Many of us like being on top during intercourse. The cowgirl position enables us to set the pace, depth and motion. And while often it feels great, sometimes the rhythm isn’t perfectly harmonized. Here the women discuss how they do it their technique. (more...). (5:08)
Hi everyone... I'm kind of worried that I'm not doing the on-top-thing right. If I do it by myself, i don't feel anything at all. I only start feeling something when the partner squeezes my hips and holds me tight like that.
Am I doing something wrong? Should I go harder? But I'm afraid to try harder, since it feels kind of silly... I'm afraid he doesn't feel anything when I'm on top, since even I don't feel it. Any advice? :) Thank you!
Comment by: Worried 05/13/2010 04:39:36
You are not doing anything wrong. Not all positions work for everyone. Plus, if it works when he holds you -- then it works!
Comment by: ladybug 05/14/2010 14:51:13
Being on top can be a plus and a negative. Once I find my rhythm, I am good...but getting there is a journey.
Comment by: ksb123 09/07/2010 21:16:43
I feel like I don't do it right when I'm on top. Like i feel a little off balance and I can't feel him inside of me so I dont know whether or not it feels good to him...and its probablly cause the first couple times I did it I didnt have a good experience so I havent really "practiced" that much.
Comment by: Bri 12/08/2010 13:24:52
Join the club ladies...this is what men go through the majority of the time. Can you imagine the feeling if a guy sit their motionless like many women do in the missionary...it a mood killer. Finding the rhythm the should be a collaboration of both parties. Practicing what works for both party should be a good thing as well.
Comment by: Steve 01/23/2011 14:35:27
Hi......I'm a plus sized chick, having problems stretching my hips wide enough to ride properly. When I try to sit on the back of my heels, I don't go all the way down. I can squat very low with no problem. Any assistance you can give will be appreciated. Thanks
Comment by: taitai 07/05/2011 20:35:38
that very very cute site
Comment by: callboy 08/10/2011 14:51:49
try staying on your knees and not your feet..it might work betth on the couch but its just as good in bed
Am I doing something wrong? Should I go harder? But I'm afraid to try harder, since it feels kind of silly... I'm afraid he doesn't feel anything when I'm on top, since even I don't feel it. Any advice? :) Thank you!
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