Some women love masturbating in front of their partner -- while others prefer to keep it a solo and personal activity. Can it serve different purposes? On this episode the women discuss the many functions of masturbation – with and without a partner (4:27)
I don't know if I could do it. It takes me so long and I feel so awkward. But I like the idea of him touching me during ...
Comment by: Twinkie 06/25/2008 00:03:43
Watching a woman masturbate is one of the biggest turn ons ever to lie next to each other and masturbate or after sex if you need to cum again to continue jerking off with your partner watching. or even as the main event i love to sit in a big chair at the foot of the bed and watch her play with toys or just touching herself while also enjoy myself . Incredible !!
Comment by: tito 11/29/2008 14:53:16
I was in a long-distance relationship, and we would often masturbate while on webcams. I seemed to got off harder knowing he was watching me and loving it, and watching him masturbate and eventually cum because of something that I was doing only made the experience hotter and more meaningful.
Definitely awkward at first, but very rewarding. Try it under the covers of with low lights at first to get comfortable with the idea of someone being with you. In fact the first time I was every able to orgasm my partner had walked in to the bath room (As he was sans condom) and I was able to finish with him being close but not "right there."
Being a female the hardest obstacle for me to overcome was the fact that I was moving my hand 10 times faster than my male partner was. Eventually I got over this and my partner gently joked about it instead of ignoring the issue every time I brought it up. The fact that we laughed about it made it so much easier to touch myself at such a rapid pace in front of him.
So lesson learned, communication is key. Anything you're worried about, moaning, facial expressions, the length it takes you to orgasm; talk to your partner and become comfortable with them.
Comment by: Cherry-Fan 03/16/2010 00:05:51
Thank you for your comment! I'm facing everything you addressed. I have a new partner and the thought of me touching myself really turns him on. He hasnt seen me do it yet, but we've talked about it. I want to do it and i will do it but, I'm a little nervous cuz I'm just learning to be comfortable with myself. But he's been wonderfully patient cuz he makes me feel like it's initially all about me! Then, all about us! Thank you sooooooooooo much for assuring me that I'm normal and not alone!
Comment by: FullofSmiles 06/22/2010 13:33:55
Thank YOU for letting us know we've helped!! Have fun.
Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 07/06/2010 10:18:03
My wife and I masturbated together last night as we do occasionally. We started out by kissing and fondling, but when things got more heated I took her hand and moved it down to her genitals --- we have done this enough so she knew what I meant. Then I put my hand under her ass and entered her vagina with my thumb while kissing and sucking on her breasts. She really enjoyed herself and it was liberating for her to give herself exactly what she needed while still having the shared intimacy of partner sex. After she had a terrific orgasm we traded places and I brought myself to agonizingly slow orgasm while she kissed me on the mouth and massaged my anus. I guess we have both come to the conclusion that no one can masturbate you as well as you can do it yourself. But we like to sex to be shared at the same time. This works great for us and I recommend it to all of you out there --- especially the women. The first time you masturbate together it is especially great, since overcoming the taboo can be really exciting, with the added benefit of perfect technique. Don't be shy. Your man wants you to be satisfied and will love to see you do this for yourself.
Comment by: chris 02/16/2011 23:12:01
Hi girlz! Im very young and i masturbate almost every day. My parents dont know, so im pretty much hiding it whenever i do it. They havent even told me about sex, much less mastirbating! please tell me what 2 do!!! - a young girl
Comment by: Hiiii! 03/27/2011 22:48:56
kindly tell if someone can
do woman find it absurd that men masturbate
it is ok if a man shares male cream and shows it to her
Comment by: vish 04/09/2011 09:46:24
Dude ur crazy no woman on earth wants to see ur cum! If they do they must (for some odd reason) get turned on by it, but other than that its really gross to pretty much everyone. ( just my opinion no haterz plz)
Comment by: Nunya 04/21/2011 22:34:35
Nunya, if you say it's your opinion, then please don't include 'every woman on earth' in it, thanks. And honestly, I really want to see my boyfriend get himself off, but until now he hasn't been comfortable with doind it in front of me, maybe in the future, I'll keep on hoping :)
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Being a female the hardest obstacle for me to overcome was the fact that I was moving my hand 10 times faster than my male partner was. Eventually I got over this and my partner gently joked about it instead of ignoring the issue every time I brought it up. The fact that we laughed about it made it so much easier to touch myself at such a rapid pace in front of him.
So lesson learned, communication is key. Anything you're worried about, moaning, facial expressions, the length it takes you to orgasm; talk to your partner and become comfortable with them.
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do woman find it absurd that men masturbate
it is ok if a man shares male cream and shows it to her
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