Relationship Sex, Part 1

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Relationship Sex, Part 1

"I orgasm the way I thought was a myth before having sex with my current boyfriend." Yup – that's a line uttered and explained here. Many women, once they find a long-term partner, can figure out a great way to reach orgasm during their sex sessions. (more...). (2:41)

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	well I am in a serious relationship and having the best sex ever. But there is one problem...I never really want to have sex. You would think I would want it more because it's so good, and I'm with a man I really love, but I am never in the mood. I don't know what's wrong with me. and it's frustrating him as well.	Comment by: Zesska 01/27/2009 06:55:42

	Hi Zesska, don't beat yourself up because you don't seem to be in the mood. In my experience, I'll go through a period of intense horniness, then I'll go for months without even wanting to masturbate. But if you are really worried, I would suggest talking to a professional. You may first want to go to your gyno. to make sure nothing is wrong physically, then you may want to find a therapist (a licensed professional) to talk about it with. Whatever it is, I'm confident it can be worked through! If sex has been an important part of your life up until now, it will certainly continue to be after this slight bump in the road. Good luck!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 01/27/2009 19:15:41

	Sex is not an important part of a relationship 4get it	Comment by: Gift 04/06/2009 13:07:29

	sex is an important part of an intimate relation. it makes 2 person become one. seek help.	Comment by: Karla 09/18/2009 06:31:13

	I can't a an orgasm..and i don't like to touch myself so I don't manturbate..but I love having sex or making love....what os wrong with me?	Comment by: Boop 09/18/2009 21:29:55

	Re: comment by Gift - Sex is a very important part of an intimate, loving, healthy relationship. It is an expression of that love. It bonds you and your partner emotionally. If your relationship suffers from lack of sex, then your partner may look elsewhere to satisfy their needs. Re: Zesska - see your doctor and have a hormone profile done. I suspect you're low on testosterone (and yes, women have testosterone too. It's what makes us horny.).	Comment by: Jules 10/13/2010 09:43:46

	i really really love the site.. and the honesty of the ladies... thank you... you make the musings amd explorations of a recently deflowered 21 yr old less frustrating..... i think it would be easier if i were younger cause then it would be a given that hey... i'm clueless about sex.... but being older, and having an experienced partner... its like... err....am i doing this right?... lol... but yep....this makes it easier....and apparently i am doing it right :D	Comment by: TheJuicy 10/14/2010 16:18:10

	kinda wish i'd found it before the big shebang though!	Comment by: TheJuicy 10/14/2010 16:20:33

	Hi everyone, First, I must say I am really surprised this site hasn't received the publicity it deserves!!! Really, it's amazing and very very useful both for men and women. Now, regarding the topic, I am in a long-distance relationship and I love love my boyfriend and I find him extremely attractive. But, ever since I've become sexually active (that is 4 years ago) I haven't been able to orgasm with a partner! Actually I am 24, and the first time I've reached an orgasm was when I was 21 and that was through masturbation. Now, I want to achieve orgasm with my current bf (soon to be husband) but I just can't do it. Side-note - Up until few months ago, I was able to achieve orgasm only through watching videos and by myself. It was few months ago that I gave it a try once again without videos and made it. Does anyone have any idea why I can't orgasm with my partner whom I find very very sexy? He is really generous when it comes to oral sex, but it just doesn't work for me. Also, I am touching myself while we have intercourse, but nothing works. Any idea why this is?! thanks	Comment by: Curious 04/08/2012 14:57:07