Are your orgasms concentrated in one area or spread throughout? Do they feel as if they are coming from your vagina or from your clitoris? Female orgasms can range in intensity, length and area of origin. Dr. Yvonne Fulbright teaches us about the various kinds. (4:30)
I'm glad I saw this because for a long time I was feeling jealous, inferior and frustrated because I can't have a vaginal orgasm, or multiples. Only clit. It's good to know I'm normal and not defective.
Comment by: moonfire 01/03/2009 11:31:36
Great
Comment by: Maharaja 01/04/2009 08:33:27
i love cherry tv, many many thangs...........
Comment by: ador 06/11/2009 15:35:29
just what i wanted to know
Comment by: Mwafrika 07/20/2009 14:26:03
It is unfortunate that as much as 30% of women do not experience an orgasm. There are different reasons for this to occur. Sometimes it is due to the man not knowing what to do.
From my experience and knowledge, women can experience more than 3 types. It seems like our society does not promote the other types.
Comment by: Roberto 09/26/2009 17:10:36
How about the uterine or cul-de-sac orgasm?
Comment by: Cherry Taker 03/12/2010 15:05:23
hmmm ... sounds good! please explain.
Comment by: ladybug 03/12/2010 17:11:08
which one of those is the super orgasm
Comment by: flavur 06/16/2010 00:27:58
Not any one is the super one -- they can all be super, or they can all be mild. However, clitoral tends to be the one where, during a particularly strong orgasm, the woman might shake, vibrate, and moan uncontrollably.
Comment by: ladybug 07/06/2010 10:13:55
Thank you soooooo much!!!!!
Comment by: naya 07/13/2010 13:36:29
I have found that the thicker and bigger around the penis, the more likely I am to have a blended orgasm or orgasms. And it is breathtaking. Length matters less, but is good also. It seems the extra thickness gets my g-spot better. Has anyone else found this to be true too?
Comment by: sweetness 03/06/2011 11:31:56
Yes! Yes! Yes! ( a little joke there). The thickness and distance around your lover's penis makes a tremendous difference. If my lover didn't have a thick penis, the only way I could have g-spot orgasms, or ejaculate, for that matter, would be from finger sex. I'm with you sister! Don't buy the "size doesn't matter" propaganda.
Comment by: purplesunshine 03/08/2011 20:39:39
It's been my experience that there's little to compare with the visa/mastercard orgasm.. Alot to be said for multiple fast succession purchases...'specially when yer on the top I'm thinkin'.. lol!
Comment by: cork 03/18/2011 02:19:10
i use to use vibrator before i met my partner now i dont feel organism when we having sex.only with vibrator i feel organism help plz..!
Comment by: sweet 04/22/2011 09:30:05
So I can not have an orgasm! No matter what I do; have my boyfriend finger me, me fingering myself, water: NOTHING! I really don't want to have sex with him yet and I don't want to buy a vibrator..! What do I do!
Comment by: Help less. 07/05/2011 20:25:24
My wife had never had an orgasm before we were married (I was a 21 year old virgin, she'd had at least one partner at 20). A good friend of mine, had given me some advice and she had her first orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation, though she admitted a few years later, she had been faking vaginal orgasms - I was too young and inexperienced to know the difference.
It was a little disappointing, not crushing because I'm smarter than that, but disappointing because of the lack of good communication.
Determined to become better sex partners (and a little older), we began to educate ourselves and really extending our repertoire. It's paid off!
After 28 years of marriage, we now enjoy real clitoral, vaginal, and anal orgasms; and combinations of all the above.
@ sweet: Hope things are better, but I can't help but think there's a communications problem. Either you're not showing him what you need, or he's not listening. Remember, even a relationship requires a little effort and compromise.
@ Help less: I bought her her first vibrator so that she and we could explore her body - it was a little different at first, but ultimately worth it. Relax and indulge yourself, then share what you've learned; while procreation is natural, intimate sex is an exciting journey, IMHO.
Comment by: Anonymous Husband 10/23/2011 03:02:43
This is good.. i learned what its call.. "blend" thats th one I like to make for my woman.. thanks CherryTV.
Comment by: Roshan 11/03/2011 20:46:41
im in a new relationship and my boyfriend refused to go down on me. the problem is i can only have clitoral orgasms. and eventhough i mention this to him he refuses to have oral sex! help!!!
Comment by: confused 11/14/2011 01:00:55
I love it wen my girl touches my cock out the blue then she wud say to me to undo my jeans then wen its undone she wud pull my boxer shorts donw and she wil stroke it she tells me she likes touchin it like that then she wud say sumthing like do u want it in my mouth for example i get realy horny then wen she starts she makes my cock all wet and slippery she wil lick under the head and giv me naughty looks i love watching her lyk that she wud ask me dirty questions wen i say yeh baby she wud qwickly turn in to a slut and shel be humming with my cock inside her mouth that feels so good and when am nearli cumming she wud say where do u wna cum i find that a proper tease i love cummin on her tits then after i cum she wud squeeze my cock with her tits n ask me how much i liked it then she wants it when shes tired me out
Comment by: Iluvabjob 11/15/2011 19:01:35
@ "confused": My wife has to be in a very special mood to enjoy cunnilingus, though I like doing her a lot - so I can empathize.
You didn't mention if he likes you going down on him; if not, he may have had a bad experience or may not feel confident in his technique and it works both ways against him.
Do you watch videos? Most couples type videos tend to stick to the intimate basics of oral sex foreplay, move on to intercourse, and finish with the money shot, maybe you could use this as a platform to initiate a dialog?
If the relationship is solid, and truly moving toward an everlasting commitment, you might seek some counseling.
What you don't want to do, IMHO, is push him to a breaking point - you still won't be satisfied, and hell be resentful.
As difficult as it may be, you may have to sacrifice this simple pleasure for a lifelong friend and settle for an alternative.
Comment by: Anonymous Husband 11/17/2011 01:09:54
wonderfun night cherrytv. explosive orgasm
Comment by: niki 05/03/2012 00:16:11
My first boy friend had a long and fat penis. We also enjoy sex very well with all the style and ending up with gut organism. now i am married to a man with a short and thin penis. I hardly reach organsim. i do not ejoy sex with him but i love him. What should i do?
Comment by: Nikky 07/20/2012 06:02:21
i like it
Comment by: drkokolso 08/19/2012 12:40:27
Nikky, This seems to be a problem with many men of different sizes. I (male) have a slender penis however, Im longer than most. (I guess a pencil dick lol) My GF whom I have been with for almost 2 years now almost never reaches orgasm while having sex. She masturbates often during the day and we decided to introduce one of her toys while having sex. Did the trick. :) Just explore. I cant be happy till she is.
Comment by: valet444 09/15/2012 13:58:45
At a tender young age, my mohter told me sex is another chore like doing the dishes. I refused to believe that and set out to discover it for myself. Long story short (another book perhaps!) I have had 2 out of body experience orgasms, amongst many smaller ones. The tension is important, yessiree. Those 2 out of bodies I believe is the essence of a TRUE orgasm. I was satisfied if I never had another one, as I considered them a 10.9 on the Richter scale, whereas all the others ranged from 2.3-maybe 5.6 s. I consider myself lucky to have experienced these two events', because most people may define orgasms as those only reaching a 3.This is a great topic to share about, eternally interesting to get people to come out and discuss it like gardening. Then we all wouldn't be so isolated in our own secrecy thinking everyone else has it better and something is wrong with us. Hurrah!
Comment by: Auth 09/25/2012 03:36:45
I will incorporate oral for her whenever we have sex, every morning. I will on occasion wake her with my tongue. I have learned to give her what how and when,on weekends when we have time I will tease and please her for hours. Recently almost by accident I have be getting her to squirrel, wrong word flush she was actually afraid of the event but I enjoyed it immensly! It does require a great deal of time, which is all fun. But finding her g was so intimate that I can get her to orgasm by kissing her and whispering in her ear how much I enjoy the taste of her.
When I enter her she used to stimulate her Clit as I sawed my way to orgasm more recently she seems to just concentrate her way to orgasm.
she was experienced when we collided so after this commitment by me to be hers she has felt that she has been able to orgasm without touching herself. I'm pretty proud of being hers. She tells me that my patients has made her feel free to let herself do things for her that she had not been even aware were possible. Love an the desire to be there for her,to explore her whole body and her mind has allowed her tofeel comfortable enough to have an orgasm with my sweaty beastly body thrusting into her c()nt. She loves that word now!
it is not a vaginal orgasm we all know but if I can let her achieve orgasm with my voice is that a verbal orgasm?
It is always her orgasm, I like to tell myself I gave her her orgasm but it is always hers. I had spent long periods of time between a woman's legs and have been unable to GIVE them AN ORGASM! THE WOMAN HAS TO TRUSTand dare I say LOVE me/you.
I was not ready to be the "lover" I am now with any other partner. That was sex it was very enjoyable. And it was fun for both but it was not a way of life
She likes to fallate me when I'm flacks...another time!?
Comment by: tasting the one you love 11/04/2012 14:12:47
01/03/2009 11:31:36
01/04/2009 08:33:27
06/11/2009 15:35:29
07/20/2009 14:26:03
From my experience and knowledge, women can experience more than 3 types. It seems like our society does not promote the other types.
09/26/2009 17:10:36
03/12/2010 15:05:23
03/12/2010 17:11:08
06/16/2010 00:27:58
07/06/2010 10:13:55
07/13/2010 13:36:29
03/06/2011 11:31:56
03/08/2011 20:39:39
03/18/2011 02:19:10
04/22/2011 09:30:05
07/05/2011 20:25:24
It was a little disappointing, not crushing because I'm smarter than that, but disappointing because of the lack of good communication.
Determined to become better sex partners (and a little older), we began to educate ourselves and really extending our repertoire. It's paid off!
After 28 years of marriage, we now enjoy real clitoral, vaginal, and anal orgasms; and combinations of all the above.
@ sweet: Hope things are better, but I can't help but think there's a communications problem. Either you're not showing him what you need, or he's not listening. Remember, even a relationship requires a little effort and compromise.
@ Help less: I bought her her first vibrator so that she and we could explore her body - it was a little different at first, but ultimately worth it. Relax and indulge yourself, then share what you've learned; while procreation is natural, intimate sex is an exciting journey, IMHO.
10/23/2011 03:02:43
11/03/2011 20:46:41
11/14/2011 01:00:55
11/15/2011 19:01:35
You didn't mention if he likes you going down on him; if not, he may have had a bad experience or may not feel confident in his technique and it works both ways against him.
Do you watch videos? Most couples type videos tend to stick to the intimate basics of oral sex foreplay, move on to intercourse, and finish with the money shot, maybe you could use this as a platform to initiate a dialog?
If the relationship is solid, and truly moving toward an everlasting commitment, you might seek some counseling.
What you don't want to do, IMHO, is push him to a breaking point - you still won't be satisfied, and hell be resentful.
As difficult as it may be, you may have to sacrifice this simple pleasure for a lifelong friend and settle for an alternative.
11/17/2011 01:09:54
05/03/2012 00:16:11
07/20/2012 06:02:21
08/19/2012 12:40:27
09/15/2012 13:58:45
09/25/2012 03:36:45
When I enter her she used to stimulate her Clit as I sawed my way to orgasm more recently she seems to just concentrate her way to orgasm.
she was experienced when we collided so after this commitment by me to be hers she has felt that she has been able to orgasm without touching herself. I'm pretty proud of being hers. She tells me that my patients has made her feel free to let herself do things for her that she had not been even aware were possible. Love an the desire to be there for her,to explore her whole body and her mind has allowed her tofeel comfortable enough to have an orgasm with my sweaty beastly body thrusting into her c()nt. She loves that word now!
it is not a vaginal orgasm we all know but if I can let her achieve orgasm with my voice is that a verbal orgasm?
It is always her orgasm, I like to tell myself I gave her her orgasm but it is always hers. I had spent long periods of time between a woman's legs and have been unable to GIVE them AN ORGASM! THE WOMAN HAS TO TRUSTand dare I say LOVE me/you.
I was not ready to be the "lover" I am now with any other partner. That was sex it was very enjoyable. And it was fun for both but it was not a way of life
She likes to fallate me when I'm flacks...another time!?
11/04/2012 14:12:47