How Masturbation Helps

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How Masturbation Helps

How does masturbation help & why? What about it helps our sex lives? Masturbation is important because we learn how to get ourselves off. When we know how to reach orgasm on our own, can we teach our partner how to do it to us! (more...). (3:19)

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	It's interesting about the "practicing" good sex on yourself... hmmmm, the more orgasms you have the more you can have? Are other people like that?	Comment by: Funky Girl 06/03/2008 19:10:24

	I tend to masturbate more when I'm single but I definitely make time for it when I'm in a relationship too. I like it for different reasons than I like sex with another person. I can be quick or very long or loud or soft or whatever I want it to be. I sort of see it the same way I see having my cup of coffee in the morning. I need it in order to get that extra boost!	Comment by: LadyInRed 06/07/2008 23:31:36

	Interesting I tend to mastorate more when "in" a realationship as an exstension of my intimacy I love . When I'm single when I masterbate I can not orgasm as readily, loose interest fast, and reminds me why Im masterbating then doing what I really desire to be doing. The intimacy close to someone you really care about. Mutual masterbation is highly erotic to me also.	Comment by: Diva_deja 09/10/2008 13:04:19

	love to hear womens thoughts on masturbation...i do it frequently myself...Al	Comment by: bigal 12/03/2008 20:59:18

	i love to masturbate in front of my boy it makes him horny enough to turn me apart it really feels good when i see the look at his eyes	Comment by: horny girl 12/08/2008 12:38:16

	i love you	Comment by: loobee 04/21/2009 09:46:34

	Masterbation is wonderful,Love the way my vagina feels and looks,it feels so great to spread open and play in the water or in the bed,I cant stop looking at it..	Comment by: lon 06/12/2009 19:54:45

	Materbation,,,,,,,, I LOVE IT,, I HAVE A HUSBAND BUT,,MATERBATION IS GREAT,,	Comment by: HOT GIRL 09/22/2009 00:55:30

	I LOVE masterbation too! I do it at least every other day if not every day! And yeah, I'm in a great relationship with lots of fun sex! In masterbation you just know how you want it and when!	Comment by: Ione 12/10/2009 10:21:50

	I'm just worried because when I masturbate too much, my lips and the area around my clit get puffy. Almost swollen, but there's no fluid inside. Is this normal? Of course, the swelling goes down in a few days if I steer clear of masturbating, but everyone seems to have NO ISSUES with it, and I wonder why I am like this...or maybe it's normal. Please help!!	Comment by: concerned 01/28/2010 22:29:39

	I have just started becoming comfortable with masturbating. My husband actually has encouraged me to do it. He gets really turned on by it and it has helped our sex. We do a lot of exploring together and I have gotten more comfortable when by myself.	Comment by: Firegirl31 08/05/2010 20:58:39

	I am trying to incorporate masturbation into my regular routine, including during sex - I think it's very hot to masturbate together. However I have very little success bringing myself to orgasm without toys/tools/assistance from my partner. My partner is very threatened by my self gratification, feeling jealousy & possession of my pussy and NO TOLERANCE for toys. Any suggestions?	Comment by: RoseyRedHot 08/28/2010 19:07:15

	Firegirl 31, awesome. Knowing ones self and being comfortable with self-stimulation is such a help during partner sex. It's thrilling to hear you've become more comfortable at it -- and are embracing it. Keep it up!!	Comment by: ladybug 08/30/2010 21:28:41

	Rosey Red Hot, it's too bad he feels that way -- though it's not surprising because everywhere sex is portrayed within mass media, it shows a woman reaching mind-blowing orgasms through intercourse alone. But, as we know, it's a FARSE! Few women climax through penis stimulation alone, and need help from other methods. In terms of your current situation -- you just need to keep talking to him about it, and reminding him that it's NOT HIM! It's just the way it is. There is NO REASON he should feel bad that you need additional stimulation. Maybe even show him a few of our videos like: http://www.cherrytv.com/video/ … ntercourse http://www.cherrytv.com/video/ … -we-orgasm Good luck!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 08/30/2010 21:35:54

	masturbate is a bad habit it affect the long-term health	Comment by: tripl x 08/31/2010 20:03:15

	tripl x, you have the right to your own opinion regarding it being a "bad habit," but it certainly doesn't affect long-term health. It actually helps it by keeping the sexual response mechanisms active. Hence, I would venture to say (as I believe), it's a good habit!	Comment by: ladybug 09/01/2010 21:09:19

	My girl friend claims that she can't put her hand in the Virgina to masturbate because it is too sensitive to her but she can touch her breast only to reach orgasm. I think she is pretending because i do hear sound of her wet pussy during our phone sex. Why will she be pretending to me? is female masturbating not good? Can a girl who enjoys sex so much don't enjoy fingering her pussy?. Please somebody should help me out because i can't stay with someone who pretends	Comment by: faithful because of masturbation 09/02/2010 13:07:13

	My girl friend claims that she can't put her hand in the Virgina to masturbate because it is too sensitive to her but she can touch her breast only to reach orgasm. I think she is pretending because i do hear sound of her wet pussy during our phone sex. Why will she be pretending to me? is female masturbating not good? Can a girl who enjoys sex so much don't enjoy fingering her pussy?. Please somebody should help me out because i can't stay with someone who pretends	Comment by: Masturbator 09/02/2010 13:08:59

	Women/girls experience a range of comfort levels with masturbation and touching themselves -- and admitting it -- because we get such mixed messages about it. I'm sure as time goes by, and the more you tell her how beautiful it is and turns her on, she get more comfortable doing/admit it. Don't push her though. Just encourage!	Comment by: Cherry TV Chickalee 09/13/2010 10:30:37

	Even when I use lube and am relxed before, I can't insert anything wider than about 2 fingers in my vagina without extreme pain..normal sex has almost become out of the question as well, because it's not pleasureable but the complete opposite!! Any thoughts...?	Comment by: Noel 12/22/2010 00:43:36