14:39:12
comment number 50 Emma

Your classification of what seems satisfactory has low tolerance. Six inches is fine (mine is 7) but yet 5 or maybe 5.5 isn't to the majority of women? Most Women cannot tell the difference between a 6 inch dick, a 5 inch dick or a 7 inch dick when it is inserted. This is a fact that is also backed up by my discussions with others and my own experiences. So calling something between 5-6 inches inches small doesn't seem to fit. I would say it falls within the average spectrum.

We are going round in circles. 4 inches may be unsatisfactory for some (maybe a lot)of women. They are small in number for sure but they can still bring women to orgasm. My point about the finger you missed. If a 3" and thin finger can bring a woman to an orgasm then so can a small dick. Whether the woman finds it satisfactory will depend upon a lot of things, such as how much she likes the guy, how good he is at foreplay and how he uses what he has.

Where your argument falls down is your insistence that is mostly related to penis size around some 5-6 inch length. I don't think any woman  would actually agree with this - the way you are putting it. Of course a few women long for a big one over 8" - good luck to them if that is there focus.

I have had some slack vaginas in my time - women rarely seem to go for an operation. Guys with less than 4 inch I suppose have a problem with some women. These can and do find women and satisfy them, i am not an expert on that but well done to them and the women.

Your argument is all very feminist in tone and as we know that is dying a death because it is about power and abuse.

As I said before "Happy measuring".
Comment by: Sam Sander
02/02/2012 06:27:13
comment number 51 Steve

The trouble that I see in the USA in relationships in the USA between women and men is highlighted in your post. Women have obtained "equality" or aim for that and in the process women have become judgemental of males and feel they have the right to say what they want no matter how insensitive or inaccurate it may be. It really is a power trip.

You must understand as a man where these women are coming from and their desire to exclude sections of the male population, whether it be on skin colour, height, religion, baldness, penis size, weight and so on. In other wise it is a power trip and you as a man should not allow these types to have any impact on you whatsoever. It takes two to be victimised so do not put yourself in this position.

Next week, there will be a post on some on other feature of the male anatomy which be aimed at putting down or excluding people from the game of life. There was a video about bent dicks and guess what the same type of ridicule went on there.

American men are just too nice and certainly are walked over by american women in many cases. It is your choice but my advice is don't be a wimp. Tell them to fuck off.

Emma has disclosed little about her agenda in posting here. She doesn't tell us about herself, her relationships and the life she leads. For all we know it could be a man with an agenda too. She is not rational, and selectively addresses issues and relies on "her experiences" and "her friends" and likes to use "facts" to refer to a truth that isn't.

My advice is don't take her seriously. He or she doesn't sound like the type of person you or I would want to have a conversation with anywhere. However, people with an agenda like this are often driven by deep insecurities and a passion to put groups down. Hence my responses so people can make up their own minds on logic and common sense.
Comment by: Sam Sander
02/02/2012 09:03:49
comment number 52 Sam,
Im a bit stunned because you appear now to be agreeing with me that size can matter...
"4 inches may be satisfactory for a lot of women- Sam Sander'
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It seems we are just debating what 'medium' is...
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I will again repeat that womens tastes and 'minimums' vary. and some women dont care either way. But I'm sorry but most women do consider 5.0 small. But the vast majority, i think, would regard 6 as ok. 7 is bordering on being large, upper medium at least.
You may think how can the world rest on 1 inch! but you yourself are now saying that 5 inches is fine but   4 isn't for many women. You are just putting the bar lower than me. Although of course you dont get to choose the bar height do you? women do.... (just the way it is..sorry).
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And again you miss the point about the finger. fingers can do DIFFERENT things than a penis because it has 2 hinges and has bones in it. Digital stimulation can be wonderful. And afterwards vaginal intercourse is - divine - epic in its fulfilment. thats what a finger can never do- this when an adequate (doesnt have to be massive!) penis size matters.
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Have i finally gotten through? and have you never rejected someone sexually over something they cannot control? Maybe an overweight girl? Or an older woman, or a woman with a disfigurement? Are there no body types that you would prefer over another? Truly?
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Comment by: Emma
02/02/2012 19:10:36
comment number 53 I am not agreeing with you that 4 inches is unsatisfactory at all. I am saying it is small. By your classifications you are saying 4 inches is unsatisfactory and as you said "inadequate" for sex. So I am saying for your type, your friends and women like you this would appear inadequate for sex. I don't think that nor do many women out of your type. Like I said 3" can make a woman orgasm.

It is all about power and control for you, again demonstrated by your choice of phrase!

To some women anything less than a porn dick is small. There are two sizes for them big and small. So your argument on classifications big, small, medium and whether 5 is small or medium is going no where.

I can say "I have a small dick"  or "I have a large dick" but it isn't a value statement placing one above the other. Or I could say I have a bent dick, so what? It is what it is. However, it seems women like you are putting a lot of emphasis on the male penis size, whether it be big or small or medium or whatever. You want to do this to maybe address the wrongs on women in the past where man have maybe portrayed bigger boobs are better?

So now you do agree a finger can be a joyful experience! LOL how funny! But as always followed by the judgemental "followed by an adequate penis".

OK if we use your word "adequate" and define it then mine would be: "A penis that brings pleasure to man and the woman."

See no mention of size, veins, bends etc etc.

The physical attraction thing is not a problem for me because I am so ugly everyone else looks attractive.

I can accept with some (how many really no one knows) women, you being one, that a penis can be too big or too small. After all you are saying that. What I object to is the generalisation that these people are "inadequate". In the same way, that most people would say that your personality is inadequate or big women are in inadequate, or plain women are inadequate or some racial groups are inadequate.

They are not inadequate at all! But your type would say they are. Isn't this the same as a man generalising that big women are inadequate for sex? I think this is the crux of the difference of perspective and the thing that annoys me and the other men on this comments section.
Comment by: Sam Sander
02/02/2012 21:52:27
comment number 54 No, No and triple no.
You are saying a whole bunch of stuff and attributing it to me but i would never believe in it.
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I am however indeed saying that the VAST majority of women would find 4 inches inadequate for intercourse in the same way that an impotent 8 inch penis is inadequate for intercourse and that a 4ft dwarf is inadequate for international basketball.
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I have never said that a penis can only be small or large!! where on earth did you get that from?
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just to be clear-
there is tiny 3 inch
very small 4 inch
small 5 inch
average 6 inch
medium large 7 inch
large 8 inch
huge/ouch 9 inch
porn star 10 inch

at what point did i say guys have to be porn stars? you are just making stuff up!

and when did i mention bends or veins or race?

and you ask if men denigrate large women? is that a joke question? do you watch tv? you think larger women are not vilified in our society?
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Sorry but you are FULL of it....
Comment by: Emma
02/03/2012 19:15:13
comment number 55 emma is clearly a gay man..MOST WOMEN are not OBBSESSED with a man's size let alone beat them up for it.Homosexuals are the SIZE QUEENS,most straight heterosexual women are not.Even the ones who are aren't THIS militant.The video is just feminzi propaganda.Female empowerment bit,we feel weve been judged harshly by men and media in the past so were gonna get their asses back.,the typical were scorned BS. Comment by: lmfao
02/04/2012 00:15:16
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