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Waning Sex Drive
All relationships ebb and flow, and at the beginning we often have sex all the time. But that phase never lasts. So what comes next? And what’s up when we, in hetero relationships, want it more than our BF? Don’t guys always want sex? Listen in... (4:51)
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comment number 1 My wife and i suffer a little in this department.  I'm the permanent initiator.   It gets old, I feel that if I don't start it, we'll never have sex.  The sex that we have is good 30% of the time the rest is just boring sex.  It's all on me, she get's into it but I have to beg for her to go on top or 69.  I feel that it's pretty boring most of the time and it shouldn't be all up to me to change it. It is a relationship with TWO people.  I don't think she really ever gets horny until I make moves.  That's fine but, I would really like it to be a two way street. You rub my back and I rub yours not I do everything and sit back and enjoy.  If that made me happy I'd be a giggalo. She does orgasm everytime we have sex.  I know she's not faking it because a couple times she didn't she was pissed.  Bottom line is I just would like to be the submissive or maybe her to wear lingerie and come onto to me.  And, It's not that she's super busy keeping up the house.  We do household chores together and I do a lot on my own.  She also says she has never masturbated and I see you girls talking about how you feel about sex and you just sound so good to be so involved with yourself sexually.  I try to talk to her and she says she'll try to be more involved and over the past couple years there has never been any change.  I don't know what to do.  Our marriage is great besides that part.  I can't imagine what's going to happen if we ever have kids. Comment by: bear
09/21/2009 14:03:52
comment number 2 I'm sorry bear to hear about your predicament. However, this is an issue for a sex therapist, not us. Good luck! Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee
09/22/2009 08:23:03
comment number 3 Until i saw that clip, i thought i was alone in what i was feeling.  my bf and i have been together for over 4 years now and lately i've felt a stronger urge to have more sex than he does.  he doesn't physically push me away but i can tell he's not as interested in i am.  i've often asked him if he's met someone else and he always says no.......i'm always wondering what i can do to get his interest back.  i've recently been trying to deep throat him and thought this would spark some interest from him, but no not so much. Comment by: ebony
11/03/2009 21:44:01
comment number 4 ADGJM Comment by: mr
12/10/2011 11:47:41
comment number 5 very nice Comment by: thanushkhan
12/25/2011 13:08:07
comment number 6 How long in a relationship do you go with out hivnag sex?*no more than a wkIs sex that important in a relationship?*absolutely importantWhat if you were hivnag sex with your partner before you became a couple, but after the sex stop, how would you feel?*very hurt to start Do you feel if your partner isn92t hivnag sex with you, they are hivnag sex with someone else?*depends.What does it mean if you partner says no sex because 93we are there yet94?Do you feel lonely in your relationship without sex?*hell yes!What if there is NO intimacy at all, what should you do?*ask why, can it be fixed, if not them leaveIs the problem caused by your partner talking only bout SEX. Everything revolves around SEX?*hey it's important, so why not talk about it?Could it be because you & / Or your partner don92t feel good about their body?*yesIs it because sex between you and your partner is WACK?*maybe but that would be found out in the first few sessions wouldn't it?Could it be your sexual education is way lower than your partner or vise versa?lol. Education? how about drive? sometimes ppls drives change and you and your partner aren't on the same sex page and that's okay. Choices are either stay and work it out, not work it out and or leave it alone and keep it movingWhat if your partner is not able to rise to the occasion, do you up and leave?*it's understandable that one of the partners will just not be able to rise up for the occasion, it happens. However, if it's repeatedly, then somethings up and should be addressed.If your the one holding out, what is it that your partner needs to do to help correct this issue?*sexual blackmail is just wrong no matter which partner is holding out. Why bother being in a relationship if someone tries to control the other one by holding out? Why does the holdee feel they can treat their partner with this type of action? Holding out is the act of power tripping, imho Comment by: Beki
12/23/2012 13:43:21
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