Positions For Climaxing

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Positions For Climaxing

Some of us orgasm during intercourse, some of us don’t – but those that do often have a favorite position for getting there. Here the ladies talk about various configurations and movements that are most helpful, for them, for coming during sex. (4:02)

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Amanda	Sarah Louise	Rosemary
Becky	Stephanie

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	fine and nothing	Comment by: mian 03/25/2009 06:33:47

	hi...well i'm 19 years old and I've been watching this site for a while and its really nice i like it...but i think i don't have an orgasm because me..or it can be my boyfriend...i tried vibrators, finger, all i can think of but nothing happens so most of the time i fake it. my boyfriend knows i'm not happy about it...i need help. can u help me please!?	Comment by: beba17 09/19/2009 00:20:19

	All we can suggest is to relax, keep practicing with your vibrator, and it will eventually come. When you use a vibrator and you place it on your clitoris (or near your clitoris) what do you feel? Do you feel a tingly sensation? If not, you may want to talk to a doctor, but if you do, then you certainly have the capability to orgasm. Some woman talk about being slightly afraid of letting go, so they don't enable themselves to get to the point of release. The best thing to do now is forget about it -- the more you focus on it, the less likely it will happen. Go ahead and enjoy sex with your BF, masturbate with your vibe, fantasize, and eventually you will climax. I'm sure of it!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 09/22/2009 08:16:40

	One of the first ways I reached orgasm is like this. Lay on your back, lube up your two first fingers, put them on each side of your clit and rub up and down. Trust me, youll have the big "O" after that. It takes alittle longer than the vibe, but it's a def. sure fire way!	Comment by: precious 10/30/2009 11:02:24

	I am 45 years old and have never had an orgasm with a man. I can through masturbation, so I know itâ€™s possible. I have the best partner who I am totally comfortable with and adore. He is fantastic in bed and it all feels great, I just donâ€™t get there? Is it because I have been doing it â€˜one wayâ€™ all my life? I read that I am just not â€˜letting goâ€™ but I feel totally comfortableâ€¦. Help!	Comment by: wanttogetthere 12/14/2009 12:56:33

	Yeah, I'm so with precious. That's actually the way I started masturbating. I thought that was like the only way and I started masturbating when I was 3. Yeah. It works.	Comment by: melina 05/21/2010 22:33:30

	hi, im a 22 year old lady and have been with my boyfriend for more than 6 years and i have never had an orgasm though i do get 1 when i murstabate. our sex life is great i do enjoy it a lot but i cant seem to climax, which positions whould you suggest maybe for a chance to an orgasm. i need help its really starting to bother me not knowing how it feels like to climax during intercourse.	Comment by: angela 06/15/2010 06:24:00

	Since you're able to orgasm alone, that's great. Not all positions, even the ones we advocate, work for everyone. It may though be a head thing. During intercourse there'a lot to focus on -- him, your position, his orgasm -- and it often get's in the way. If you're able to just concentrate on the sensations, you may get there. Also, have you been self-stimulating during sex? That would definitely help. Often penis stimulation isn't enough. Don't worry - I'm sure it will happen. And, as you prob. know, worrying about it isn't going to help! Enjoy!!	Comment by: ladybug 07/06/2010 10:12:07

	is murstabate good. i'm a christian please help	Comment by: bb 08/17/2010 11:28:31

	Yes, it's good -- but if you feel guilty about it, and can't enjoy it, then maybe it's something you want to wait on. I would recommend talking to some of your christian girlfriends (maybe ones you think masturbate), or someone else you respect to help you come to terms with this very NATURAL process.	Comment by: ladybug 10/26/2010 12:06:40

	i love sex and do it oftenly wth my boifrend, am scared of pregnant but i hate condoms i like it flesh to flesh....	Comment by: chanky 10/26/2010 12:07:05

	Yeah -- a lot of us feel that way. There are some great condoms out there, and other forms of birth control. Check out: http://www.cherrytv.com/video- … th-control to learn more.	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 10/26/2010 12:08:21

	i am 23 years old and have been with my partner 3years. i have never climaxed eith on my own or with him, i get to a certain point and then it seems like my body just like stops it. it is very annoying. i feel sooo comfortable with him and i do enjoy sex and foreplay but never climax. will i ever????	Comment by: thio 11/08/2010 20:54:05

	Thio, is it possible that once you get close, you instinctually clench -- because it's feeling so good -- yet find that it kind of kills the feeling? That can happen. If it's the case, concentrate on remaining open and letting the sensations just run through you. If it's not a case of clenching, then pay attention of what happens both physically and emotionally as you get close. If you are able, just let go -- don't think but experience ... don't worry just feel. Hopefully after a little practice of removing your intellect from the experience, you'll be able to climax. Good luck!	Comment by: ladybug 11/09/2010 02:54:06

	i masturbate every day i dont know if its normal	Comment by: bino 12/06/2010 02:24:49

	it's totally normal!	Comment by: ladybug 12/06/2010 05:18:17